Laws meant to keep different races apart still influence dating patterns, decades after being invalidated

1717874199608.pngSolangel Maldonado
Professor of Law, Seton Hall University
Published: June 7, 2024 8:40am EDT

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People dating online are most likely to like and reach out to people who are white, regardless of their own race. miakievy/Getty Images

If you are single and looking for a romantic partner, chances are that you have used a dating app. But the likelihood that others will like, or even see, your profile may depend on your race.

Studies have found that all people on dating apps, regardless of their own race, are more likely to contact white people using the app. And all people using dating apps are least likely to contact African American women and Asian American men.

Until recently, some popular apps, including OkCupid, Match, Hinge and Grindr, provided race and ethnicity filters that allowed users to categorically exclude daters based on race and ethnicity. Although most apps, including Grindr, removed their ethnicity filters in the past few years, others, such as Hinge and Match, have not.

While people may think that whom they find desirable is a personal preference, attraction is influenced by family members’ views, the schools people attend, friends and society in general and dating sites themselves. I am a legal scholar who researches race and the law. As I argue in my new book, “The Architecture of Desire: How the Law Shapes Interracial Intimacy and Perpetuates Inequality,” the legacy of discriminatory laws that have been struck down still influences people’s romantic preferences by limiting opportunities for interracial relationships to develop.

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The marriage of Richard Perry Loving, right, and his African American wife, Mildred, led the Supreme Court to determine in 1967 that laws banning interracial marriages are unconstitutional. Bettmann/Contributor

Segregation laws limited interracial relationships​

Until the 1960s, some U.S. state laws prohibited white people from marrying Black Americans, Asians Americans and Native Americans. These laws – known formally as anti-miscegenation laws – were in effect in 41 states, including Maryland, California, Oregon and Virginia, at some point between 1661 and 1967.

Then, Mildred Loving, a Black woman, and Richard Loving, a white man, successfully challenged Virginia’s anti-miscegenation law known as the Racial Integrity Act. They were convicted of violating this law by marrying each other in another state and returning to their Virginia home. In the case aptly named Loving v. Virginia, the U.S. Supreme Court ruled that these anti-miscegenation laws were “designed to maintain White Supremacy” and declared them unconstitutional.

Other old laws in effect until the 1960s also hindered interracial relationships indirectly.

The Naturalization Act of 1790 provided that only free white persons could become naturalized U.S. citizens. Although the Naturalization Act of 1870 extended eligibility to persons of African descent, it did not extend eligibility to other racial and ethnic groups.

The Supreme Court affirmed these laws when it determined in 1922 and also in 1923 that people of Asian ancestry were not white and could not become naturalized U.S. citizens. These laws significantly reduced the pool of desirable marital partners by ruling out people of Asian ancestry. The Immigration Act of 1924 also barred individuals of Asian ancestry, except for Filipinos, since the Philippines was a U.S. colony, from immigrating to the U.S.

Congress abolished these race-based exclusions in 1952 when it passed the Immigration and Nationality Act. But it did not eliminate the U.S. government’s preferences for immigrants from Western European countries until 1965, when it passed another Immigration and Nationality Act that abolished quotas for immigrants from particular countries.

Housing and educational discriminatory laws​

Until the late 1960s, federal, state and local governments promoted and enforced discriminatory housing policies, such as redlining and racially restrictive covenants, that segregated African Americans and other racial groups from white people.

These policies determined where people of color could live and send their children to school. Since they could not live in predominantly white neighborhoods, their children could not attend schools with white children, as students were assigned to their local school.

State laws and local practices in most Southern states, as well as California and Texas, among others, required Black, Asian American, Mexican American and Native American children to attend separate schools without any white students. These policies’ primary goal was to “to prevent the formation of interracial relationships in public schools”, as the legal and race scholar Reginald Oh has argued.

The legacy of old discriminatory laws​

These explicitly discriminatory laws that impeded interracial relationships until 1967 have all been abolished.

The Fair Housing Act banned housing discrimination in 1968. School districts can no longer separate or exclude children based on race.

There are now federal laws and laws in every state that prohibit businesses open to the public from discrimination based on race or ethnicity.

Yet, these old laws left a legacy that still limits opportunities for interracial interactions online and offline.

Residential segregation persists as a result of decades of federal, state and local practices that excluded racial minorities from white neighborhoods.

Houses and apartments in predominately white neighborhoods remain out of reach for many people of color, as real estate prices have skyrocketed. Affordable housing is also concentrated in low-income and predominantly minority neighborhoods.

As a result of this residential segregation, many Black and Latino children attend what education scholars Gary Orfield and Danielle Jarvie refer to as “apartheid schools” in high-poverty neighborhoods with few white students.

