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Apochrypha said:
If you are overly emotional and clingy towards us, we will absolutely leave you. At least the smart ones will. We are not your mothers.
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Don't leave me! I can change! I can become the emotionless statue that you want!

((Said with rage not in a sad way BTW))

The Foxtrot said:
I've noticed a lot of dudes these days say they want a "girlfriend", but what they describe really amounts to a surrogate mother.
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Chris is truly a pioneer.
 
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What they mean by "emotional men" is actually "men who will listen to my emotions and endless stories about nothing without getting angry." Being irritated by emotions means you're cold and distant, expressing your own emotions means you're an unfuckable soy boy emo fag, and calmly tolerating a woman's emotions without ever expressing your own means you're a giga chad. Incel rage puts you in the middle category, because anger is indeed an emotion.
 
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Apochrypha said:
If you are overly emotional and clingy towards us, we will absolutely leave you. At least the smart ones will. We are not your mothers.
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That's because a generation of young dudes got told by their moms they were 'speshul little guys and any girl would be lucky to have them' after they came home with their participation awards and they took it to heart. They now fail to understand the concept of being a grown adult man.
 
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Think of how many guys who are kind to animals pull girls. They see that care and it tells them you are a safe person to be around because you arent hurting weaker things or being cruel because you yourself are hurting. Its been proven that men who care or can show paternal love toward animals or children are seen as more attractive. I think it comes down to expressing safe emotions that dont risk a family being torn to pieces or a woman getting hurt/vice versa. This is just my experience
 
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Grub said:
That's because a generation of young dudes got told by their moms they were 'speshul little guys and any girl would be lucky to have them' after they came home with their participation awards and they took it to heart. They now fail to understand the concept of being a grown adult man.
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Average mother of the generation before me: "Any girl would be lucky to have you!"
My mother (about my current girlfriend): "You're lucky any girl likes you!"

We're still together several years later. See? Negative reinforcement is key.

Galoyan said:
Think of how many guys who are kind to animals pull girls. They see that care and it tells them you are a safe person to be around because you arent hurting weaker things or being cruel because you yourself are hurting. Its been proven that men who care or can show paternal love toward animals or children are seen as more attractive. I think it comes down to expressing safe emotions that dont risk a family being torn to pieces or a woman getting hurt/vice versa. This is just my experience
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That part is true, but the key factor is that the man is still bottling his emotions and just succeeding in not letting them overflow or explode. You can care about and take care of an animal without actually expressing any emotions. If the guy also says, "Who's my sweet little furry baby? I wuv you sooo much! I would just cry for days if anything ever happened to you..." suddenly he's a lot less attractive.
 
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I'm generally fairly stoic. For some reason women seem to think that that is a weakness until I throw them and their shit and at times their children (dating single moms, don't recommend) out of my house. I'll take a woman's shit and not give a shit up until she reaches the point that I do give a shit at which point I will completely end our relationship and not give a shit.
 
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Grub said:
That's because a generation of young dudes got told by their moms they were 'speshul little guys and any girl would be lucky to have them' after they came home with their participation awards and they took it to heart. They now fail to understand the concept of being a grown adult man.
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And they also lack any sort of humility or self honesty to ask themselves why any woman should want them as a partner.
 
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If a woman is telling you about the kind of man that they want and they don't attempt (at the least) to jump your bones immediately afterwards, you're in all likelihood not the kind of man that they want.

WinchesterPremium said:
Do tears of rage count?
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Only if you cry tears of blood.

They'll check, too-- if it's not 100% blood they'll write you off.
 
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