Corissa Enneking / fatgirlflow and Juliana "J" Aprileo / comfyfattravels - Delusional fat-acceptance lesbian couple, junk-food addicts with expensive taste, denied a mortgage due to excessive Doordash ordering

[Angry New Ager]

She can survive there more than a year, but no way is she perceived as a good worker. Remember, in the past year or so she laughed about making a mistake that cost her employer $5,000. And she complains that they don't have toilets big enough to hold her enormous weight, and has complained about how her coworkers used to judge her "need" to "snack constantly", and once complained about people who will call the administration number as soon as it opens at 8 a.m. Nothing J has ever said indicates her colleagues or employers have any reason to think of her as a good worker. She sounds like a nightmare to deal with, frankly.

Don't forget, she's also not only complained about co-workers misgendering her, but has also posted online about how she wants them to automatically use "her pronouns" when she's not around, and even when thinking about her.

Granted, that shit, along with her nattering about fatphobia, and demands for fatass accommodations, is rampant on college campuses at all levels (except maybe the blue-collar guys in facilities and the janitorial staff). But my impression is that she's just good enough at her job not to get fired, is unpopular with her co-workers, and not well-enough regarded by her superiors to either be promoted, or recommended for a higher-paying job elsewhere on campus. And, frankly, she's a discrimination lawsuit waiting to happen—this should be abundantly obvious to her higher-ups by now, and if they have, keeping her off-campus and working at home is the best option for dealing with her.

She's already tried and failed to get another, better-paying, higher-status job on-campus, and I'm sure she'll keep trying. Unless she does get lucky and land something else, however, I don't see her leaving this job, no matter how much she hates it. It was hard for her to find any employer willing to hire her at all, so the prospect of job hunting again, and the fact that this job provides health insurance both for herself and Corissa, will keep her there.

 

[Kitkatty]

She must not work full time. There's no job at any university that pays $9 an hour. $18 an hour at part time is far more in line.

yes, from their jobsite, administrative assistants make about $19 an hour https://employment.ku.edu/administrative-assistant/20524br

J is certainly not a higher level, public interacting, assistant for the chemistry department. It’s much more likely that she a basic call center employee. Glassdoor (I know, Glassdoor sucks) shows a base wage of $8.98/hr for a generic administrative assistant position. The KU website also shows a student job listing for Admin. Assistant for a whopping $7.65/hr. Min wage in KS is $7.25/hr.
Of course, it’s totally possible that she only works 15 hours per week, but then why would she say that she makes less than $15/hr? And that $17xxx salary number might be for only a partial year of work. Too many unknowns at this time.

 

[multiverse]

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What I found from a quick Google search. I don't want to knock how much people make since she does have a legit job (unlike Miss Jude). If she really wanted to though she could easily find a higher paying remote job with a call center or something.

I want to know how much Corissa brings in monthly as an "influencer."

Juliana only works part time because she's that lazy. If she worked full-time her salary would double.

 

[𝕺𝖑' 𝕯𝖎𝖗𝖙𝖞 𝕱𝖆𝖙𝖘𝖔]

She was told to continue working at home isntead of going back when Covid restrictions were lifted.

At my university, some of the older and higher-risk professors are still teaching fully or semi-remotely while younger and lower-risk ones are doing IRL classes again, so this could be a plausible answer.

Edit: punctuation

 

[Angry New Ager]

Juliana only works part time because she's that lazy. If she worked full-time her salary would double.

It's either that, or her boss intentionally doesn't schedule her for full-time hours. That's a pretty common way of getting wagies you don't like to quit and seek other employment, especially when they're likely to claim discrimination if you shitcan them.

 

[rocknrollmartian]

Juliana was working a full-time position for $30K a year at one point. Based on the pay included in other part-time KU admin job postings, J seems to be working a PT job now. Who knows if that was her decision or the school's. Regardless, she is extremely lazy and insanely entitled, so I'm sure she doesn't mind working fewer hours. And yes, the school may be trying to edge her out because she's an obvious liability as well as inept, demanding, and bitchy.

 

[UncleTusky]

She lies about her income stating its under minimum wage when since its in education it has to be publicly posted.

You're right and Kansas makes it very, very easy to look these things up. Go to this link, click "University of Kansas", then click "Administrative Assistant" to learn she made $29,938.61 in FY21. This works out to $14.97/hour for a 2,000 hour working year or $14.39/hour for a 2,080 hour working year.

Combine that with these:

Juliana was working a full-time position for $30K a year at one point. Based on the pay included in other part-time KU admin job postings, J seems to be working a PT job now. Who knows if that was her decision or the school's. Regardless, she is extremely lazy and insanely entitled, so I'm sure she doesn't mind working fewer hours. And yes, the school may be trying to edge her out because she's an obvious liability as well as inept, demanding, and bitchy.

It's either that, or her boss intentionally doesn't schedule her for full-time hours. That's a pretty common way of getting wagies you don't like to quit and seek other employment, especially when they're likely to claim discrimination if you shitcan them.

and her pay seems too high for her to be demoted to part time - the UKansas spreadsheet lists a salary of $30k even, the state transparency site lists a salary within $100 of that, that looks way more like a rounding error than a demotion or cut in hours.

