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Kelly Lenza / LividLipids / softbodytendermind / ass_child / photopotamus - "Radical body liberationist”, Intentionally Repulsive, Uber woke middle-aged SJW influencer wannabe, doxed her former therapist for getting WLS, ate her way to heart failure
It's okay to be repulsed by someone's fetish. It's okay to call the police in someone's display of sexual deviance. You don't owe perverts an education, kindness, or anything else.
Yep, she's not a good communicator. If I have to rearrange all your word salad in my head to try to understand it, you are doing a piss poor job of communicating your thoughts. Or, your thoughts are just crap. Choose wisely, my friend.
This fetish shit is such a weird cope and I wonder what drama she's been getting upto, now. The reason it's uncouth for a man to bring up how much he loves fat women is because it's a red flag most of the time.
Fucking THIS. The whole thing is that women are not objects and while we all have our preferences and our attractions, it can also be dangerous. Watch 600 lb life and see how many men LEAVE their women when they lose weight because they are literally dying. Kelly is trying to make a whole cause around something and doesn't realize she's actually taking the side of abusers and users. These feeder men aren't good, they don't love fat women, they love fat bodies and once the body is no longer fat they don't give a shit and find the next fat body.
Go peek at the Slaton thread. Tammy Slaton is being fed to actual death by a bunch of enabling, disgusting feeder men while her family has basically washed their hands of her because their years of being at her beck and call to try to save her life have done nothing and now she's in hospice.
Kelly. You are fat. You are unhealthy. You will die younger than you should because you are fat. These aren't opinions, and Twitter rants or Instagram posts will not change these truths. You will likely not see both your daughters graduate from high school, most definitely not college. You want to be fat and healthy? It's not impossible, you can be. But you are not, and stop this shit empowering abusive men who just want to stick their dick between your folds and don't care about you at all.
Thank fucking God she's not a leader in any community. I would hate to see any young girls struggling with their body image looking up to this piece of shit.
ETA: Just caught up and read that bit about "Thin white dude should be doing the talking" and OMFG Kelly are you telling me that the white man should be talking over the fat sex worker about her own shit?
I know exactly where this is going, I'll spoiler my speculation:
Kelly got shut down by this community, and like other narcs we have on this site she's a 'sooper speshul'. She's just a white, middle class woman so she gets no real oppression points (except the woman part but thats not enough) so she's fake trans NB which I am sure she tried to throw around and got thrown right back in her face with a big IDGAF. So now she's starting up with talking points about who we should REALLY listen to, and what do you know, it's white people. We've come full circle and it's hilarious
This "seeing something that upsets you doesn't make you a victim" shit is mighty rich coming from her, Miss "Fat people losing weight is violence against me." How does she not have a stroke from the cognitive dissonance? She is the WORST.
Seeing things that upset you does not mean that thing is abuse, or wrong - except when they go against my extremist SJW tribe's beliefs REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
This "seeing something that upsets you doesn't make you a victim" shit is mighty rich coming from her, Miss "Fat people losing weight is violence against me." How does she not have a stroke from the cognitive dissonance? She is the WORST.
Because she's a narc; she's done that before - what do you have to do with what other people want to their bodies? Cough-cough therapist wants wls for herself cough-cough
Yep, she's not a good communicator. If I have to rearrange all your word salad in my head to try to understand it, you are doing a piss poor job of communicating your thoughts. Or, your thoughts are just crap. Choose wisely, my friend.
Or, as it seems evident at this point, Kelly doesn't really have a coherent argument, so she is screeching into the void as an authority figure on her non-issue she doesn't fully understand, so she can't clearly communicate it. Kelly is mad she was kicked out of a group of 20-somethings and now she's re-directing her rage towards people who don't like fat fetishes. Or maybe it's people who have fat fetishes but aren't open about it? Idk. Regardless, narcs are prone to making bold, incoherent statements and latching onto whatever part of the statement gets them the attention they seek. All the replies to her trying to clarify or rebuke her are just a way to distract herself from her narc rage and narc injury. Narcs thrive on heightened emotional reactions- that's when it's easiest to manipulate people. Making incoherent, yet inflammatory statements online is the perfect way for Kelly to piss people off so she can feel superior to them.
I feel sorry for her kids. I'm sure there's quite a few of us here who had narc parents, thus our interest in such a unsuccessful narc mother.
I must admit, I don’t understand what is that she’s saying since fat kink post. Pyrolysis is not a switch? Verisimilitude does not equal verity?
She’s seething soothing her narc injury with latest posts, *that part I get; but her words make the same amount of sense to me as those shirts with prints like #341 Miami 1983
Congratulations Kelly. You are the entire deathfat white woman stereotype. Feeder fetish and all
Yes this shit is super harmful. Anytime someone keeps projecting this stereotype it's harmful. This is one of the "kinks" in many bdsm communities that is no no. To them killing your partner is not a kink.
To me, one and their partner are supposed to progress mentally, emotionally, spiritually individually & together. With the right partner capable of being better people today than yesterday so one can be a better person tomorrow than they are today together and separate. Regardless of weight... does deathfat feeder fetishism sound like that?
The tiniest % of deathfats are into or agree with this fetish. Sure the bopo movent but so many don't like their body and get uncomfortable with it being fetishized. Many deathfat women are simply hiding under the fat from trauma & abuse.
Women in general who want to be fetishized is a small %. Strangers aren't wanted in our inbox. Half the time we just smile & nod hoping another man doesn't speak to us. No? Just me?
Kelly you are a fucking moron once again. jfc. Yes people are always going to go off about people slowly killing their partner or hey their children.