i’d like to see this person name one reason to be jealous. these people need to actively and constantly convince and remind people of their true and honest womanhood, to the point where they have to completely obscure the definition of a woman. why be jealous that they have to spend thousands of dollars in hormones and surgery to try (and fail) to imitate what we were born with for free. man i wish i could be a trans womxn!!
growing up as an adult with being 'socially inept' as your highschool life seems more and more like a dangerous thin line...
cos either you fall into the school shooter category
or you fall into the incel/woke/troon category
those who managed to reach adulthood without falling to either of those, seem like an amazing achievement now tbh
which says alot for most people here.
lolcow Peter Coffin's "coming out" as agender/non-binary/etc. was so great because he worded it perfectly to show how completely stupid it is and yet he expected to be and was praised for publicly subscribing to the stupidity: View attachment 3152317
Generally it's staying up late, eating a ton, then movies/videogames until people start falling asleep. With the potential for playing with fireworks, TPing someone's house, and (Before cellphones) prank-calling people.
It's almost always unintentional. You're only home and awake ~8 hours a day during the workweek. During that time, stuff as minor as putting leftovers away properly or taking out the trash aren't usually at the top of the "Shit I've gotta do" priority list.
Not saying they're not important. Just that unless you've turned doing that stuff into a habit (Which is the proper solution here, BTW), you're likely doing it as an afterthought. "I gotta get some sleep... ah shit, the leftovers are still out.." *Tosses in fridge and goes to bed*
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About the thing that i said earlier, this image shows why troons don't create quality stuff they only write about themselves, about queer things, they don't think know how to do another thing and yet they complains that there no mainstream trans creators, of course not! And they do that because its the only way to make anyone care about the things that they create.
Tranny can't even collect toys properly, that Emma Frost Marvel Legends figure is from 2007-08 and has had several superior versions released since then. (Oh God, I'm starting to sound like Kevin Gibes....)
This is the only previous mention of this guy who is strictly against parents looking into their children's online behaviors. Found him because he was Retweeted by Sapphixy, Sean Simpson. View attachment 3151540
telling parents to back off and let their kids do what they want without intervention and saying “kids are people” seems like not many steps away from just straight up saying that kids can consent. it’s rich of him to also accuse parents of molding their kids into their ideas. “don’t influence your own children, let ME groom then instead”.
letting your kids make mistakes and learn from them means shit like smoking weed or having a bad influence friend. it’s scary that some parents aren’t concerned or are on board with kids having unmonitored chats with adults about sexuality. i wonder what age group this guy is referring to? kids are on the internet at 7 years old and should not be told this shit. and of course he adds in the “parenting your children and being worried for their well being is LITERALLY!!!!1!1 KILLING PEOPLE!” like wow these parents are so unreasonable for trying to shield their kids from open groomers like you. how unhinged do you have to be to spend paragraphs trying to indirectly tell people to give you unrestricted access to their children. people like this guy need to be chemically castrated and have “child groomer” branded across their forehead so this behavior doesn’t keep flying over peoples heads. i genuinely worry about how much worse this will be when i have children in the future. the preschools are already corrupted by this horror
Herzog, Singal, and Sullivan have all been getting some form of this argument over the past few days. They ignored LGBTQ warnings about a backlash; they ignored conservative warnings about a backlash. They just blithely stay in their hopeful little bubble that there is a compromise to be found with a totalizing ideology that demands complete obeisance. So I actually agree that their fence-sitting is incredibly lame, but you can't blame centrist incrementalists for the NAMBLA-baiting that keeps happening re: trans ideology in education. That's all on activists.
why are troons so easy to clock, even over text only? it seems like men and women have really distinct unconscious differing typing styles and they never notice or change if they troon out. i have always felt like i could clock people with at least 80% accuracy when exposed to someone’s writing, even completely devoid of context. i can’t even identify the exact differences, i just feel like i know.
here is an easy example.
i was browsing an unpopular opinion type subreddit when i saw this post that seemed weird/interesting. View attachment 3153208 View attachment 3153211
“this writing style seems feminine,” i think to myself.
then i read this comment = clocked immediately View attachment 3153220
anyway i have no confirmation yet so i go check the posting history View attachment 3153229
i win again. is gendered socialization so complete that women and men will always type differently? is it inherent and biological? is reddit so full of troons that i just have a 75% chance of being right no matter what? our universe is full of mysteries that will never be solved.
side note, this person has no lolcow potential and was only used by me for demonstrative purposes, but i did find it interesting that they have a few posts talking about hormone blockers where they are trying to stealth as a “cis” person that had their mind changed, and also were at one point extremely active on stock trading subreddits, which is unusual for a woman. but maybe that’s why she thinks she’s a man instead of just a woman with body issues and unusual interests lol
This shit genuinely fascinates me because I catch myself doing this subconsciously all the time, and I still can’t put my finger on what exactly makes it the way it is.
