Firstly guys, I know a bit late but thanks for getting this little old thread to over 100 pages in 25 hours. Beyond anything I even remotely expected!
Secondly, Heidi makes me very suspicious. From the people she hangs out with (Marzgurl and hardcore SJWs), to the fact that she's already planning to go to cons within 24 hours of this stuff(with extra security because Jared is gonna follow her to the stage and assault her). Clearly Jared messed up really badly here, but it seems like a jump of logic to claim it was all his fault and Heidi is the sole victim. There's also that fake Tumblr that started talking about dick pics 3 days before this entire thing started. The worse she makes Jared look, the more she could possibley get. She should have broke up with Jared when he broke up with her in February, but she wanted to continue the relationship well he didn't.
Seems like theres more stuff below the surface regarding her we haven't see yet, so I'll be holding my judgement until that occurs.