Someone who has completely different sleeping patterns because of work or personality. Someone who is very sensitive sleeper. Someone who needs get up multiple times a night. Someone who who moves alot during night and might end hitting or kicking their partner.
Basically people need sleep and sharing bed doesn't always go with it. Separate beds doesn't mean separate lives or no sex.
I was so, so liberal like seven years ago. Now I see this and all I can think is that this is the work of actual literal demons and the only solution is final, you dig?
I was so, so liberal like seven years ago. Now I see this and all I can think is that this is the work of actual literal demons and the only solution is final, you dig?
Wife is probably right about him. Actually living with someone is completely different than seeing them when you don't live together. Probably the same old "wife is pissed at husband for not doing house chores".
Op is a complete retard.
Wife is probably right about him. Actually living with someone is completely different than seeing them when you don't live together. Probably the same old "wife is pissed at husband for not doing house chores".
May be, may be not. She's a gold digging ho anyway for trying to take inheritance money she isn't entitled to, and an idiot for telling her husband's girlfriend she's planning to divorce him.
May be, may be not. She's a gold digging ho anyway for trying to take inheritance money she isn't entitled to, and an idiot for telling her husband's girlfriend she's planning to divorce him.
Or she is so angry and frustrated at him that she wants to divorce and that means not being compromising to the jerk who broke her heart. She could be a gold digger but most people aren't really gold digges. They do however have toddler like instincts to hurt those that hurt them and know power of money. It's not unlikely that she might be mentally at point where she wants to hurt him like many people who have run out of patience and love for someone they have been with for a long time. To them this person has hurt them over and over again and don't deserve what they had put in this relationship and want payback for waisting years for them. I have seen many people who are very unreasonable and petty during the divorce but after some space, time and healing are completely mortified at their behavior. They realize how dumb they were but at time it felt like the only way to stand up for themselves and not letting the bastard win.
Wife is probably right about him. Actually living with someone is completely different than seeing them when you don't live together. Probably the same old "wife is pissed at husband for not doing house chores".
Op is a complete retard.
May be, may be not. She's a gold digging ho anyway for trying to take inheritance money she isn't entitled to, and an idiot for telling her husband's girlfriend she's planning to divorce him.
Sounds like it was a frayed relationship to start with(probably why they're 'poly') and the money made her realize now was ample time to ditch him and get paid. So I'm going with gold digging ho.
Or she is so angry and frustrated at him that she wants to divorce and that means not being compromising to the jerk who broke her heart. She could be a gold digger but most people aren't really gold digges.
She's specifically divorcing him because she wants a bite out of his inheritance, which, as I said, she's not legally entitled to at all unless he mixed the money with their marital estate in some way, depending on the laws of the state their in. This doesn't paint a very good picture of her in the slightest. Even more sketch that she drops this on the girlfriend then expects her to keep it to herself. That feels like a direct setup for the girlfriend, because if she didn't tell the husband, and it came out later that she knew and didn't tell him, that would destroy their relationship. Also, keeping it secret would give the wife ammo to use later ("What about your little girlfriend? She knew I was divorcing you and didn't even tell you! How do you feel about that, huh?!").
Sounds like it was a frayed relationship to start with(probably why they're 'poly') and the money made her realize now was ample time to ditch him and get paid. So I'm going with gold digging ho.
Both girls are stupid, but wife is more. Don’t know about gold digger, as it is a smart move to wait for the right moment to fuck over the one who hurt you the most. But nah, she fucked it over for herself.
She's specifically divorcing him because she wants a bite out of his inheritance, which, as I said, she's not legally entitled to at all unless he mixed the money with their marital estate in some way, depending on the laws of the state their in. This doesn't paint a very good picture of her in the slightest. Even more sketch that she drops this on the girlfriend then expects her to keep it to herself. That feels like a direct setup for the girlfriend, because if she didn't tell the husband, and it came out later that she knew and didn't tell him, that would destroy their relationship. Also, keeping it secret would give the wife ammo to use later ("What about your little girlfriend? She knew I was divorcing you and didn't even tell you! How do you feel about that, huh?!").
