Why do people play vrchat - Genuinely

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Tl;dr: I tried VRchat and it just made me feel more lonely and detached from the rest of the population. Why do people play this crap?

Hello again everybody, haven’t posted here in a while.

I own a VR headset, and in a fruitless attempt to justify the purchase, I decided to give VRChat a try. I’ve heard of its reputation, but I wanted to experience it firsthand and form my own opinion.

Having played it, I must say - I’ve never felt more alone in my life than I have playing vr chat. If you’ve ever felt lonely even in someone else’s company, then you would surely understand how I felt playing this game. Some of the people I spoke to were kind, while others were curt and kept to their cliques. The controls and menus are confusing; I had somehow stumbled into a furry world and befriended two women (not trannies chuds!) who noticed me struggling and took me under their wing. They helped me to configure my game settings and avatar, and block one person who had a particularly disgusting furry avatar with a massive penis.

These two became my companions for the evening. We chatted, mingled with others, and I did my best to connect - to listen, to empathise, and to share my own experiences.

I didn’t get it, it felt isolating. I felt like nothing more than some guy sitting in a room with a box strapped to my head voice calling with other people who have boxes strapped to their head. It was profoundly dehumanising. I hated looking into the game’s mirrors or photos and seeing not myself, but a cartoonish stranger. If I could appear as myself in VRChat - the flawed, awkward, decomposable human I am - I would leap at this opportunity. What do I stand to gain by pretending these cartoon characters are real strangers standing before me? Does that illusion nourish or enlighten me? Perhaps this is true of the people who play vrchat, but this only reminds me of the opportunities I am missing by not interacting in the real world, and what’s the value in that? This experience leads me to where I am now, questioning whether there is any value or meaning to any of it. I would much rather go to a nightclub or a bar in the real world. I’ve had good times there!

Also - I couldn’t even use my penis in vrchat, even when it was necessary. Digital phallic objects will not do.

Anyway, what do you think of this VR crap?

P.S. - VR is only good for beat saber. Other games may offer temporary experiences that inevitably overstay their welcome, but my VR headset is just a $1000~ beat saber machine.
 
Its surrogate socializing. We lack a physical public square since genX abandoned the pursuit of building them to make online spaces instead so as soon as we had a virtual reality people naturally try to recreate the physical space.

Anyway when I played I just bhopped around the map as a to-scale spider model spamming racial slurs through the mic.
 
I never tried it but it's probably like regular chat but more immersive, so I can see the appeal. I'd have been way into as a kid, I'm sure, but I'm not going to be spending hours a day strapped into VR as an adult. Maybe when I'm old and stuffed into an old folk's home or something.
 
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I didn’t get it, it felt isolating. I felt like nothing more than some guy sitting in a room with a box strapped to my head voice calling with other people who have boxes strapped to their head. It was profoundly dehumanising. I hated looking into the game’s mirrors or photos and seeing not myself, but a cartoonish stranger. If I could appear as myself in VRChat - the flawed, awkward, decomposable human I am - I would leap at this opportunity. What do I stand to gain by pretending these cartoon characters are real strangers standing before me? Does that illusion nourish or enlighten me? Perhaps this is true of the people who play vrchat, but this only reminds me of the opportunities I am missing by not interacting in the real world, and what’s the value in that? This experience leads me to where I am now, questioning whether there is any value or meaning to any of it. I would much rather go to a nightclub or a bar in the real world. I’ve had good times there!
Literally the entire point of the game was to chat with people and play custom vr-games in goofy fucking avatars. It was like that for the first few years but devolved like many online games have the last few years into an extension of secondlife and reddit where everyone just sits in a room doing fucking nothing in gooner avatars staring at each other or walls and then threatening to ban anyone actually trying to have fun. I don't know why you got the game if you're disgusted by the idea of having an avatar or why you'd buy a vr headset if you viewed having a little tv thing strapped to your head dehumanizing but like then again i've never had the kind of money to get any kind of VR game setup thing and there's only been a select few VR games that seemed interesting. The games could easily just be accomplished with standard fps camera and wii motion controllers or whatever which VR shits like a more expensive version of, just with a small tv screen strapped to some goggles.


I almost made a thread about the phenomenon earlier today in the gaming subforum, but I couldn't get it into the right words and I've been too dead to properly get everything laid out right. There's been people who have made entire fucking internet comedy careers doing extremely mundane shit and pissing these types of people off the last few years, and the scope of games where this happens keeps expanding.

Like did you know this shit's an issue in fucking red dead redemption online now? Cause it is.
Man was just sitting on a fucking porch
 
Its surrogate socializing.

I would say it's a new way of socializing, not a surrogate for it, it's its own ecosystem and it's not for everyone. it's certainly very niche and weird and its extra layers of separation means it can attract people who aren't ready to socialize in that way and just want to horse around and make Skibidi Toilet references but when you find a good, mature group it can be really interesting. people let their guard down a bit when they're wearing a costume.


don't blame us dogg, we were just the first ones there.
 
Beefin' around.
This was before the game became the hell that you see in the compilations of the last year or so
...oh god 2018 was 7 years ago now... fuck.

kinda hate how I missed the chance of experiencing this time of the game, but I'm just as broke and shits more expensive on top of the game going to shit so eh, how it is.
 
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This was before the game became the hell that you see in the compilations of the last year or so
...oh god 2018 was 7 years ago now... fuck.

kinda hate how I missed the chance of experiencing this time of the game, but I'm just as broke and shits more expensive on top of the game going to shit so eh, how it is.
I dont really play video games myself because I just end up griefing when I get bored of it all. I gotta let people enjoy things.
 
I dont really play video games myself because I just end up griefing when I get bored of it all. I gotta let people enjoy things.
I mean the only thing you can really do for "griefing" in vrchat is like goofy antics which is what people were doing before whatever the fuck it turned into since it's mainly a chat game thing. It's one of those games that's entirely reliant on the dumb goofy shit people make to be interesting so when the "stand around do nothing and then occasionally threaten to kick or report you" people that ended up setting up house in it like they do every other online game did it very likely naturally sparked nightmare levels of withering.

I just found out that there are apperently still some people that get up to goofy shit in the game thanks to youtube recommending me this. Said reccomendation was likely due to me watching the videos showcasing the fucking sorry state of vrchat by the earlier mentioned people that show up pretty much entirely to mess around and anger the "stand around guys" by doing mundane shit and trying to spark up a convo of some kind.

Looking at this guys vids he seems like the only guy in said vids that's not like "big boob woman who is either anime or furry character" in terms of avatars. Seems to like make/use shitpost or "currrent media thing" oriented avatars and make vids of him just going around jumpscaring people with like weird little goblin men or trucks or shit.

I kinda wonder if there are more goofy avatar people left thriving in the current hellscape of online user generated content games.
 
Because they were too young to experience Second Life.
the infamous secondlife people seem to be double teaming secondlife and vrchat as well as every other online game with some kind of multiplayer chatting aspect. I would not doubt for a moment that the people doing the same behavior in other games would be wearing the same kinda avatars as the ones in secondlife and vrchat if they could and weren't limited to "cowboy or realistic guy avatar".
 
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