Actually, they are making a perfectly logical argument. If most people in a group proclaim a belief in x, then you would expect most people in that group to behave in a way that conforms to a belief in x. If they don't then you might reasonably ask why there's a discrepancy. Of course we know why: everybody is lying and most people would rather die alone than be with these repulsive freaks. But they don't want to admit to a socially unfashionable stance so they engage in "preference falsification", or in other words saying one thing and doing the opposite. We know that a lot of trannies are autists and they may well take people's fake nice behaviour at face value and then become genuinely confused about why reality doesn't conform to what they are being told by people around them. In fact this can potentially happen to anyone.
This really is their social circle's fault. There's no need to be rude to autistic trannies faces irl, but it's harmful to confuse them with pleasant lies. They need to be tard-wrangled in a way that doesn't detach them from reality, so people should articulate their actual opinions. The rampant preference falsification is one of the main reasons why this tranny shit has been able to take off so much, because there's so many two-faced "allies" who will join in the cancellations of "transphobes" while behaving the same way when it comes to dating.