The opportunities for meaningful interactions across race in the workplace – where some people meet their romantic partners – are also limited. Black Americans, for example, are disproportionately clustered in low-wage positions and sectors, making intimate relationships with the predominantly white managerial and professional staff unlikely.

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Segregation in schools and housing persists in many parts of the U.S., influencing whom people are attracted to and limiting the potential for interracial dating and marriage. Photo illustration by Beata Zawrzel/NurPhoto via Getty Images

Boundaries on dating apps​

Online dating is now the most common way to meet a romantic partner, so you might assume that the lack of opportunities for meaningful interracial interactions at school, in the workplace and around the neighborhood do not matter. I believe that they do matter. By facilitating segregation, these defunct laws not only influence whom people meet offline but whom they are interested in meeting online.

The internet may not have geographical boundaries, but psychological boundaries follow us online.

When seeking a romantic partner, whether online or offline, people gravitate toward others who are similar and familiar to them – not people whom they have been taught to see as fundamentally different from their family, friends and neighbors.

Attraction is complicated, and race might always play a role in whom people choose to bring into their bedrooms and family. But I think that people should be concerned by the role that these discriminatory laws continue to play in their intimate lives, especially when it reproduces racial inequality.

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Residential segregation persists as a result of decades of federal, state and local practices that excluded racial minorities from white neighborhoods.
Houses and apartments in predominately white neighborhoods remain out of reach for many people of color,
many Black and Latino children attend what education scholars Gary Orfield and Danielle Jarvie refer to as “apartheid schools” in high-poverty neighborhoods with few white students.
Gonna be blunt talking about white people like this is part of the reason for the uptick in "racially aware" white people.

How they type/read this shit and not realize how fucking creepy it is never fails to shock me a little.
 
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If this hideous mutant calamity is the utopia these people are trying to convince everyone to work towards, I'll take the segregation.

Preferences exist. It's human nature. If in this day and age you can find recourse in literally every sexual fetish imaginable, when there is virtually no standard too low for people, then you can't blame segregation laws for the fact you can't get laid.

Where I live, there are lots of Chinese and Indians, yet they don't often hook up, date or marry each other - there's lots of reasons for that, but it's not because there were laws against it.
 
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But there is nothing wrong with that. Most people go for people who are like them. That’s nothing to do with laws, it’s biology.
Biology and/or social pressure, but not laws.

"Is my spouse going to feel comfortable at family gatherings?" seems like a pretty basic y/n. If your spouse is going to feel totally out of place, then are you okay with not seeing your blood relatives very often?

I cannot imagine attending a wedding where half of the people are hooting and hollering and the other half are being polite.
 
Gonna be blunt talking about white people like this is part of the reason for the uptick in "racially aware" white people.
They know. They're doing it to create racial polarization and chaos.

The only goal of the Marxist is destabilization. They literally don't have a plan beyond destroying everything and bringing about the dictatorship of the proletariat. I mean, aside from their Very Scientific™️ prophecy about the inevitable Eutopia that will surely follow.
 
I cannot think of a single race that looks favorably on black people save black people themselves. Whites (Western Europeans and those of various descent in North America) are universally praised because, let's face it, they're in the lead. People forget Slavs exist most of the time. Asians are okay, but we're all aware of the strange idiosyncrasies that make them good workers yet weak individual people. Mestizos (Latinos), like their opposing ancestors, are on a scale from backwater savage to civilized with some obvious differences (brown), leading to strange situations where criminal organizations can supersede the government or are more or less the same corrupt shitholes. Middle-Easterners are very savage backwater peoples, but they're organized enough that we can't dismiss them entirely.

Blacks? Jesus Christ. There is no way to defend them without monumental mental gymnastics. Statistics don't lie. Neither does history. I wish I saved that one quote about how much western Europeans accomplished while the Africans did damn near nothing. We do not find them attractive because they're less productive and functional, beyond just or what might be reflected in looks. Early AI mistook them for apes.
 
Until recently, some popular apps, including OkCupid, Match, Hinge and Grindr, provided race and ethnicity filters that allowed users to categorically exclude daters based on race and ethnicity. Although most apps, including Grindr, removed their ethnicity filters in the past few years, others, such as Hinge and Match, have not.
Some apps, maybe all of them now, require payment after you swipe on a certain number of people. Showing the user people they don't want to date and wasting their swipes encourages conversion to a paying customer. That's the only reason they're removing these filters. It has nothing to do with anti-miscegenation laws that haven't been relevant since the user's grandparents' day. Maybe great-grandparents.
 
This is the part that by itself debunks everything else:
all people on dating apps, regardless of their own race, are more likely to contact white people using the app
ALL PEOPLE REGARDLESS OF THEIR OWN RACE want to date a white person!

Is that racism? Or does it tell us something else is going on here?
 
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