He was a really good dad before we knew. he did everything he tells people he did like take us to school and give me at least 4 hugs a day, but once he told us his difference it was like she thought she didn't have to be a parent. We didn't ask for a father... just a parent and she couldn't be that anymore. There were days that if I didn't want to paint her nails she threatened to stop helping me with homework.
I was 13 when she left and she says that she couldn't handle the fact that we filed a restraining order, people need to know that you can’t get a restraining order for being of a different mind set, she was a physical threat to mom and the day she left more than one of her children thought she were going to come back to harm us.
With this in mind it was still I and two other children of hers who reached out to her on fathers day, where I genuinely wanted to get closer to her, she took it as mockery and told me she didn't want me in your life and told me to go to hell.