WHEN WILL YOU LEARN YOUR ACTIONS HAVE CONSEQUENCES???
To this day, Kevin and pals don't realize that they're the minority. Or, more accurately,
why they're the minority: humans like to make a word and agree on the terms of said word. When a vegan goes into a vegan restaurant, they expect everything to be vegan, not vegetarian. When a man says he's Jewish, we don't expect him to be worshiping Ganeesh. When a person says they're tired, they expect us not to push them to be untired unless asked.
A woman is asexual. She tries to date someone, but they turn her down because the person wants sex in a relationship. The woman clarifies that asexuals still have sex. The two date and break up for whatever reason. The new person meets another asexual. "Oh, you still want to have sex, right?" "No, no sex, period." This puts both the new asexual person and the person who asked in an awkward social position and leaves people on both sides more confused and offended at each other. "When I say ace, I MEAN ace" vs "When I say ace I still can fuck" is such a gap between meanings it even rifts apart communities of ace people.
Imagine having to say "I'm a lesbian" then have to amend "a no penises lesbian" to it. The word already means no dicks! You're intruding on that space of these no dick lesbians by saying "I'm bi lesbian" or "a penis is lesbian approved!" And I'm not just talking about cis lesbians, I mean trans lesbians who'd get massive dysphoria seeing a penis, KEVIN. This is why you're not winning! This is why you're stuck seething about "ALL ACTIVITY IS GAY ACTIVITY" because you want your damn cake and want to eat it too!
Words can change. But a lot of people like their word as is. You can't take a label for a marginalized group and use it for things undefined by it. Your sexuality is fluid, but not all lesbians. Autism over.
Anyway, congrats Bryan! The estrogen is working!