Thomas beatie at least had /has a genuinely good personality, and is one tranny that publically is hard to dislike, he's not an obnoxious pushy troon and I even use his proper pronoun , clearly there's some low key narc stuff here but publically he seems v clean cut, or did I miss some crazy scandals other than his divorce and remarriage?
The ex-wife tho, batshit crazy, there's videos of her that Thomas took of her in like drunken manic rages, threw a chair thru a window by their pool and was throwing a laptop in the pool and screeching, pretty milky if anyone can find them, they were made public when he was trying to get a divorce. she got hauled off to jail for domestics a couple times , I think there welas rehab , maybe more than once, im likely to believe it's True even tho I clearly only have Thomas perspective here, but the vids are pretty damning.
I have lots of spergs and rants on hospital.birthing centers. It is my understanding that ftms do not want separate from birthing facilities because they are afraid of being "separate and unequal" , yet ignore the fact that females on male hormones completely changes their endocrinology, that they Want troon OB ftm specialists and not regular OBs that are trained and experienced in non- hormonal (pun intended) birthing and womens health,.
. Socially, there's a lot of patterns that happen on an OB floor, regarding the families and folks making lifelong friends and some whose babies die, and then the happy parents want them transferred off the floor or something because "their sadness is ruining our happee new human interactions"/mommy's health/etc, omfg a lot of entitlement goes on, drama with families and the visiting and family lounge rooms - all this just to say, ftms, open your own birth centers. Literally by forcing non specialty ftm trained health care workers to cater to you, it absolutely affects the health care of the others on the floor. The sickest/most high maintenance medically the baby, the more attention baby will get, those baby nurses are top notch. (Am biased here) they don't need to be taken away from that to try and figure out your troon needs. doesn't that also put the hospital at risk for getting sued?
I was in an accident in a small town once, and small town hospital had to transfer me over an hour away because they couldn't treat my injuries there. Got me stable, and sent me off once the extent ofy I juries was known, So, how is this not any different
Last I checked America is still overwhelmingly capitalist , there is a gap in this healthcare market,go fill it. If u build it, they will come right?.
Eta: so,why haven't ftms opened their own birthing centers that are "male-birthing "centered?? One? Anywhere? Is it because no "specialists " want to work with them? I WONDER WHY
