Stephanie Cianfriglia / Sapphire Crimson Claw / Yarrow Brown / the-ghost-fucker / transmascdruid / anarchoenby77 / darktwistedpussy / Druid of Endicot - Xe/xyr ghost-fucker, womb wizard, hand sanitizer sommelier, trans-boomer, violently abuses her elderly parents, has sexual fantasies about raping children

Moms love true crime, so it's possible that they were watching a documentary together when Mama Frigly suddenly realized that her beloved daughter was rooting for the wrong side.
I feel this is possible- Mama Frigly might be one of those old true crime junkies and if Staph was around when she was watching it and it was all the time? Might get some wires crossed in an already unstable mind.

This is why even if someone likes true crime, if they have kids turn off ID channel. Kids are too young to understand the nuances and factors and humanity of situations like that, it’s seen as normal for some reason but it’s not. Not a Puritan or anything but even stuff like Law and Order SVU has some pretty graphic sexual assault scenes and grandmas will happily watch it when the grandkids are over all day.
Autism over.
 
I feel this is possible- Mama Frigly might be one of those old true crime junkies and if Staph was around when she was watching it and it was all the time? Might get some wires crossed in an already unstable mind.
In a slightly kinder world, Staphy would have just ended up with a crush on Christopher Meloni.
 
I wonder if her parents know about her serial killer thing.
I think it's impossible they don't, one of her "battle jackets" is adorned with Richard Ramirez patches. Combining that with her oversharing her special interests to her parents, while I don't think she's specifically told us so, I think they absolutely must be aware of it.

And let's be honest, they don't deserve her shit or her blatant elder abuse, but they seem to have fucking weird socially awkward responses to things themselves - As I think any normal parent would have shut that shit down and not let their sped out in nightstalker fangirl shirts.
 
Poor Peetie is getting so fat it looks like the potato cat meme.

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Is there any update on Staph’s mom’s health? I hope she is doing well and COVID hasn’t delayed her cancer’s treatment too long. The FAS tard of her daughter is so narcissistic that she only talk about her parents to complain about them.
 
I feel this is possible- Mama Frigly might be one of those old true crime junkies and if Staph was around when she was watching it and it was all the time? Might get some wires crossed in an already unstable mind.

This is why even if someone likes true crime, if they have kids turn off ID channel. Kids are too young to understand the nuances and factors and humanity of situations like that, it’s seen as normal for some reason but it’s not. Not a Puritan or anything but even stuff like Law and Order SVU has some pretty graphic sexual assault scenes and grandmas will happily watch it when the grandkids are over all day.
Autism over.

My mother is a true crime junkie and into the paranormal and rarely turned off what she was watching, even when elementary school-aged Sylvie was there. It was always documentaries, though, but there's only so much you can blame on exposure to true crime at a young age; people can be exposed to that much later in life and have the same sort of hybristophiliac awakening. (ETA) My father also used to play violent and gorey video games around elementary school-aged Sylvie and his brother and neither of us are that fucked up because of it. He was more careful about it when we were in kindergarten and younger, but once we would get to second or third grade he stopped giving as much of a shit. So it really does depend on the type of person that's being exposed to these sorts of things.


#FreePeetie for the love of God
 
Wow, the anniversary of 9/11 is not the day to basically say fuck the victims people die from other shit too. For someone who claims to be able to talk to ghosts she has zero respect for the dead.
She shamelessly wears apparel displaying the faces of some of history’s most depraved and notorious serial killers, posting disrespectful and ignorant shit about a national tragedy (regardless if it kicked off this country’s cringey patriotism fetish which I also find weird and off putting) is pretty on brand for her at this point. Watch her get called out by someone who lost a loved one that day and she proceeds to have another meltdown.

How would she feel if someone posted a similar status about Stonewall? “Fuck this noise, other countries are still systematically murdering gays!”
 
I don’t care if I get TMI ratings, Stabler shirtless is hot and watching him beat pedophiles is hotter.
:feels: I wish there were a compilation video of that.
I think it's impossible they don't, one of her "battle jackets" is adorned with Richard Ramirez patches. Combining that with her oversharing her special interests to her parents, while I don't think she's specifically told us so, I think they absolutely must be aware of it.

And let's be honest, they don't deserve her shit or her blatant elder abuse, but they seem to have fucking weird socially awkward responses to things themselves - As I think any normal parent would have shut that shit down and not let their sped out in nightstalker fangirl shirts.
I don't think it's that as much they genuinely love their evil piece of shit daughter. It's the reason why truly I hate her.
I wish Staph really was a medium just so the ghosts of 9/11 would bully her.
 
I wonder if Papa Frigly is going to keep pressing about Steph’s quack therapist. How long has she been seeing this woman, at least a couple years right? Even if she wasn’t aware of her patient’s maladaptive daydreaming, that still is ample time to work on CBT/DBT exercises so events like what just happened are prevented.

I know therapy is different for everyone and is not at all a “quick fix”, but Steph has had the unique privilege of being able to address and work on her mental health while living at home and not being burdened by a job. The fact that she’s been seeing this lady—who I understand is a holistic practitioner that qualified by the skin of her teeth—for such a long time and has made zero progress is just as telling about that therapist’s efficacy as it is about Steph’s willingness to actually get better. Maybe that shrink is qualified to talk to rich woo woo yuppies that are stressed about the HOA block party, but Steph needs a therapist that will actually put in the hard work to break down her delusions and address her destructive behavioral problems.