I also can't imagine why her boss would only cut her hours by such a small amount if s/he wanted Juliana to quit - putting her on back shifts or not scheduling her at all might accomplish that but making her take only ~1 day off is toothless.

 

[rocknrollmartian]

I am very skeptical of the "part time" theory because UKansas would probably be trying to reduce her hours to less than 30/week (the cutoff where the Obamacare mandate cuts in, healthcare is much more expensive than other benefits) if it wanted her gone.

I dunno, I found this for a different part-time admin job:

I think J is working 25 hours a week now.

 

[bathtub-tigers]

I can’t believe Corissa is letting her get away with this

 

[UncleTusky]

I think J is working 25 hours a week now.

Good find - at 20 hours/week, that works out to $16.25-$18/hour. That being said at Juliana's pay of $29,938.61/year she'd need to be making $23.95/hour to only be working 25 hours/week. That just seems too high compared to the rates in the posting in my opinion.

 

[What's_The_Frequency?]

Juliana doesn't look good. Aside from the obvious (duh) she had terrible rings around her eyes and really poor color in her face. She works a part time call center job she hates where they don't even want her to come back to work and Coco who is unemployed as far as I can tell, just locked them into a mortgage on a house that needs major renovations. I think she is killing herself with food out of despair.

 

[rocknrollmartian]

Good find - at 20 hours/week, that works out to $16.25-$18/hour. That being said at Juliana's pay of $29,938.61/year she'd need to be making $23.95/hour to only be working 25 hours/week. That just seems too high compared to the rates in the posting in my opinion.

This is the last I'm going to post about this because it's getting redundant and it's only really interesting if J is soon to be shit-canned, but J's current pay is $17K, not $30K. $30K was her full-time salary. She is almost certainly working a part-time job now, about 25 hours a week at $14-something an hour.

 

[GenociderSyo]

Juliana doesn't look good. Aside from the obvious (duh) she had terrible rings around her eyes and really poor color in her face. She works a part time call center job she hates where they don't even want her to come back to work and Coco who is unemployed as far as I can tell, just locked them into a mortgage on a house that needs major renovations. I think she is killing herself with food out of despair.

Earlier in thread had everything house/loan in Corrissa's name alone

 

[stupid frog]

if shes only working part time doesnt that mean she losses the health covering?

 

[UncleTusky]

if shes only working part time doesnt that mean she losses the health covering?

Not necessarily, Obamacare requires employers to cover staff working more than 30 hours/week but does not forbid them from offering it to people who work less than that.

I also suspect that we'd have seen a meltdown from Juliana already if she did lose it because even crappy, overpriced employer provided coverage is generally a better deal than the Obamacare exchanges and we know she + Corissa have obesity related illnesses.

 

[GenociderSyo]

J is PISSED on patreon about the house:

• She is no longer able to do stairs at all and the house has stairs to enter/exit.
  • Admits that she has been so stationary that her knees have gone to shit to the point where she cannot bend them right.
• She injured her knee attempting the stairs and ended up unable to do even move around the house.
• We were all correct she is UNABLE TO USE THAT BATHROOM.
  • She admits to not showering at all for an undisclosed (probably still) amount of time.
• She states that she knows she should not have but that she blamed others (Corrissa) on these issues.
• She injured her knee so badly it has required PT.
• They had to move her stuff into the basement so there would be less stairs.
• It made her think about HAES.
  • Sadly, she decided to blame it not on the fat, but on society.
• She also states that shes going to continue to not give her patreons what they pay for (Content) as often as she is supposed to.

