Culture North Carolina student denied diploma after wearing Mexican flag over graduation gown - "I did it for my family," student Ever Lopez said.


A North Carolina high school student said he was denied his diploma at his graduation ceremony for wearing a Mexican flag over his gown.

Ever Lopez draped a Mexican flag over his blue gown at Asheboro High School's graduation ceremony Thursday night.

Livestreamed video footage from the ceremony shows the principal ask him to take the flag off. After an unsuccessful attempt to take it off, he was handed his diploma holder, which the other students also received. But after walking across the stage, he was denied his actual diploma.

Lopez told ABC News, "When I got up there I went for the handshake and I wasn't thinking nothing of it and I heard her say, 'You can't wear that.' And I was in shock and confused. I was like, 'What?' She was like, 'The flag. You can't wear that.'"

The incident has sparked outrage and led to a protest outside the school Friday. However, the school district insists that Lopez's actions "violated the ceremony's dress code" and "the incident is not about the Mexican flag."


Lopez said he wore the flag to honor his family as he's the first to graduate from high school in his immediate family.

"It means everything to me," Lopez told ABC News of wearing the Mexican flag. "My parents, my whole family, is from over there. I did it for them because they had a rough childhood; they didn't get the scholarship that I got, or they didn't get to go to school like I did. So ... representing my flag and getting a diploma was really important to me because I was basically doing it for my family."

Lopez said that Asheboro high school asked him to apologize as a condition of receiving his diploma.

"I don't know why I should apologize, when it should be heard, because I did nothing wrong," Lopez said.

In a statement to ABC News on Sunday, the Asheboro city school district said that Lopez's diploma has been available for pick up since Friday and that an apology has never been requested, expected or required.

Afterward graduation, Lopez's family was escorted off the school property "after a request was made by Principal [Penny] Crooks," Asheboro police told ABC News. Asheboro police officers were working the graduation in "an approved off-duty capacity."

Lopez said he has still yet to receive his diploma.

Asheboro City schools said in a statement that the graduation dress code was shared with students ahead of time and allowed for students to decorate their graduation caps, but "the wearing of a flag of any kind is a violation of the dress code." In livestream footage of the graduation, a number of students are seen with alterations to their caps, featuring handwritten messages, drawings or flowers.

The backlash to the incident has led to the school receiving threats, according to authorities.

The superintendent said an employee received a threatening email on Friday that said "I’m gonna shoot up this school if you don’t give that young man his diploma," according to the Asheboro Police Department.

"Te Asheboro Police Department is investigating 9 additional emails, for a total of 10, that have been sent to school employees via email threatening violence against the school and/or the employee," the department said in a statement.

The school district said Friday in a statement that it supports "our students' expressions of their heritage in the appropriate time and place."

"We continue working to resolve this issue with the student and his family so that he will receive his diploma from Asheboro High School. He has worked very hard and we commend him on this great achievement. We are confident in his abilities and we know he has a bright future ahead of him," the statement added.

In a follow-up statement the school district said: "This incident is not about the Mexican flag. Students were encouraged to express their identity by decorating their mortar boards. A number of students followed the protocol and had the Mexican flag and other representations appropriately displayed during the ceremony."

Lopez told ABC News no one ever discussed that bringing a flag wouldn't be permitted.

On Friday, a group of around 30 people gathered outside the high school to show support for Lopez, demanding he receive his diploma. An online petition has also garnered more than 73,000 signatures as of Saturday afternoon.

"Well, it's crazy. I didn't expect it, all the community to come together like that," Lopez said of the support. "I was just walked out of school. I was kind of like down. I was like, 'Dang man I didn't get my diploma and stuff.' ... It is crazy because the next day I woke up and I had people calling me, saying, 'Oh man, you got interviews, you got interviews, you got interviews.' And I'm like, 'What?' And then what shocked me the most, other than the interviews, was the protest at my school because I didn't know about that."

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Hurtado is a fancy way to say "stolen" in spanish
Are you telling me that when I got funny feelings about him having two iPhones for sale and buying another one, and I misread
I’m such a good older brother, my sister wants the new iPhone so guess whose getting it for her ? <emojis> obviously gonna make her pay for it <emojis> I’m just physically getting it
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I’m such a good older brother, my sister wants the new iPhone so guess whose getting it for her ? <emojis> obviously gonna pay for it <emojis>
And I also got shifty feelings at
Everyone and they grandmama wearing Champion like it’s on sale or stolen <pirate skull, crying, eyes, thinking, shush>
I wasn't just being racist thinking he sounds like a theif? He legitimately might be another Chipotle Dine&Dasher liftshopper proudly advertising his crimes on Twitter?

