Chris' life is fundamentally fucked while he lives with Barb.
THIS ^. I believe that a large part of the reason Chris is so adamant about refusing psychological help is because of Barb. Barb is selfish and lazy and having Chris see a psychologist brings with it the risk of him being taken away from her, at least for a long enough period of time for him to undergo a thorough evaluation (which can take up to 90 days). Barb would rather let Chris's mental health deteriorate rather than get up of her fat lazy ass and run her own fucking errands.
I have tried again and again via various trollsonas to get Chris to seek counseling. He either shuts down the conversation entirely, not responding for days (or until I change the suibject) or he claims that his time with Rocky was adequate and he doesn't require further intervention.
Yes, I absolutely agree that counseling would be the best course for Chris, but it's unlikely to happen (at least while Barb is around): of course, the outcome of his hearing could change this.
"Renee" talking with Chris is no different than any other Internet friend talking with anyone else. A lot of people don't use their actual names on the Internet because they're concerned about their privacy. You never know who you're talking to at the other end and there's no way of telling whether some casual remark on your part could plunge the other person into a deep depression, or send them on a rampage.
Renee is as real as any Internet or Facebook friend. She's never represented herself as a professional or an expert in the field of mental health. All she tries to do it to get Chris to see another point of view in order to help him understand how others may view his actions. When I'm interacting with Chris as Renee, I try to be honest and, above all reasonable. He's responded positively so far.
The risks of intervening in Chris's life can be debated, but, in certain cases, the risks of not intervening are demonstrably risky. Should I have not said anything about Chris's infected taint piercing and let Chris figure it out for himself somehow? What if, because of my failure to say something, Chris wound up with blood poisoning, or worse? My point is that the risks and responsibilities go ***both*** ways.
Well, trolls sent him to gay events. That's a smaller goal with good results.
This was my main focus as "Renee"; to get Chris to go out and socialize more. I tried to find venues that would be "safe" for him, where people were less inclined to be judgmental. I didn't post about these efforts because I didn't want weens showing up spoiling things for Chris.
The main reason Chris doesn't get out and socialize more is Barb. She has him on a very short leash and he spends most of his time running errands for her. (This was the excuse he gave Renee anyway.) When he went to Impulse Gay Social Club, he had to check in with her several times and he had a curfew of 11 PM.
Still, despite all of her controlling, Barb seems unable or unwilling from keeping Chris from getting into trouble with the law.