Almost all of the negative information about you that has been compiled into this thread has been contributed directly by you. Most of the time, these contributions occur when you attempt to make yourself look good, but you inadvertently reveal unsavory things about yourself in the process. It is akin to walking out into public in a fursuit and screaming "LOOK HOW CUTE MY FURSUIT IS" while not noticing how intensely putrid your fursuit smells.
I didn't contribute anything from the header.
Hows about you actually pay for shit instead of leeching off your parents instead.
I had to leech off of my parents during the transition from stay-at-home Dad to full time worker. But that was over a year ago. It was kinda a necessity cuz the mortgage was dumped on me with absolutely no warning less then a week before I started work part-time at K-mart and Guitar Center. I wasted a whole 3 weeks on unpaid job training giving out Obama-phones in July 2019. That was F***ing scary cuz literally they had to move their cars cuz a DRUG DEAL was happening were everyone parked on the first day of training. Some super creepy dude started playing loud music, stared, flirted and strutted in front of my trainer. It was the worst worst of the worst kind of job. Never give out Obama phones.
While I was at guitar center a dude walked in and said "A woman is masturbating next to your store". I was totally speechless so I responded "Oh ok.. would you like free music lessons?" and he gave me the weirdest look understandably. The manager resolved the issue. She was likely under the influence. Modesto is not known for being the best place in California to live... that's putting it as nicely as possible.
Do you think there's a "group" that actually cares enough about you to "cyber bully" you?
You guys must care about me. You keep stalking me and talking to me. If you didn't care you'd stop.
you should make an effort to work on those problems, which you haven't
But there IS no problem. Misunderstandings are NOT avoidable. They will always happen and if people want to assume then it's not my problem.
I will keep saying shit and people will always misinterpret it. That's FINE. But it's not my problem. The only way to avoid misinterpretations is to be SILENT FOREVER. That's not resolving a problem, that's just being anti-social.
that gives me the impression this isn't the first time this has happened in a chat, either
Those are two completely different situations. No relation what-so-ever.
First situation was with the, now non-existent, "Wulf Den" where the "snuggle" mass-message was misinterpreted. I didn't understand what was misinterpreted until months later.
The SECOND situation... that is something totally different. Basically me PMing everyone in a chat and trying to make friends has been one of the main way I've made friends in the fandom for 11 years and counting.
I'd be like "hi! wanna be friends!" and they'd either say no or yes. I've made lots of fantastic lasting friendships using that (One of them ended up being a famous voice actor from my FAVORITE furry series who later contributed greatly to what is NOW probably the most popular (or 2nd) fursuit skit on all of Youtube! So no regrets.
The second situation is Stockton furs. Basically what happened was I started talking to someone. They responded "I'm demisexual". I didn't know why they made such a random subject starter, so I rolled along with it. I talked about the fact that I first learned about what sex was in sex-ed from my science teacher Mrs Bixby in 6th grade. I remember it was so awkward and many kids in the class were laughing through the whole thing. That person contacted the admin all like "OMGZ IM SO SCARED! HE'S BROUGHT UP THE TOPIC OF SEXUALITY SORTA EVEN THOUGH I BROUGHT IT UP FIRST. DURR!" and the admin banned me.
One big thing that complicated this whole thing was, at the time I had no clue what "Closed PMs" and "Closed DMs" was. I didn't find out till months later, but by then the admins of Wulfs Den, Sacramento furs and Stockton furs ALREADY assumed I knew what those terms meant and they thought I was purposefully ignoring them. They never asked me, immediately blocked, banned and gave me no chance to learn what it meant.
Again, those are two completely unrelated incidents. One is from someone who BROUGHT up the topic of sexuality and then basically lied to the admin, Grovel Husky, by accusing me of bringing up the topic of sexuality. It's a hit-and-run ban, but it's not my job to tell people how to administrate their rooms.
After I did my "PM-everyone-to-make-friends" on one last chat on February 1st 2020 it had a negative backlash because many of the people I PMed had already been brainwashed by the mass slander campaign and after that I decided to retire my 11 year practice.
Did I do anything wrong? Fuck no. It's literally all misunderstandings and libel.
What NORMAL people do is if there is a misunderstanding they try to come to an understanding. If someone makes libel, they ask for proof to see if it's true or not. But in a lot of my local furry community there is LITERALLY NO EXISTANCE OF SKEPTICISM WHAT-SO-EVER!
There is nothing to be learned from this situation because every single misunderstanding was caused by some type of misinterpretation of my wording and intent (Completely out of my control) or by outright slander (Also completely out of my control)
Ultimately I can not apologize for misunderstandings if the people who are on the other end of the misunderstanding react by "BLOCK-BAN-SHUN!" It's just impossible.
It's NOT POSSIBLE to avoid misunderstandings. It's NOT IMPOSSIBLE to avoid peoples libel. If people actually wanted me to apologizing for causing a misunderstanding they wouldn't "BLOCK-BAN-SHUN". I'm just faced with the fact that everyday I'm alive there will always be people out there who are deadset on trying to stop me from making friendships with other people and I've already accepted that. I'm at peace with that.
I repeat: Nothing can be learned from this situation. I PROMISE YOU I will always end up being the cause of misunderstandings in the future and I will always be the target of libel in the future because that's the risk of communication that everyone takes.
There is no lesson to learn.
It's creepy that you spammed messages after at all, regardless of what the actual contents of the message are
Well it resulted in someone of the best, long-lasting friendships of my life. So if you don't like it, I frankly don't care.
As I said I decided on February 1st to stop doing it since the whole "Closed PM" culture is getting very popular.
you only reply to the part about the bad dancing and very conveniently leave out the woman.
You need to make a choice. Complain about the long answers or complain that my answers don't address enough.
I know he's a furry and by default desperate to see furry pussy but come on you were married, at least respect your wife a tad.
As I said, it was intended as a status update. I can't control if people misinterpreted it as an invite. I have no business in trying to apologize to "BLOCK-BAN-SHUN" types because THEY DON'T WANT AN APOLOGY. They want to cancel me. That's the point!
