does anyone else feel chronic lonely?

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You can't have a conversation with yourself though?
what do you mean? Some of the best conversations I've ever had were between me and myself. You can talk loud, or you can write down what your thinking. It's great. if it doesnt satisfy you maybe try dming random kiwi farms users
 
I got that dank lonely.that brain blasting next level lonely. That lonelier around other people lonely. That can't relate to the rest of humanity lonely, feel me, son? I got that ascended lonely, That godly lonely, that stay up til 3 am staring at the ceiling lonely, that want to pack my car and go someplace where no one knows me lonely, nigga I got that real real, ya feel?
 
I mean, you could if you wanted to, lol.

I can still think to myself [...]

Some of the best conversations I've ever had were between me and myself. You can talk loud, or you can write down what your thinking. It's great.

You can't have conversations with yourself, because there's only you to begin with, thinking otherwise is delusion.
You can prepare and order things you've already assimilated via reading or hearing, for example, or put abstract thoughts into words while babbling to yourself (out loud or internally), but you are ALONE when doing that. Thinking of this as having a conversation with yourself is a surefire pathway to becoming retarded like Rudyard. There's nothing new entering your system, you only entrench what you already assimilated, it's like learning a speech or song by heart. And singing is behavior most animals engage in to attract others of their species... so, if nobody answers: lonely again. If you tricked yourself into believing that you are conducting a fluidly evolving, interactive discussion with yourself, I can't help you... SAD!
Imagine having a Bicameral Mind in 2025...
Bicameral mentality is a hypothesis introduced by Julian Jaynes who argued human ancestors as late as the ancient Greeks did not consider emotions and desires as stemming from their own minds but as the consequences of actions of gods external to themselves.
 
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Lol, can you calm down? You keep going on about information you already "assimilated", is conversation the only way you get new information? That's not even the topic of the thread.
but you are ALONE when doing that.
Like I said earlier. Being alone and lonely are not the same thing. Being comfortable by yourself for a reasonable amount of time is an important thing everyone should be able to do.

Also:
There's nothing new entering your system,
You can prepare and order things you've already assimilated via reading, for example, or put abstract thoughts into words....
This is contradiction. Reading new information is still new information. I don't get what you're so pissed off about. Just because I read it, or someone tells me something new is no different and just because I read it doesn't make it not new.
 
Just because I read it, or someone tells me something new is no different and just because I read it doesn't make it not new.
That's not what i said, but it's still not a conversation, because reading isn't interactive. It's a one sided conversation, thinking about it, ordering it and assimilating it while talking to yourself is still a stale shadow of the real thing. You may disagree with things you read while talking to yourself about it, but the author isn't there to clarify, because you are not really doing anything, but reciting things which you already ingested, to yourself. You are tricking yourself, if you think of this kind of solo activity as substitute for the real thing. Unhealthy.
 
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There's nothing new entering your system, you only entrench what you already assimilated
well i do not have perfect knowledge of myself (including the mind) and neither does anyone, so that is simply not true. you scoff at organizing what is already there, at introspection and effort pointed inward, yet this type of thinking reduces a person to a single variable that has one dimension - it can either go left or right. but this is peculiar, and presupposes purely mechanical nature of everything. mind and consciousness are not mechanical however. conscious efforts at structuring, taking a better look, pondering upon oneself and one's knowledge already in the process transforms what is there and is an addition in itself, while also changing that which is the object. you seem to think that the mind is like the body - it takes food, takes what is valuable and gives shit, and eating shit is a sterile endeavor. yet the best of ppl do and did exactly what you would consider shit eating. the greatest monks. great zen buddhist thinkers. talking to yourself is better than chit chatting with other people, even though staying completely silent is even better - what are you even trying to say when you are saying something? ridiculous
 
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