Fat Acceptance Movement / Fat Girlcows

[440088]

Marissa has become so insufferable that her high school and university friends are distancing themselves. And you’d think - geez, maybe this is a sign for my to really do some introspection and wondering why my friendships are failing. Nope. Marissa blames them for being bad people.

 

[FuckDuckSeagull]

Ahahhaaa!!! Why the fuck would these people want a "final conversation" with this lunatic? Marissa, if several "friends" ghost you, most likely you are the problem, because you're a crazy thundercunt.

Edit. She really says these people need to thank her for the friendship, omg my sides!

 

[HamFan]

Marissa has become so insufferable that her high school and university friends are distancing themselves. And you’d think - geez, maybe this is a sign for my to really do some introspection and wondering why my friendships are failing. Nope. Marissa blames them for being bad people.

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You know, friendships from your youth can fade as you become "real" adults and grow apart. And it can hurt when you stop and think about it. But you should have enough things in your own life going on- career, kids, whatever- to help you move past those "breakups."

Can you imagine how the conversation would go if someone did try to decisively end a friendship with Marissa? The chimp out she would have? The upspeak and that psychotic fake smile? "Oh, so you don't want to be around me any more? You think that I'm a negative person and you don't need that in your life? Well, that's funny because you didn't seem to think that when I helped you out (that one time five years ago)!"

This person may have not even shut Marissa out completely. Maybe missed a call or text or two because she's busy with her family or job or travel. Maybe putting off talking to her because, while she does care, Marissa is exhausting to deal with and they have little in common anymore. Maybe she had no intention to end the friendship, but Marissa's psychotic reaction and need to air her personal grievances on the internet just sealed the deal.

 

[Angry New Ager]

Marissa has become so insufferable that her high school and university friends are distancing themselves. And you’d think - geez, maybe this is a sign for my to really do some introspection and wondering why my friendships are failing. Nope. Marissa blames them for being bad people.

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God, can you imagine what her reaction would be if any of those old friends did as she claims she wants?

Marissa would demand to know why they're ending the friendship. She wouldn't be satisfied with this mushy, euphemistic, "growing apart" crap; she'd want reasons. And then she'd use those reasons to berate her now-former friends and tell them why they're the trashy, hateful, entitled losers, not her. Even if they didn't want to end the friendship, but felt they needed to do a true friend's duty by having a come-to-Jesus talk with her, she'd lash out at them, tell them why they were wrong, and make them the bad ones. Narcs gotta DARVO, man.

Because it's never her. She's never the problem. Nothing Marissa does can possibly be seen as so obnoxious or objectionable that quietly vanishing from a years-long friendship is justifiable. That her oldest friends are all ghosting on her is their failing, not hers. Or at least that's what Marissa believes.

I'm pretty sure her sexual acting-out (paid or not) provided the final nails in a bunch of coffins that have been years in the building. Sex is great, but the way she's going about it—multiple hookups each week with randos met on a dating app, boasting about it online, posting pics of allegedly post-coital urine-soaked puppy pads in her bed—would be enough to make me decide I was finally done with an obnoxious, attention-seeking friend, left over from my school or college days. Even if I was sure she was lying about it for attention and not having sex at all, I'd be done with her sickness. Sometimes, you realize that the situation is hopelessly unfixable and there is nothing to do but move on—and that's exactly what Marissa's old friends have been doing.

 

[DoorPost101]

God, can you imagine what her reaction would be if any of those old friends did as she claims she wants?

Marissa would demand to know why they're ending the friendship. She wouldn't be satisfied with this mushy, euphemistic, "growing apart" crap; she'd want reasons. And then she'd use those reasons to berate her now-former friends and tell them why they're the trashy, hateful, entitled losers, not her. Even if they didn't want to end the friendship, but felt they needed to do a true friend's duty by having a come-to-Jesus talk with her, she'd lash out at them, tell them why they were wrong, and make them the bad ones. Narcs gotta DARVO, man.

Because it's never her. She's never the problem. Nothing Marissa does can possibly be seen as so obnoxious or objectionable that quietly vanishing from a years-long friendship is justifiable. That her oldest friends are all ghosting on her is their failing, not hers. Or at least that's what Marissa believes.

I'm pretty sure her sexual acting-out (paid or not) provided the final nails in a bunch of coffins that have been years in the building. Sex is great, but the way she's going about it—multiple hookups each week with randos met on a dating app, boasting about it online, posting pics of allegedly post-coital urine-soaked puppy pads in her bed—would be enough to make me decide I was finally done with an obnoxious, attention-seeking friend, left over from my school or college days. Even if I was sure she was lying about it for attention and not having sex at all, I'd be done with her sickness. Sometimes, you realize that the situation is hopelessly unfixable and there is nothing to do but move on—and that's exactly what Marissa's old friends have been doing.

I don't know how old Marissa is, but no one over 25 cares how many Tinder hookups you (or your friends) are getting, and it certainly won't register pride or awe in your friends. What an empty thing for her to brag about.

 

[Fialovy]

I don't know how old Marissa is, but no one over 25 cares how many Tinder hookups you (or your friends) are getting, and it certainly won't register pride or awe in your friends. What an empty thing for her to brag about.