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This is such a complicated question for me right now. I took over a month off from worrying about patreon and having a social media presence and posting and engagement and pretty much anything to do with being online. I want to say it was about our move into our new home and the chaos of having renovations done while working full time from home with 6 animals and two additional human guests but...that aint really it y'all! The truth is, I took some time away because I was feeling pretty dang low about myself.
When we moved into this house, I knew the stairs would be difficult. But I didn't know how difficult or in what capacity. I didn't realize that the loss of mobility, having not regularly used stairs for over a year while in "the panini" would actually create a physical change in my body. I lost the muscles around my knees and in my thighs and hips that one uses when they go up and down stairs. My knees were not ready for daily stairs. Our new home has steps at every entry, and I thought it would just take a little time to adjust and gain the strength I needed, but I actually found myself with a debilitating knee injury and an abrupt slip into a depression I've never felt.
Physically - I couldn't walk around without pain. The clicks and the pops were excruciating and I kept being told it was "normal and part of healing." I couldn't sleep without pain, couldn't lay...it's like I could never find relief. I also couldn't shower, which brought up all new hygiene issues. And I couldn't help with unpacking boxes or moving furniture, which wasn't great for feeling like a reliable partner. I couldn't help with the dogs and I couldn't stop talking about how bad everything was. Emotionally, I was even more wrecked by it. And it scared me. It still scares me. I felt worthless. And I was treating my loved ones like they were the problem. I found myself grumpy and with a resentful victim-like attitude that was hindering me from showing up for myself and for my people. I wasn't being who I wanted to be in the world and couldn't see hope of my situation changing.
A big part of this is that I also felt like a sham, as "Comfy Fat," to be struggling so deeply with lack of self worth while I couldn't walk or shower. I kept telling myself that I'm supposed to be a resource for folks struggling with this kind of thing, while also hating myself for being such a crab and "letting myself get to this point." There's a lot of shame there. I've never felt such shame about myself before. And it felt disingenuous to preach self love, kindness, and advocacy while I couldn't seem to conjure it up for myself. I'm not an expert at living life comfortably while fat. I'm just a fat trans person with some lived experience. I have some knowledge about some things, but the world is so big and the possibilities are endless. I can never know all of the answers ahead of time. There's always more learning to do.
Thankfully I've been going to physical therapy and have seen really great improvement with my knees over the past few weeks. We even moved my office down to the basement and I'm finding myself sore at the end of the day but not injured. I'm taking things slow, thinking very intentionally about each and every step and stair. This injury really terrified me. It brought out parts of me and my values that I think need some healing.
What do you believe in? I keep asking myself this question. If I had to choose values I align with, what would they be? What am I aiming for? Peace? Collaboration? Capital? Health? Self reflection? Compassion? Resilience? Do I value movement? Stability? Access? Challenges? Consistency? If I truly believe others have worth outside of what they can physically do, where did the deep dark depressive monster crawl up from when I was injured?
Am I back on patreon? Not sure! Definitely not at full force. I'm thinking of starting an "Ask J column," for a while. I love to write and answer prompts/discussion questions and feel like short Q&A's on IG don't give me the opportunity to elaborate. Want to read about a topic in particular from me? Send questions to j@comfyfat.com and I'll answer here on patreon and keep you anonymous <3

 

[JuniperFalls]

My God, the level of denial in J's latest Patreon post is almost painful to read.

"I didn't realize that the loss of mobility, having not regularly used stairs for over a year while in "the panini" would actually create a physical change in my body. I lost the muscles around my knees and in my thighs and hips that one uses when they go up and down stairs." No. A year of staying home to avoid covid would explain why an Olympic athlete finds she's no longer in good enough shape to do Olympic-caliber stunts. But for a normal healthy 30-year-old, climbing stairs isn't a use it or lose it ability. Plenty of people much older than that spent covid year in single-story homes and then had no difficulty handling the stairs to return to their second-story workplaces.

"I found myself grumpy and with a resentful victim-like attitude that was hindering me from showing up for myself and for my people." Your attitude probably wasn't helping, but what's actually hindering you from showing up for yourself is your refusal to consider eating in moderation, no matter how much damage your pathological amount of eating causes.

"A big part of this is that I also felt like a sham, as "Comfy Fat," to be struggling so deeply with lack of self worth while I couldn't walk or shower." That feeling comes from the small part of your brain still capable of some level of rational self-awareness. Listen to it.

"I kept telling myself that I'm supposed to be a resource for folks struggling with this kind of thing, while also hating myself for being such a crab and "letting myself get to this point." There's a lot of shame there. I've never felt such shame about myself before." Not to sound like a Sith lord here, but: give in to that hatred, J. You should hate the fact that you let things get to this point, and you should let that hatred of your situation motivate you to change it.

"And it felt disingenuous to preach self love, kindness, and advocacy while I couldn't seem to conjure it up for myself. I'm not an expert at living life comfortably while fat." It IS disingenuous to preach self-love while promoting self-harm, and no human can be an expert at living comfortably with that much fat, same way no human can be an expert at breathing under water. Our species' biology doesn't work that way: we can't breathe water because we have lungs instead of gills, and we can't carry 500+ pounds on a 5'2" skeleton because human bone simply isn't that strong.

"This injury really terrified me. It brought out parts of me and my values that I think need some healing." Wait, what's this? Could J be on the verge of a useful self-insight?

"If I had to choose values I align with, what would they be? What am I aiming for? Peace? Collaboration? Capital? Health? Self reflection? Compassion? Resilience? Do I value movement? Stability? Access? Challenges? Consistency? If I truly believe others have worth outside of what they can physically do, where did the deep dark depressive monster crawl up from when I was injured?" No, no self-insight. What you value above all else, J, is eating. Which is why you're still eating Taco Bell by the bag even after losing the ability to take a bath or move through your own house. And that dark depressive monster is your last remaining bit of self-awareness screaming at you to stop destroying yourself with food.

 

[GenociderSyo]

Corrissa IG:

J IG:

 

[stupid frog]

corissa bought this house to kill JULIANNA confirmed

 

[The Emperor Skeksis]

PTs are trained to work with people of all different sizes, but there must be a point where someone is so fat the PT just give up and pretends to work on them and hopes for the best.

Can the PT even reach J's muscles through the fat, can he/she even see if J is making correct movements through the blubber? Did they just tell her 'uh try to walk more stairs but slowly and see if it gets better'? What the fuck are you supposed to do with her?