🐱 Men with ‘golden penis syndrome’ are ruining sex and dating for women

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Beware of the college grad cad!

Men with college degrees have become so cocky that they’re ruining romance for their female counterparts, one “leading expert” alleges.

Just 40.5% of college students in the United States are male, according to the National Student Clearinghouse, meaning they’re in short supply and high demand when dating on campus.

A lack of competition has led these men to develop “golden penis syndrome” — an arrogance that stems from the assumption that a steady supply of females will be sexually interested in them.

“Golden penis syndrome” has led these smug males to engage in dastardly dating practices, such as cheating and ghosting, because they’re confident that another woman will always be waiting around the corner.

The term was purportedly coined by frustrated female students at Sarah Lawrence College in upstate New York — where three-quarters of all enrollees are the fairer sex.

Journalist Jon Birger believes many college-educated men in their 20s, 30s and 40s have also developed GPS because they’re similarly in high demand when it comes to dating.


“The sex ratios among college-educated, hetero singles in Manhattan is approximately three women for every two men. I’ve interviewed a lot of men who were continuing to take advantage of that imbalance,” Birger told Mel Magazine.

“[And] 1981 was the last time that four-year colleges in the US graduated more men than women. Ever since, women have been leaving men in the educational dust.”

Birger — who penned the best-selling book “Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game” — further explained to the Daily Mail: “We’re seeing a generation of young men who think they’re Adam Driver or Michael B. Jordan. Of course, it’s not about them. It’s the ratio.”

He continued: “When men are in undersupply, the dating culture becomes less monogamous — men are more likely to treat women as sex objects and treat relationships as disposable.”

Not only are men with “golden penis syndrome” more likely to treat their dates badly, they may also be less inclined to put effort into their physical appearance and their sexual performances.

Birger previously spoke with The Post, declaring that dating was particularly dire for heterosexual women in New York.

College-educated women are more likely to date among their own milieu of college-educated men, but as their numbers are so skewed, they’re in for a rougher time.

Birger told The Post that the imbalance is also exacerbated by New York’s large population of gay males. Some 9 to 12 percent of men in Manhattan are gay, according to Gary Gates, a demographics expert at UCLA’s Williams Institute.

But Birger had some trusty advice for female singletons seeking to settle down: Be cautious of the college-grad cads.

“I would be wary of guys who have remained never-married into their late 30s and 40s,” he explained to Daily Mail. “Especially the better-looking ones with good jobs. These men are having too much fun playing the field.”

He also advises women to be assertive when pursing romance, stating: “Fact is, men like women who like them. Also, a man is much less likely to take advantage of a woman who puts herself out there.”
 
I'm at an Ag uni and the male to female ratio is fucked. There is literally no good reason to hunker down with one sheila when there's three other VERY lonely lasses around the corner. On top of that a lot these sheilas subscribe to the fuck buddy dynamic yet still have a cry when blokes root a few more or move on to the next one. There's one fat fuck who has managed to turn his floor of his dorm into a harem.
 
One of the reasons I enjoy traveling is because it proves these types of women aren't unicorns, they're simply rarities in my own neighborhood. Coming back from a trip abroad, I felt very relaxed and I had to reflect on that feeling to figure out where it came from. I decided it was because the people were nice-looking. Not hot, not sexy, just nice ... no garish tattoos, or body modifications, or morbidly obese people waddling around. They were normal, healthy people and being around them put me at ease. Maybe they all had something else wrong with them, fallen human nature being what it is, but whatever personality disorder causes people to ruin their bodies and celebrate ugliness, they didn't have it.

I recently went back on OKCupid and spent some time comparing the local accounts to the foreign accounts that are displayed in the Passport section. Same experience. When I set the search results to a 50 mile radius, it's lots of huge women with nose rings and innumerable tattoos--arm tattoos, leg tattoos, tit tattoos. About half use marijuana, which is illegal here and incompatible with my career. When I look at the foreign accounts, most are just normal looking members of whatever ethnic group, and none admit to smoking marijuana.

Tinder is even worse, though in one way it's better: They've added little badges for BLM, LGBTQIAP, and mental health awareness. It's a completely useless app for most men, but if you are in the top 1%, seeing those red flags up front must be a great time saver.
 
