how do i find a woman when I work in a 95% male dominated field?

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the thrown away said:
I go to church but its one of those trad old people churches sadly. there's a girl that's interested in me but shes fat.
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You don't want to meet anyone from church. You can take whatever sexual pecadillos you have and throw them right out the window because a girl from church isn't going to do them.
Meet a girl at Barnes & Noble. Go hang out in the manga section or whatever you like and you'll end up seeing a girl there and just say hi to her and start talking to her. I've met a ton of girls at the bookstore.
 
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peachlover669 said:
ive heard of many men who were succesful in finding a wife with this strategy but theres one thing i cannot understand about it, how do you get them in the bag? ive tried the paper bags (doesnt work, the handles just fall off due to the weight of the female) and the plastic bags (too small to fit the women into one) aswell as my own bags from home (walmart security confiscated my duffelbag at the door and i left empty handed) so what i want to ask is how do you fit them into your bag? am i missing something?
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Easy. You ditch the bag and put her in a shopping cart
 
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the thrown away said:
Im thinking about just going to college for networking and then I can find myself a nice girl. I don't even need the degree, When I worked with a femoid, she told me she was going to college solely bc she wanted to find a guy to marry.
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That's a strategy that can very well work. Question is: How much will it cost you?

the thrown away said:
I work in IT, how am i supposed to find a woman outside of dating apps?
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Grocery shopping? If she approaches you in a friendly way, smiling at you, seeming slightly confused, not really knowing what to say, and visibly blushing (although make-up can hide that; dolls GTFO), then she probably is attracted to you.
 
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the thrown away said:
I go to church but its one of those trad old people churches sadly. there's a girl that's interested in me but shes fat.
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You might just want to take the L and settle for the thick girl. Is she tolerable to be around? Is she nice? Can she cook? Does she have a cute face? Does she have a healthy relationship with her parents? What's her credit score and medicine cabinet look like? These are the important questions.

Besides, you work in IT. I'm sure both of you could benefit from hitting the gym.
 
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I feel you man. I work in manufacturing so there are zero chicks. I just struggle to be attracted to people I don't know for an extended amount of time, and once your out of school it's hard to keep building those types of relationships.

I bet you have something in your life that can land you some female attention. For me I'm starting to play guitar at open mics. I've known how to play the guitar since I was 8, but I never thought of it as a way to attract people and socialize until recently. Look for things like that in your life and then play off of that.
 
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AnneRipper1010 said:
Maybe try a church or some kind of club, the recreational Kind not the party kind. College has a lot of bimbos IMO
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I know a couple guys that go to church and they've all said that especially the last couple years there's been so many autistic retards that are transparently there just to try to find le tradwife GF or whatever.

It's pathetic and ALWAYS glaringly obvious.
 
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What does work have to do with dating? First get rid of the anime pfp, on every platform. Women aren't down for that. Next, find something you like that isn't computers. Make a social media account that showcases your interest in your new hobby. Keep at it, no seriously if lolcows can get pussy you can too.
 
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Lets see, you have an anime pfp so you need a waifu.
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peachlover669 said:
ive heard of many men who were succesful in finding a wife with this strategy but theres one thing i cannot understand about it, how do you get them in the bag? ive tried the paper bags (doesnt work, the handles just fall off due to the weight of the female) and the plastic bags (too small to fit the women into one) aswell as my own bags from home (walmart security confiscated my duffelbag at the door and i left empty handed) so what i want to ask is how do you fit them into your bag? am i missing something?
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All I know for sure is that silence is golden but duct tape is silver.
 
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Dating apps are still a pretty common way but straight men are the most overcrowded group on those by far so you can expect to spend a lot of time for few matches (or none).

Hobby classes aren't a bad option: some said ceramics but there's also artistic shit like painting, sculpting or drawing groups... or practical stuff like pottery or leatherworking but the further you get into the "harder" practical hobby stuff like woodworking or metalworking you'll find it to be male-dominated again.

Amateur mixed-sex sports leagues are an interesting option; the people you meet may be able to introduce you to single women in their circles. Sports can also improve your body type and appearance if you play the right ones so that can be a side benefit. Something like softball or soccer will have more women than say basketball; don't try to bone the chicks on your team but keep in mind they have friends and cousins who might be available. Some sports have expensive equipment requirements and/or a brutal learning curve (hockey is both for example) and that tends to turn women away. Jogging groups are often well-attended by women and have minimal equipment and skill requirements.

Sports, like hobby groups, will be heavily male dominated if they are difficult and if they have more self-improvement value and other practical applications. Hobbies that are whimsical bullshit will have more women involved. So it's a trade-off whether you want to go the "make yourself more attractive" route or the "meet more women to roll the dice on" route.

Last big tip: be friendly and outgoing with the older women you meet at, say, a jogging group. They enjoy interacting with young men, they will talk about you to the people they know, and they love playing Dutch uncle and trying to be the agent of hooking people up. So ensure they think you're a "nice young man" and a good prospect.
 
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McLean Deluxe said:
I bet you have something in your life that can land you some female attention. For me I'm starting to play guitar at open mics. I've known how to play the guitar since I was 8, but I never thought of it as a way to attract people and socialize until recently. Look for things like that in your life and then play off of that.
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I know a bit of german, i could keep working ok it. I like learning languages, I asked grok, and grok said its a heavily female skewed hobby. Overall tho, im basically a grand strategy history autist.
 
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the thrown away said:
I know a bit of german, i could keep working ok it. I like learning languages, I asked grok, and grok said its a heavily female skewed hobby. Overall tho, im basically a grand strategy history autist.
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Yeah me too. I have a chronic addiction to EU5 and history documentaries which is a total chick repellent. But the language idea is a good one, go take an actual class in public, or hell, if you can work remotely go to Germany and enroll in a language school for a month.
 
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