You know Staph, if you’d spent this time going to a therapist that actually knew what they were doing, you might’ve had somewhat of a fighting chance getting SSI—you’re never going to get your own apartment, but surely a group home is better than living under your abusive father, right? Instead you wasted years of time and money (so many pins you could’ve bought!!) on an expensive yes man and you have literally nothing to show for it.
 
I wonder if Papa Frigly is going to keep pressing about Steph’s quack therapist. How long has she been seeing this woman, at least a couple years right? Even if she wasn’t aware of her patient’s maladaptive daydreaming, that still is ample time to work on CBT/DBT exercises so events like what just happened are prevented.

I know therapy is different for everyone and is not at all a “quick fix”, but Steph has had the unique privilege of being able to address and work on her mental health while living at home and not being burdened by a job. The fact that she’s been seeing this lady—who I understand is a holistic practitioner that qualified by the skin of her teeth—for such a long time and has made zero progress is just as telling about that therapist’s efficacy as it is about Steph’s willingness to actually get better. Maybe that shrink is qualified to talk to rich woo woo yuppies that are stressed about the HOA block party, but Steph needs a therapist that will actually put in the hard work to break down her delusions and address her destructive behavioral problems.

You know Staph, if you’d spent this time going to a therapist that actually knew what they were doing, you might’ve had somewhat of a fighting chance getting SSI—you’re never going to get your own apartment, but surely a group home is better than living under your abusive father, right? Instead you wasted years of time and money (so many pins you could’ve bought!!) on an expensive yes man and you have literally nothing to show for it.
I feel like she's been seeing the therapist longer than a couple years, but I could be wrong. They seem to have a mutual understanding. Staph doesn't want to do the work and actually get better, but she does want to whip out the "I'm going to therapy so don't blame me for my shitty behavior" card. Meanwhile, the ""therapist"" collects fees from a patient who will never make progress, and therefore will keep filling their bank account. They both get what they want in the end.

The situation is similar to one of my personal lolcows, who I'd like to post about somewhere but I feel like she's not that lulzy enough to share in the thread proper.

She had a meltdown last month because no one replies to her tweets whining and begging for attention. She had to go to "emergency therapy" because of it. And she's been seeing her therapist for 10 years or more and has made zero progress. Her ipod broke and her parents rightfully told her to get a job if she wants a new one, which she responded with "I can't, I can't do this or that, my therapist agrees!" So why hasn't the therapist helped her get on permanent disability? Why is this 32-year-old (same age as Staph, lol) still a BPD-addled wreck despite a fucking decade of therapy? Why can't this therapist see that and pass her onto someone more qualified? Because she's personally funding their luxury car and they like it that way.
 
Forgive me if this was brought up before (it’s a long ass thread!) but has Staph ever actually acknowledged that there are kiwis who are part of the same marginalized groups they supposedly are in? It’s just wild to me, there’s no way they can’t know on some level, but I would also expect them to be yelling on about traitors and bootlickers. Or maybe Staph is pulling the ultimate sin and accusing people online of faking being disabled or lgbt whenever they talk about the mean cishet allosexual neurotypical kiwi userbase. Their mental gymnastics know no bounds.
 
She had a meltdown last month because no one replies to her tweets whining and begging for attention. She had to go to "emergency therapy" because of it. And she's been seeing her therapist for 10 years or more and has made zero progress. Her ipod broke and her parents rightfully told her to get a job if she wants a new one, which she responded with "I can't, I can't do this or that, my therapist agrees!" So why hasn't the therapist helped her get on permanent disability? Why is this 32-year-old (same age as Staph, lol) still a BPD-addled wreck despite a fucking decade of therapy? Why can't this therapist see that and pass her onto someone more qualified? Because she's personally funding their luxury car and they like it that way.
you wanna share more with the rest of the class? 👀 she sounds like a delight.

Forgive me if this was brought up before (it’s a long ass thread!) but has Staph ever actually acknowledged that there are kiwis who are part of the same marginalized groups they supposedly are in? It’s just wild to me, there’s no way they can’t know on some level, but I would also expect them to be yelling on about traitors and bootlickers. Or maybe Staph is pulling the ultimate sin and accusing people online of faking being disabled or lgbt whenever they talk about the mean cishet allosexual neurotypical kiwi userbase. Their mental gymnastics know no bounds.

i think steph's thread has one of the highest concentration of queers and pagans on the entire website, to be completely honest. us fags like to cannibalize their own *yawn* there's a "lol i'm an actual witch/trans person/disabled/queer/person of color/whatever and steph is a piece of shit" post every couple of pages. in fact, there's people that actually respect they/them pronouns, you being one of them! when someone says that not all people on kiwi farm are alt right trump thumpers, steph just plugs her ears and goes "LALALA KIWI FARMS IS FULL OF NAZIS AND ALT RIGHTS."
it's all or nothing with her. black and white thinking. you could be her most perfect, idealized version of an oppressed person, but as soon as you say you go on kiwifarms or say that you don't believe michael jackson possessed her, she'll call you a TERF and a truscum bootlicker and threaten to shit down your throat on her private tumblr.
 
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