he's a chef, a professional athlete, et cetera ad nauseum as well?
I'm certain he told her all of these things, and she just passed those lies onto us. He's obviously a braggart--everything he does, he does perfectly, better than anyone else. He recently just bragged about having opened a
bunch of restaurants in Canada, most of them when he first arrived. He lies as easily as she does. I'm not saying Chinny isn't stupid for believing them, but I don't think she's responsible for creating them.
she didn't do jack about it but starfish on the floor mattress and set up his live the next morning.
In her Long Road stream, she admits they didn't apologize to each other. Then she starts to say "We had a great m--" but stops herself. I think she was going to say "make up sex session" or something stupid, but either didn't want to anger him by admitting it, OR! she's starting to realize that her lies get back to him eventually. By trailing off, she can imply what she knows her audience will infer, but she can also maintain plausible deniability when either her chat or her loving boyfriend challenge her on it.
The part about Nader being a woman beater, abuser, stealing her money, whatever - has mostly came from people who cow-tip like shannon, FFG, ect.... She has walked those allegations back, confirmed them, walked them back, confirmed them, walked them back over and over and over.
Just remember: she has a vested interest in making him look good, just as she has a vested interest in making him look bad when it's convenient for her. But before she had any skin in the game at all (apart from a fun, interesting storytime), and wasn't yet trying to sell him to her audience, the version she showed us of Nader was abusive and aggressive--so much so that even she was put off by it. This was the story literally from day one, before he had a chance to be sick of her shit. That's his real personality: aggressive (constant sexual activity, even when she didn't want it, that caused bruises), angry ("What took you so long?!"), and obsessive (repeated phone calls before they even met up).
She can try to rehabilitate his image all she wants, but that's all she's doing. She isn't changing the real man.
It just looks like a fat Nader
I like how she made sure to give him a big nose as well. "Look, babe, that's just how I draw. I wasn't making fun of your nose at all! I love your giant nose, I SWEYARRRR."
Colon cancer is one of the top 5 cancers out there. And she fits all the criteria. What the eff is wrong with her?
She said something recently during one of their many fights when she "found out" something about him from the chat that was less than savory (I'll update if I can find the specifics). Her response was something like, "Who would want to find that out about their partner, though?"
The answer is, anyone who is sane. Sane people don't live in fantasy worlds where they actively choose to ignore harsh realities in favor of a construct that only exists in their heads, in order to preserve something that most people would have moved on from months ago.
She is exactly the kind of person who would rather stick her head firmly and willingly into the sand, so long as she can keep living the way she does. An end to her relationship would mean a massive change in her routine and in the trajectory of her life; a diagnosis of colon cancer would mean the same. She wouldn't be able to continue to eat the way she does now, true, but worse than that, I think, would be facing the inescapable reality that actions have consequences. Which she so far seems to have skillfully avoided.
I wouldn't even wish it on an horrible person like Chantal.
A car crash, then?