E: oh and I think there was something about winning the lottery without buying a ticket, at first read it like he wanted to mug someone for the ticket until I decided maybe he thought lotteries were like sweepstakes that have a mandatory no purchase entry method.
 
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"It means everything to me," Lopez told ABC News of wearing the Mexican flag. "My parents, my whole family, is from over there
Um, why is it the family moved to the States?
"I don't know why I should apologize, when it should be heard, because I did nothing wrong," Lopez said
You did do something wrong. You might not have realised it at the time, but you did do something wrong.
Lopez said he has still yet to receive his diploma
I don't think it's that big of a deal. You don't need a diploma to go into cash in hand unskilled labouring.
 
So it should be easy for you to follow the rules bro
It doesn't make sense to me why some kid in a random North Carolina high school wearing a Mexican flag to honor his family needs to become a national story or a litmus test for a person's politics. It's cute, it's fun and it isn't a big deal. People write on their hats all the time at graduation, let the kid wear his flag or at least don't yank his diploma. The fuck is wrong with you guys?
 
It doesn't make sense to me why some kid in a random North Carolina high school wearing a Mexican flag to honor his family needs to become a national story or a litmus test for a person's politics. It's cute, it's fun and it isn't a big deal. People write on their hats all the time at graduation, let the kid wear his flag or at least don't yank his diploma. The fuck is wrong with you guys?
You would be shitting yourself with rage if some kid was up there with a Trump 2024 flag.
 
Are you honestly trying to claim that a national flag, something that is innately political, isn't political? Seriously?
It is national pride, which doesn't have to be political. Everyone can and should be proud of where they came from. The kid's reason makes perfect sense and is innocent on its face. I'm not the one trying to crucify a high school graduate for showing pride in his family and heritage. Any politicization that is happening is occurring within the response to the event and is all external to what the kid did.
 
I don't think it's that big of a deal. You don't need a diploma to go into cash in hand unskilled labouring.
If he's telling the truth about it having sentimental value, then it does matter, even if it's never meaningfully used.

But if it's that important, I find it surprising he'd risk his diploma in a little bitchfest with the school.

I don't know about a normal experience, but in my 4 year high school experience:
  • I knew administration was full of bullshit 1 week in
  • I knew I personally had issues with the administration 2 months in
  • Basically half of year 4 was spent threatening us to return our library books or else we would have our diplomas withheld. Textbooks too, but they harped harder about the library for some reason.
  • (No mention was made of if they would ever return our lunch money, however. Only the students have to clear their debts, of course the school can just keep the money for services not rendered~!)
  • I even had teachers say that after graduation we'd have to come back to school to finish projects or else. (Not projects we were behind on and had makeup work for, projects that the teacher had a fixed timeline for that we were not allowed to get ahead of the timeline on. The teacher's schedule mandated that we be unable to complete the project before graduation and we had to pay for it by coming back to school).

Oh and for before graduation itself, on graduation day, they were pissy that while I was waiting in the summery outdoors without even a single parent around, I wasn't fully buttoned up. I wasn't lewd, I had street clothes underneath (compounded with summer, not comfy). I didn't have any extra/missing pieces, like this kid and they were already threatening my diploma.

I refuse to believe this kid both cared about his diploma that much and didn't realize that his school was the kind of shithole what would hold that shit over his head like a noose. He had four years to learn what kind of school he was dealing with.

It is national pride, which doesn't have to be political. Everyone can and should be proud of where they came from. The kid's reason makes perfect sense and is innocent on its face. I'm not the one trying to crucify a high school graduate for showing pride in his family and heritage. Any politicization that is happening is occurring within the response to the event and is all external to what the kid did.
You might believe that, if we're lucky Ever Lopez himself believes that, but his cousin leading the social media movement to get the kid his diploma doesn't believe it. Adolfo Hurtado sees a modern German flag and immediately thinks Adolf Hitler, because that's totally the only thing Germany's ever done.

The people who are defending wearing a towel sized flag to graduation would not defend wearing every flag to graduation. Not even if we just narrow it down to modern country flags.
 
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Maybe we can just deport the little shit, since he loves Mexico so much. Send the entire family right back, since they don't want to assimilate.
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Adolfo Hurtado sees a modern German flag and immediately thinks Adolf Hitler
Good.
 
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If the rules state "don't wear a flag", don't wear a fucking flag. Easy call. Ceremony is not about you, it's about the graduating class as a whole. Same reason most schools get annoyed by kids acting a fool on stage. The principal even gave him a chance to take it off and "he couldn't". My school had a similar policy where not following the guidelines means you don't get your diploma. If it's that important just apologize.
 
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