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- Jul 7, 2021
The ideal goal of both history and therapy is to learn from the events and mistakes of the past and apply that knowledge towards better choices and actions for the sake of the future. The difference is that you have a degree of personal and emotional separation from history, whereas you don't from the life events you would typically discuss with a therapist. It's not healthy to dwell much on your own past because of how intrinsically it ties into your own emotions and cognitive biases, that's just human nature.If we are being non-joking for a second. I honestly think that this is how we teach our history. It's like 90% "Here is why we are evil." I remember feeling really ashamed sitting next to my black class mates in middle school. It's an odd memory that my mind has held onto, and I am sure it affected a lot of people the same way. I don't think it's healthy to dwell on past wrongs. Therapists wouldn't advice it for an individual, so why do we do it as a collective?
Edit: I'm American for context, I don't know if other western nations have this.
With history, the facts of the past might horrify you, but you're approaching them from a more objective standpoint than you possibly can when thinking about your own life experience. Pretending that horrible historical facts didn't happen just to spare people some discomfort is both disingenuous and disrespectful to the people who had to suffer through far worse fates than feeling awkward in their eighth-grade history class.
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