I swear, the real-life part of the fandom is just something short of a frat jock community for nerds. They only care and live for parties, at which they do drugs, get drunk, and rape minors, for them to go home, whine about post-con blues and then jerk off on voice with their friends, posting thirsty fursuit pictures every friday until they get to the next con.
I've lost track of what the 'real' fandom is anymore. There are hormonal teens playing games and buying art, people with jobs who go to cons in fursuit and have real-life meetups but are otherwise capable adults, and then those who don't care how far they fall as long as they can go to furcons and fuck their bros in the meantime.
And in the midst of it all, doe-eyed manchildren who go "Omg I love the fandom! ❤" on both porn and furcon pictures, having zero personality and way too much income, whom are likely the ones normal people bump into when they google anything furry, leading to this idea that it's not a colossal sexpest community.