> "there aren't enough women in higher ed!!!"

> change higher ed to cater to women and be openly hostile to men

> men stop going into higher ed; nobody cares about that "inequality" YASSSSS QWEEEEN

> fast forward a decade or so

> even less men on campus

> men are less higher ed educated than ever before

> women more likely to be unlikable, university-brainwashed SocJus nightmares

> "women need men like a fish needs a bicycle but I don't understand why these guys I keep rewarding with NSA sex are so arrogant???"


Poor women 😢
 
In the 1800's my great great grandfather sent a picture of himself to a 'Find a Wife' service in New York City. He wasn't a looker, kind of short, and he was standing there with a rifle, two dogs, a log shack, and a goose. Behind him was tilled fields, two deer up on skinning racks, some cows. On the back of the picture he wrote: "I own everything you see and do not excessively drink. I know numbers and letters." He was married within a year by a woman who rode across the country on a train.

Why do I mention this?

It was an interesting thing to bring up on a date with a woman to see how she reacted. A lot of them acted like the woman was stupid for jumping on a train.

Modern women like the ones in this article would turn their noses up at the equivalent man in the current times.

I have a friend who's widowered. He's in his late 40's/early 50's. He owns multiple properties, has almost zero debt, and lives off of his rentals and his Marine Corps pension. His kids are all grown.

He's told me he gets constant hits for women with 2-5 kids, often from different men, who are "ready to settle down" and are 3/10 at the most and usually in their early 30's, who act like he should be grateful they even swiped or showed interest in him.

I told him he should get with the 22 year old that messaged him the simple question: "Your dick still work?"

Unironically good idea if she has concern with only the sexual part that means that broadly she seems fine with the rest worth i shoot.
 
I love how the article outright states that women have started to dominate college campuses since the early 1980's like it's no big deal or even a problem. Men have increasingly been abandoning colleges for trade work or simply because it's too expensive, yet these women demand "status." They then set their lofty standards to "college degree or get fucked" or "salary needs to be 100k+ starting." It's especially lulz since plumbers and electricians can make absolute bank. (And not have 100k+ student debt loads.) I mean Christ, I know a long haul truck driver that clears 150k yearly.

As someone who went to a college that had a 60-65% female population in the early 00's, I know exactly what this shit is like. I had women practically buzzing around me and my male friend group looking to hookup. I flat out know I could have gotten my dick wet on a almost weekly basis, but the vast majority of those women weren't really worth shit in the long run. Most are extremely entitled and will go supersonic when you see through them and/or don't fall for them.

I can't stress this enough, don't be afraid to look for a serious long term relationship until after college. It's way easier to see a quality person in the general dating pool versus the lopsided one you get at university.
 
This reminds me of that one woman who spent a year living as a man. Not in a tranny way, just to see what it was like. At one point she considered suicide lmao.

Basically, welcome to how it feels to be a dude in the dating market, enjoy your stay. :story: For real I'm glad I stopped bothering since ~2010, fuck all this bullshit.
Women fail to understand supply and demand but are sure it's sexist somehow, news at 11.
Is that why so many women in colleges fall for socialism? 🤔
 
This reminds me of that one woman who spent a year living as a man. Not in a tranny way, just to see what it was like. At one point she considered suicide lmao.
Norah Vincent, Self-made Man, if anyone wants to investigate.

Haven't read the book yet but I think it's sitting somewhere on my physical bookshelf.

Edit: I'm dumb, got the lady's last name wrong. It has been corrected to Vincent. Actually I got her first name wrong too, in a funny way. Spelled it right then corrected it wrong prior to the initial post :(
 
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What's funny is that I keep seeing this weird self-destructive mental loop in a looot of American Women/Girls.

>Decry cooking as sexist
>Want man that's a good cook
>Try to fight men that are good cooks with their shit cooking.
>Get butthurt over a lack of women in the professional culinary world
>Get absolutely butthurt when they hear men say women (and everyone) should know how to cook
>Cycle repeats itself ad infinitum, in hilarity. It's like a schizophrenic beehive.


