As a floridian myself, I've been threatened with being baker acted by my mtoher when I was in the largest depression spike in my life, I had threatened to end my life and she threatened to have me locked away for such talk. It scared me, because i did not wish to be locked away even if it was for 72 hours- and i realized if I had ended it, those 72 hours of being isolated would've been the void I would've sent myself too if i actually carried it out and that's when i realized there was so much more to life, I know now my mother cares and she would've never threatened otherwise if she didn't, and i am thankful for the perspective she gave me.
But yeah- her saying her mother is not willing to get her medical or insurance but is totally okay with having her baker acted is really making me doubt highly that her mother is abusive. Parent's have some really bad ways of shoving they care but don't take your mother's strange way of caring as abuse.
Would you rather your mother sit by and watch you kill youself, spregtrip?
As for the whole " WEH WEH THEY TAKE A PORTION OF MY PAY AS RENT MONEY" bullshite- YOU ARE FUCKING 19 YEARS OLD AND STILL LIVING WITH YOUR PARENTS. YOU AREN'T A CHILD ANY LONGER. YOU ARE NOT THEIR FULL RESPONSIBILITY. They need your money to help pay bills! UGH.