Tommie if you could magically get a new life and you could choose between
A) A smart, wealthy man who loves his job and has a beautiful wife and kids
B) The Man’s beautiful wife who is very charming and easy to love, terrific mom, pretty much totally dependent on the man. Which is fine because he loves her madly and is happy to provide.
C) An old man who had a fulfilling life and is long retired and living with his eldest kid and helps babysit the grandkids. He’s probably not got much time left on this earth but it was a good, long and accomplished life and he’s not in much pain.
Which would you choose and why?