I think you miss the point to all that, people that have power/influence want men to be weak and women to be whores, they want us to hate each other.
Same with blacks hating whites. Truth is, we did care about blacks. The entire US was torn apart over freeing slaves (basically, of course more as going on) and we paid for their freedoms with gallons of blood and tons of white lives lost. Took us awhile to treat them fairly, and i do believe back in teh 60s, that we needed that civil rights movement for them. Shame they have been used as pawns, gollums and just all around attack dogs for the powers that be. hell, not 30 years ago we mostly got along. Some of my favorite people were black when i served. they were mostly decent folks, and we always sort of loved each other like brothers. Shame that's changed too.