One of the articles you linked had a reference to the eternal victim thing, but it was side stepped entirely because the whole fucking article was just snarky commentary with zero substance. Youre right though...if women can choose not to feel powerless and crushed under the patriarchy, then there is no need for feminism. The whole movement is a giant p.r. machine. They know damn well what they say to each other behind anon boards, then put five pounds of lipstick on that pig when they have to publish an article and take credit for their work. One of the comments i read was supposedlt a feminist man, and i call total fucking bullshit. "He" was talking about how his woman tells him that their relationship is good, so he must be doing things right and he is learning which chores to do around the house, his wife was military and he was a teacher....a total jerk off session. Laughable at best.