Yeah, it would be more meaningful if she actually had and maintained a long term relationship, which, honestly? Most of those guys she hooked up with would run if she wanted something long term and any decent guy probably wouldn't put up with her for very long especially considering what her friends are doing.

 

[NoReturn]

"Oh, so you don't want to be around me any more? You think that I'm a negative person and you don't need that in your life? Well, that's funny because you didn't seem to think that when I helped you out (that one time five years ago)!"

Somehow you managed to nail both her tone and pacing in text. Well done.

 

[440088]

I don't know how old Marissa is, but no one over 25 cares how many Tinder hookups you (or your friends) are getting, and it certainly won't register pride or awe in your friends. What an empty thing for her to brag about.

She’s in her 20s. And she’s beautiful, thriving, and amazing. So fuck off!!

 

[RainbowStarlight]

Ahahhaaa!!! Why the fuck would these people want a "final conversation" with this lunatic? Marissa, if several "friends" ghost you, most likely you are the problem, because you're a crazy thundercunt.

Edit. She really says these people need to thank her for the friendship, omg my sides!

Wait, do people actually do that? Have convos about ending a friendship? Not to PL (I think most people here can relate) but I've had many friends I considered best friends from high school where we just simply grew apart. There wasn't anything wrong with them at all but yeah, growing apart sucks but it is LIFE. Sorry but I think it'd be alward of anyone of them were straight up "we grew apart we need to not be friends anymore." Usually when friends grow apart there is a very mutual realization and understanding. So if she is not able to grasp and sense that a friendship growing apart, then she must of done something fucked up for them to ghost her, which I know doesn't shock anyone here.

 

[NoReturn]

Marissa's kitchen always makes me think it's an office at first glance. The stove looks like a copy machine and the decor is just missing a "Hang in there!" cat.

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New friend:

 

[RainbowStarlight]

Wow what a cunt.

 

[weaselhat]

The only things Marissa talks about in her rant is what these friends did for her. Helping her get things, coming to her graduation, performing in her play, visiting her in the hospital. Not once, not even one thing does she mention something she did for them. So basically her friends got tired of her needy ass and ghosted her with that next thing she wanted from them. When all you do is take from people, don’t be surprised when one day they quit giving. No one is a bottomless cup. Looks like her friends decided to cut the toxic out of their lives and maybe the nicest thing they could do was ghost. (Not even getting into her gross fat whore life which would be a reason to ghost her all by itself)

 

[beanbag in a hurry]

Having this major surgery and acting that it's nothing at all skeeves me the fuck out as a European..
She's already talking about being able to have christmas dinner, DDDDD

 

[Crepidodera fulvicornis]

She's already talking about being able to have christmas dinner

Aaaand she’s gained it back.
I know she hasn’t lost anything yet, today’s the surgery day and all, but this, this makes me sure that she has already gained it back — in her mind, in her behaviour, and her future actions.

Great job, Alex.

 

[weaselhat]

Having this major surgery and acting that it's nothing at all skeeves me the fuck out as a European..
She's already talking about being able to have christmas dinner, DDDDD

I’m not European, and nothing about her behavior is normal in my opinion. I know someone who had this surgery and she had healing issues and stitches opening back up. This is not a simple surgery. Her itching stitches itself could be a sign of a brewing infection. A lot of people actually get infected at the time of surgery. She’s an idiot.

Also that person I know did loose weight, but two years later she’s fat again. So what was the point really?

 

[FarmerKhourtney]

I can’t imagine waltzing around target with like an open wound? Idk. Just why. Having an allergic reaction is terrible btw I think most people would want to rest at home

 

[NoReturn]

Having this major surgery and acting that it's nothing at all skeeves me the fuck out as a European..

What's the actual timeline between the surgery and when the Target video was filmed? I'm so confused.

 

[I call shenanigans]

What's the actual timeline between the surgery and when the Target video was filmed? I'm so confused.

I'm not sure of the timing of the filming of the latest video, but to be honest 3-4 days is long enough to be able to walk around and do some shopping if the person feels like it. Surgeons have you up and walking the day of surgery to prevent blood clots. Most folk tend to want to take it easy at home for a few days, and walking around can be pretty tiring and painful. In the US, patients can be released the same day as the actual surgery. The only real restrictions are the dietary ones, no driving while taking narcotics, and no lifting anything over a couple of pounds. It really isn't a huge surgery when performed laprascopically, unless there is concurrent gall bladder removal or hernia repair (quite common procedures to be performed during WLS).

ETA: after watching that video it appears that ornament shopping trip happened about day 6 after her surgery.

 

[Angry New Ager]

It really isn't a huge surgery when performed laprascopically, unless there is concurrent gall bladder removal or hernia repair (quite common procedures to be performed during WLS).

Or vice-versa; Corissa Enneking ree'd about how she got offered a 2-for-1 deal on WLS when she had to get her gallbladder out.

 

[440088]

Something about the way marissa does her eyes really wide but the fat keeps them smushed at the same time makes me laugh.