I'll accept all tophats you're going to give me but their fake "boohoo I felt so bad about it, my poor mom" makes my blood boil. They are NOT sorry, they do NOT empathise with women they steal shit from. The only guilt and fear they feel is the fear of being discovered and punished for their degeneracy.
PL time but my ex decided to troon out a few years after we started dating and before he told me, I also didn't know why my underwear keeps disappearing and reappearing magically, why I lost yet another pair of knee socks, why my fucking dress suddenly had a huge hole on the back (yes, this man, despite being 2x larger than me, tried to put it on). After telling me about the stealing (and masturbating in my clothes because of course) he was absolutely clueless why I am mad about, told me I am exaggerating and if I am so angry about it and want him to stop using my stuff, I should "just buy him a cute dress or two for himself".
I should stop reading this thread, it makes me wanna scream.