I just want to understand why they seem to hate all men regardless of what we do.
Couple this intense hatred with a perplexing need to emulate the men they hate. These butch lesbians seem intent on becoming men, while hating men. Often while embodying the same toxic traits they criticize.
All women have a physical attraction of sorts to other women. The female form is, undeniably, the more aesthetically appealing of either sex. Women aren't really attracted to men physically most of the time. The elements that form a woman's attraction towards a man is a lot more complex than a man's attraction towards a woman. A woman could be the dumbest, poorest, most immoral animal and if she's hot enough physically, most men will still get their peepees hard for her. Women on the other hand value things like security (wealth), charisma and social standing practically equally to looks, if not more so than. It's hard for us to understand as men because we think that the woman choosing an ugly rich dude to marry is a logical, calculated choice when really that is her attraction to the security such a man could provide manifesting. It's actually "hot" to them. Looks aren't as important because, we can all be honest here, most men are physically fucking abhorrent. Even women prefer women in that regard.
Why is this relevant to lesbians? Because lesbians aren't women that find women sexy - that is almost every woman on earth (if you don't believe me, you've never had close female friends or a female partner who you've discussed this with). Lesbians are women that hate men. All other aspects of usual attraction to males doesn't manifest and only the physical remains when the physical is most often repulsive. So they choose women. Why the other aspects of attraction don't manifest is always, invariably, without fail, every single fucking time, because of trauma. Dig deep enough into every lesbian's past and you'll find that all of them have had some sort of traumatic incident with men before they became lesbians (abusive father, abusive ex, molested etc.) This overrides what would be the other attraction factors since those are "character based" and not physical. And when you're traumatised to the point of being revulsed by the innate characteristics of men in general, all you're left with is the physical and, as mentioned, we don't have a lot going for us there.
It's similar to the situation with fags and being molested.