FanaticDreamer
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- Feb 9, 2021
I said "AN" age gap isn't creepy. The one listed certainly was. There's a difference between the two statements you're trying to conflate."I'm not saying an age gap is creepy, but the way he talked about it certainly was. The fact that he had a repeated pattern of dating young girls is concerning, to say the least. I knew he had dated some girls younger than him but I did NOT know that it was a repeated behavior and of this magnitude. Nor did I know he said stuff like in that image or I would have cut ties immediately."
The age gap absolutely is creepy.
And LOL at the "I would have cut ties immediately!!" bullshit. You were Chibi's buddy for years, even inviting him to stay with you for a week.
Not sure how those two conflict? You can be friends with someone and invite them over but also cut ties if they do something awful? Weird take.
Way too late to be like "Lol the whole time I was totally better and cooler than this person I willingly befriended and spent lots of time with for years".
??? This implying that someone cannot grow and realize that someone they used to speak to was horrible? Again, weird take. I said multiple times that I was an idiot when I was younger, so you're a bit late there.
Also "spent lots of time for years" is stretching things a bit. The most time I spoke to him was in 2016, when we were initially friends. In 2017 we would regularly go several weeks/months without speaking because he was exhausting and I didn't want to deal with it. This continued in 2018. Barely spoke to him in 2019 aside from meme farming. We have had maybe 8-10 voice calls in total during our entire friendship. I hung out in person with him for a grand-total of 3 (maybe 4?) hours because usually I was annoyed at him and didn't want to spend time with him at GDQs. My friends couldn't stand him, either.
The "final straw" was when he (A) embarassed my best-friend Sam at the time of SGDQ2018 by fighting with a guy over her and made her leave the event, and then (B) falsely accused a good friend of mine of sexually assaulting him in 2020 (which was the last time I truly had a conversation with him IIRC) which made me realize he'd truly do anything for attention. I stopped talking to him consistently after the incident in 2018. I no longer considered him a good friend. I only kept up the conversations with him because he was entertaining - something I'm sure the posters here wouldn't fault me on.
If you were perfect your entire life and never hung out with any toxic people - good for you. Here's a cookie ( : : ) to go with the milk.
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