I understand most people in here want no ill intentions for the daughter, but I worry for her. May is not a good mother. As a female, I've had a mother who was controlling and projected her own ideals onto me (as do most parents), however, May is not the type to respect herself or to teach her daughter to respect herself. She would not support her daughter if she were to cultivate into her own skills, but to only derive her value from men.
This frightens me. A lot. Especially with a father like ralph who values women based off superficial factors instead of respect. There would be no desired education for this girl, no actual value except what she benefits for a man since she's born, all because of her mother and father.
Not every parent deserves a child, but every child deserves a parent or family. I fear that unless May learns to love herself, unless she learns dignity, gets a job (move up the ladder, either in retail, anything), she would let the treatment of her daughter go this way. Her daughter, from day one, is going to be around a circle of people who will value this girl off her looks, which will deteriorate her social skills and will definitely stunt her cognitive development. Her daughter will not be a "based tradwife", she's a little girl who will have dependency issues, and will most likely have lack of self identity/self value because of her mother. Real "tradwives" have other skills, than just "homemaking".
Women can do what they want, as long as they self research and cultivate in their own skills, but I know May will is the type to put her in homeschool without the resources to teach her (except /pol/ gimmicks from ethan and whatnot, instead of the core subjects), and her development would be stunted. Unless May learns to value herself and her daughter, unless she learns to take herself out of this tribe, unless she learns to unlearn all of this dependency issues, there will not be a healthy life for this kid.
If anything, this daughter will either end up having dependency issues, or hopefully learning to retaliate against her mother and learn to cultivate in her own skills and have some form of self-identity, being able to go over some obstacles. I know Ethan and May would not help her in femalehood. If this girl got bullied, they would coddle her instead of teaching her to fight back, or just simply not give a fuck and blame her. If May sees this, please, for the love of god, leave him. Never look back. The thought of "daughters saving fathers", is not a good gimmick. He will think of her as his property, that's the only reason he'd care. He would never let her develop some self identity, nor would he respect her if she was "ugly", or some form of deformity.
He's abused women, he's hit them, he's posted sexual shit against females solely due to how vindictive he is. He will either coddle his daughter until she suffocates (if she's good enough, if she follows his every step until she's old enough to learn some self identity, then he will hold some disdain towards her), or, he will project his hatred of other women onto her. That's not a father. That's a bastard who only loves women who is below him. He will not have any respect for her. If she were to have good grades, if she were to aspire to be some high career, say a chemist, he'd tell her down.
Please do not fuck up your child's life. I know a lot of women who went down this route, and they always believe they're the exception with these types of men. They aren't. Their daughters aren't. True "trad husbands" still respect their loved ones, they are still able to respect those that are hard working and resilient. They shouldn't have to get a daughter in order to learn how to respect their spouse, because it just teaches that only the power imbalance would show how to respect said so partner and child. And what happens if said so child or partner gains some self identity?
