My girlfriend wants to do nude modeling, is that a bad idea?

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So this weekend my girlfriend met some guy at a party who introduced her to modeling. She went to his studio today and did some shoots and she said she had a good time, felt comfortable, made some new friends, etc., etc. Now she says she’s going to do nudes tomorrow. Should I be concerned?
 
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Yikes... let's unpack this. First of all, it's kind of concerning that you would even ask this question. Your girlfriend is an independent human with dreams, aspirations and desires. If she has decided to do nude modelling then that's the right choice for her and you need to respect that. Secondly, if the fact that she gets naked around other men makes you feel insecure, then maybe you need to take a look at yourself in the mirror. Where do your insecurities stem from? What trauma are your dealing with?
 
Yikes... let's unpack this. First of all, it's kind of concerning that you would even ask this question. Your girlfriend is an independent human with dreams, aspirations and desires. If she has decided to do nude modelling then that's the right choice for her and you need to respect that. Secondly, if the fact that she gets naked around other men makes you feel insecure, then maybe you need to take a look at yourself in the mirror. Where do your insecurities stem from? What trauma are your dealing with?
Lol, I wanted to punch you in the throat before the end of the first sentence. Excellent work!
 
Yes, you should be concerned—not just as a boyfriend, but as someone who cares about her well-being. As a Christian, it's important to approach this with love, wisdom, and grace. Here are a few things to consider:

  1. Respect and Purity – The Bible encourages modesty and honoring our bodies as temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). Nude modeling may conflict with those values, and it's worth having an open, loving conversation about whether this aligns with her beliefs and long-term goals.
  2. Her Safety – Meeting a stranger at a party and quickly agreeing to something as vulnerable as nude photography raises red flags. Many people in the modeling industry have been taken advantage of, and it's important that she truly understands what she’s getting into. Encourage her to research and ensure she’s in a safe, professional environment.
  3. Your Relationship – If this makes you uncomfortable, that matters. In a healthy relationship, both partners should respect each other's feelings and boundaries. You can express your concerns in a loving and non-controlling way, letting her know how this makes you feel and why it troubles you.
  4. Her Self-Worth – Society often promotes the idea that nudity equals empowerment, but true confidence comes from knowing our worth in Christ. Encourage her to seek wisdom and discernment before making a decision that could have lasting consequences.
Rather than reacting with anger or fear, pray about it and ask God for guidance. Then, have a heart-to-heart conversation with her, coming from a place of love and concern rather than judgment. If she values your relationship and respects your perspective, she’ll take your concerns seriously. 🙏
 
Hey guys. So my girlfriend came home last night and she said she was the only one who showed up and that already made her feel a little uncomfortable, but she brushed it off and I guess they did some nude shots together (idk what she meant by that if they were in the pictures together??). Okay so then the guy asked her for a blowjob and at that point she felt super weird and left. We are both in shock that someone like this would try to take advantage of her. Anyway she says she blocked that guy and she's not going to do anything like that anymore. Thanks for your replies.
 
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