What are your limits around others taboo interests?

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Naturally, many of us have seen degenerates online and something I'm curious on is what your limits are; rather its from seeing people online or knowing someone in real life, I'm interested as to both the most common and least common ways people here tell themselves (or others) to avoid or to stop hanging around someone.
 
What exactly do you mean? Like, at what point do we finally think “yeah, I’m not hanging around that guy anymore”? Or do you mean how we actually go about breaking off friendships with weirdos?
 
Sperghetti said:
What exactly do you mean? Like, at what point do we finally think “yeah, I’m not hanging around that guy anymore”? Or do you mean how we actually go about breaking off friendships with weirdos?
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Thinking more so both the points of "this guy is a [X] and I dont want to be around him", and the overall guidelines you take to not get into contact with people you dont want to be around.
 
If in the course of meeting someone they talk about any dumb alphabet shit I'm out. Same goes if there's any kink shit. If you're giving me that info when we're first meeting that means to me that you have no filter and cannot separate a private interest from a public one. Mokusatsu that shit, do not engage with them at all at that point beyond what is required.
 
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Basically none. The only thing that we get me to NOPE the fuck out is if someone talks about Pedo shit or Murdering people. Though I did have a friend who was doing really retarded shit like breaking people's mailboxes, so basically noped out of that friendship too.

And if they're really political and anal about it to the point of being an extremist, that's maybe not something I'll abandon someone for per say, but if it goes on for a while then i'll have enough of it.
 
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Far-left politics and any sex stuff involving non-humans/non-adults.
I'm probably more conservative about 'drug culture' than a lot of people, down to/including 'dude weed lmao' culture. Not that that's 'beyond the pale of polite society' or something, but it's like worshipping alcohol as a lifestyle, it's incredibly lame and I just don't have anything in common with anybody who sees that as an interesting subculture.

Generally speaking if I know about your taboo interests, you're too vocal about your taboo interests.
 
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My big one is people who complain about everything, that's fucking taboo to me. I really couldn't give much else of a fuck what someone else does behind the scenes so long as it isn't raping or killing people/kids/animals.
 
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That depends entirely on what it is, but as I get older I realize that there are a LOT of intolerable things people do and it gets worse every day, so the bar drops every so often.

Right now, the worst things I think I can tolerate are furries, homosexuals, and the occasional normalfag. Literally all 3 of these things teeter precisely on the threshold. If you bring any of it up in conversation, you'd better catch me drunk, because I'm dippin' otherwise. If I stick around, you'll probably dip.
 
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I genuinely stop listening to and discount people for completely regular opinions and interests so I guess my tolerance is pretty low. I think social media has fried you people's brains honestly.
 
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Anyone who talks about children/animals in a non typical way, that includes furries.
Uh, “people” who wear diapers, or act childlike in bedroom activity’s, or at all for any reason other than those that cannot help it.

Anyone too, this could sound bad I guess, is too retarded. Like, not the general hard to understand, or like can’t do shit by themselves type. The type that are a literal harm to others, that cannot control their bladder, that randomly scream, or attack people.

Anyone who starts a first conversation ever off with political, sexual, sexual identity, ABCCDEFG-IDGAF, or otherwise unimportant beliefs that I don’t care about knowing at the moment.
People who ^ make any of the above their entire identity. Meaning I have met some otherwise calm, and generally as mentally healthy as they can be tranny.

& That’s about it, other than that, I could tolerate, and befriend anyone else. It’s just the typical degenerates I refuse to be around, that’s just asking for trouble.
 
If a person is quick to talk about their taboos be it offline and especially online, I just assume they're void of a real personality and only try to hit up conversations about their fetishes cause they expect everyone's mind to be "Sex good. Its only natural" so its open for public discussion.

My tolerance varies, but if its common for them to lead a conversation to their taboos I just cut my losses or in some cases get a jab in cause you wasted my time since you were never really engaged in the conversation in the first place.
 
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Everyone has a limit on sexual fetishes. In law enforcement and minimum security prisons (or those exclusively for housing sex offenders), you see different varieties of perverts shunning one another for being "sickos" because they sincerely believe that their fetish is wholesome. You'll have guys who like to jack off in front of women in public sticking their noses up over guys who molest preteen girls, and both of them refusing to interact with guys who prefer teen boys.

You see the same thing in online communities, where you have intense rivalries between different types of furries so fine-grained that I can't tell the difference, and of course more broad categories of perverts hate each other. Shotacons believe that little boys are gay and they're connecting with a fellow traveler, but straight shotacons are predatory. Straight shotacons think lolicons are rape, lolicons think that straight shotacons are "beta self-inserts".

In reality they're all perverts, and they're hardwired to love only their perversion. They correctly recognize perversion in others that differs from theirs. It's all a circle jerk, it's cope, and these people are the internet equilvalent of what you find when you turn over a rock in a swamp.
 
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$5.3 Million Dollars said:
If in the course of meeting someone they talk about any dumb alphabet shit I'm out. Same goes if there's any kink shit. If you're giving me that info when we're first meeting that means to me that you have no filter and cannot separate a private interest from a public one. Mokusatsu that shit, do not engage with them at all at that point beyond what is required.
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I once heard somebody say that they used to hate small talk until they realized that the point was to be kind of a social test: Can this person hold a conversation about a boring topic like the weather without trying to inject politics, religion, or something way too personal into it?

That’s pretty much how I started thinking about small talk from that point forward.
 
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You know that Gus character from breaking bad? He has one personality, a kind of polite working man. It's like he's wearing a suit. I really hate people that act without a suit, particularly too quickly when you're getting to know them.

There really aren't any topics I don't like talking about, but there are a good number of topics I don't like talking about with certain people. Usually I'll tell people they wouldn't want to know what I really think about it and if we can talk about something else. A little overly direct perhaps, but it gets the job done.
 
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Lemmingwise said:
You know that Gus character from breaking bad? He has one personality, a kind of polite working man. It's like he's wearing a suit. I really hate people that act without a suit, particularly too quickly when you're getting to know them.

There really aren't any topics I don't like talking about, but there are a good number of topics I don't like talking about with certain people. Usually I'll tell people they wouldn't want to know what I really think about it and if we can talk about something else. A little overly direct perhaps, but it gets the job done.
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I might have a different understanding of your post than what you meant, but for
me it’s the other way around. I don’t like it when people have their real, expressive and multidimensional self for people they know well and then their fake, bland self for others.



I forgot while writing this that the thread is about taboo interests. I didn’t have taboo interests in mind, more the way people’s body language, humor, etc. goes. I’ve noticed that in some people there’s this bizarre snobbery like they think they’re better for NOT showing excitement at things, or acting goofy, but it’s the lively people who seem to wind up with more friends and bring more happiness into a room.
 
Keep it out of sight, I guess. This stuff has always been around in some form, behind closed doors.

Some people have a more pronounced sense of outrage. Parading arounding and rubbing other peoples' noses in your lifestyle is risky.
 
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