I didn't say it looks good or is good. There is just a difference in motivation between gold digging and being a dick to someone who hurt you. It ultimately will reflect to end came and quite often dicks are the ones look out for more. Gold diggers are there for the gains and will walk away if profits aren't good enough or likely enough. Dicks are often willing to hurt themselves just hurt you more. Still there is a possibility that you can amend the relationship enough that hurtful behavior of sake of hurting isn't issue anymore and they won't go out their way to take your things. Heck they might even let you win because it doesn't matter anymore and just want to move on with their life.
There's this bombshell late 20s goth chick I know. Ran into her a month ago, she was in a rush so very small small-talk, she mentioned dumping her boyfriend.
Caught up with her this past weekend and asked her what happened. "He started dropping little tests to see if I'd be interested in a poly relationship. That shit's for fags so I dumped him."
I can say I have seen a lot of this shit close up with what used to be one of my closest friends and his then wife. For whatever reason they "opened" things up pretty early and got hooked up with a quite fine science chick in grad school. Fast forward about 3 years and this has devolved (evolved?) into my friend and new girl effectively just bullying his wife to the point where she didn't even want to live with him anymore but was still holding on hope to the relationship surviving. I saw this shit with my own eyes when I went over there to hang out. It was shocking to see at the time but now, not so much. He would do it on his own, for example when she hadn't bought weed and had it ready to go for him to smoke as soon as he opened the door coming home. Then when new girl was over, they'd roast his wife over the smallest shit - new girl would have her yapping little bitch dogs over and they'd be making noise. Wife would tell them to hush because the neighbors will get pissed - new girl gets mad at her because she never tells her cat to shutup.
The cat doesn't fucking make nearly enough noise to ever get the neighbors pissed and everyone knew it, but hubando and new girl just roasted her anyway. Former friend is a big nerd, and new girl is a postgrad too in a bio field, whereas wife scraped by with a psych degree from the local commuter school, so her intelligence and accomplishments were being constantly belittled too.
The whole thing was fairly horrifying and made me sick. I was never a huge fan of his wife, she was a huge pothead, kind of a spaz and can be annoying. But not malicious in any way. Eventually she caught covid, and being the bugman that he is, he left the apartment to live with new girl. Weeks pass, he announces finally that they were through, but she could stay at the apartment since he knew she lost her job and had nowhere else to go except her parents.
Couple weeks later he changes his mind and kicks her out so him and new girl can move in. The was truly the final straw for me having anything to do with him.
Couple things to take away from this shitshow if you bothered to read it all:
Poly never works, no matter how many excuses and coping you make. It itself is a huge cope for you being too much of a pussy to either work on your own sex life/intrapersonal relationship skills, or for you being too much of a pussy to end things if they truly are irreconcilable.
Dudes in poly are disgusting. Truly revolting human beings with hardly a shred of masculinity in them. IRL is different from what is depicted in media.
I have typically been pretty distrustful of women, but I was surprised massively at how hard this dudes wife fought to try to hold on and keep her marriage going, even though he was the one who pressured her into poly in the first place, and had devolved over the years into ever more of a disgusting, bitchy, pot addict slob. This chick put on 30-40 lbs purely from the shots shed drink just so she could be blasted when new girl was around and the humiliation wouldn't get to her so much - just so she could be around her man. Just as shocking as how he acted, I was equally shocked at how devoted she was to him despite him being a total fucking loser at that point.
She's found a new guy, thankfully, and he seems like an absolutely massive improvement despite being a literal weeb that asks me to torrent the complete Initial D. He at least likes working on cars, goes skydiving with her, takes her places and tries to convince her to drop her horseshit job because he can pay the bills by himself.
I completely believe the above poster about the "gold digger". She may just be enraged and hurt and going for laying the pain on this dude. I've seen it happen myself and lot of times the dudes deserve it.
I wonder if these people turn into giant pieces of shit. Or they were always that way, and poly gave them the social excuse to be the asshole they always were inside. Like that time I was watching Dawkins was talking to that religious guy and he said "If you didn't follow religion you'd just rape and kill people you didn't like" and I was like "okay psycho..."
Maybe theres more sociopaths in the world than we think.