Half the time they can't decide if it's a symbol of womanly pride or a sexist and patriarchal symbol of oppression.
I find it hilarious that one of the most popular professional, celebrity chefs, Gordon Ramsay, who's actually an amicable person to be around (if Jeremy Clarkson's interaction with him are any indication) is a man. This britbong man totally conquered the kitchen on TV and in business in a field that's traditionally seen as the woman's realm.
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A good man with a large income probably can't afford to settle, due to the risk of 50% of everything he's worked for walking out the door after a few months of marriage.
I think it’s funny when they want to marry someone who’s rich, smart, and suave. Rich smart guys aren’t always suave and are more likely to approach marriage like an investment than a normie male. Not exactly romantic. Furthermore, a lot of rich people are very much into value. I grew up poor, but I had some rich friends and they were horrified about how much I and our other friends spent on Warhammer and MTG.* A lot of smart and rich guys are not going to let you go hog on your credit card because that’d be financially unwise. It’s not a recipe for happiness because even someone who is rich could very well have all their wealth wasted if they constantly splurge.

*we were trying to get them into either hobby but they ran away when they saw how expensive it was. They were incredibly cheap except when it came to their home.
 
Geee you mean tinder culture has backfired? Hahahahaha.
My opinion has basically devolved to, when it comes to sex and dating, men and women are way more alike than different.

This article is only talking about like one college campus. Im sure its going on elsewhere but like, some motherfuckers may find it cathartic to post a bunch of YOU GET WHAT YOU DESERVE memes, but for every article like this, you have another where its some dudes bitching about women being cold and shit. Im not even simping I just feel like guys and girls have been saying this about each other for a long time. Whether or not it was "_____ do it too/started it/have been that way forever, we should too"--pretty much everyone clicked this thread knowing what it was gonna be like; most people know the score and most people are gonna want the "sow your oats, experience youth" type of shit, the problem is tinder has made people 'swipeable' and people are looking for 'the one' and dont want to waste time (which I kinda get). But theredpill and femaledatingstrategy are the exact same thing, "how do I avoid fuckboys and settle down/how do I avoid thots who slutted around and now want 'something serious'".

I think some of it is that it seems like some of these women genuinely bought into the "women are from Venus" type of shit, unlike men obviously women care more about character than looks, men dont have a 'standard of beauty' like women do, women would never fuck around with some dudes emotions or whatever, lie or cheat, ghost a guy or leave just because she was bored and knew there were other guys out there, the grass is always greener.

Plus theyre kind of ignoring that they probably go for the same "traditionally hot" type of guys, and then they say shit about how theyre willing to settle (because its retarded to pretend you can custom build your perfect person) but the caveat being while certain shit isnt a "dealbreaker" but in their head its "but Id like him more if he was 4 inches taller, his dick could be bigger, whatever" and dont really appreciate the other shit. Women are also notoriously adamant about refusing to date a guy who is beneath them, although I can see trades being something where its like dating a cop, its not 'stable' necessarily.

I think one thing that will happen is that it will become as normal for older women to go for the "boytoy" type of situation like older men and younger women where its mostly about sex and they dont care if theyre fucking around on the side. The type of trophy wife/boytoy, except without the wife part. I dont think it will be common, and it never was common to be an older person who is hot and aged gracefully and took care of themselves rather than average and older-looking, but I think it will be as accepted as older guys kind of are with doing that.
 
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My opinion has basically devolved to, when it comes to sex and dating, men and women are way more alike than different.
Modern dating is kind of fucked for both genders and I do feel bad for women. Not everyone is an obese ho with 3 kids looking for a 6 figure earning, 6ft2 kang but the expectations society and the media tells women they should have are a bit messed up and articles like these don't help.

They wait and wait for prince charming and even though he never comes the "yas kween you deserve better" message keeps getting reinforced. Must be a hard feedback loop to break out of. As cathartic as it is to point and laugh and say "you get what you deserve Stacy" its a it fucked up when you take a step back and think about it.
 
If I'm in low supply and high demand then maybe find a way to keep me interested other than your pussy. Develop a personality and interesting passions. Idk what to tell you women except to work on yourselves.

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