It's a stitched tiktok. The thumbnail is the audio - if it's an original audio (i.e. someone talking, rather someone lipsynching along to another tiktok) then the audio display will show their avatar, which rotates while playing like a vinyl record.
They literally mean being friends, yes. Primary is sexual, secondary is romantic, tertiary is platonic.
Tertiary is an umbrella for all the other attraction types. So there's also queerplatonic attraction, which they claim is asexual nonromantic soulmates, so in other words want to be
best friends with someone*. There's also aesthetic, where you think they're pretty "but not sexually, honest!". There's sensual, where you want to do "sensual" things with them like cuddle or massage or even kiss, but "genuinely this isn't sexual attraction, honest!". There's even more exceptional shit like "domestic attraction" where you want to cook someone a nice meal and do their laundry.
*Asexuals get really mad at you calling queerplatonic relationships "being best friends", but not as mad as aromantics do when they go on about their sexual queerplatonic relationships and you insist they're either fuckbuddies or they have a regular old relationship and they just have commitment issues.
I kinda miss the asexuality phase of social justice, because nobody took their whining about oppression seriously, so you could poke holes in their logic with no social penalty. They were also
mostly harmless, and were basically autistic people who didn't understand that what they were experiencing was just regular old sexual attraction and had an obsessive need to categorise everything and make exceptional graphs:
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or they were attention whores who wanted attention for having a regular old relationship but "queer" in some nebulous sense. They've pretty much all faded away now or transitioned, and unfortunately the movement birthed the concept of the "non sexual fetish" which a bunch of groomers use now.