It’s definitely similar to clocking by physical appearance, as in there are obvious tells like facial structure or hand sizes etc, but a major part of it is simply our caveman brain seeing something uncanny and thinking “something here is wrong.”
If I had to play autistic armchair psych, I’d say women tend to type more emotionally or at least appeal to emotions more. While men can be sappy but it’s expressed very differently. And also like in the example you specifically showed, a major red flag is the endless incessant affirmations of her “manhood” (or “womanhood” in TIMs.) Constantly calling herself dude, man, guy, or calling other TIFs kings and handsome men. It just reads like desperate cope, and as I said, affirmation.
And also like in the example you specifically showed, a major red flag is the endless incessant affirmations of her “manhood” (or “womanhood” in TIMs.) Constantly calling herself dude, man, guy, or calling other TIFs kings and handsome men. It just reads like desperate cope, and as I said, affirmation.
Yeah I've experienced the reverse back in my handmaiden phase when I was in an internet community with a bunch of transbians. It was always the TiMs who would constantly talk about how uwu lesbian they were and how the straights and men are icky and girls are good and pure.
Yeah I've experienced the reverse back in my handmaiden phase when I was in an internet community with a bunch of transbians. It was always the TiMs who would constantly talk about how uwu lesbian they were and how the straights and men are icky and girls are good and pure.
It all seems to boil down to yet again their flawed perception of what the other sex acts like. TIMs think all girls talk like their uwu loli waifus and TIFs think all guys talk in “dudebro” lingo. It’s the same fucking patterns over and over again lmao.
She is right that on some level most women see most men as potential predators though. I am sure we can fix that as a society by, uh... *checks notes* letting more men into women's locker rooms to masturbate and then calling women transphobes if they complain.
For me, I never see them as potential predators wrt *me*. I see them as potential predators wrt my daughter. My husband sees this the same way. Any adult male trying to engage with my daughter outside an official capacity approved by her parents is doing something he knows puts him on the radar and thus is a risk, yet he chooses to do so anyway. That’s suspect.
Sounds like men have some sort of congenital neurological disability, we probably shouldn't trust them with any detail oriented tasks then. Hopefully there aren't too many men involved in things like military strategy or we might have a problem.
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Does he not know that nobody does that whole heavy contour drag thing now lol girls do makeup to emphasize their flawless skin now not cover it up. It’s a much more difficult aesthetic, only the select few can accomplish this. The incels refer to this as the JB Glow. But, this is a black man and in general, black girls don’t have the JB Glow unless they’re extremely light skinned, so he’s maybe not picking up on it.
I think we tend to seek concurrence. There‘s a lot of checks like “you know?” and “Does anyone else know what I’m talking about?” And also advance fending off of disagreement by taking on a “maybe it’s just me” pose. Women tend to be more aware of the language and mean girl traps we lay for each other, so we triangulate.
An actual woman posted a response to the label "cis/cisgender" troons love to use so much.
This woman raises a point. Why the fuck should we adhere to a label you chose for us? Also a woman is "what" you are, not "who" you are.
And secondly while a little off topic: LatinX is the worst label white people have come up with in a while. I know Mexicans who'd rather be called a wetback or a beaner over "LatinX".
This shit genuinely fascinates me because I catch myself doing this subconsciously all the time, and I still can’t put my finger on what exactly makes it the way it is.
It’s definitely similar to clocking by physical appearance, as in there are obvious tells like facial structure or hand sizes etc, but a major part of it is simply our caveman brain seeing something uncanny and thinking “something here is wrong.”
If I had to play autistic armchair psych, I’d say women tend to type more emotionally or at least appeal to emotions more. While men can be sappy but it’s expressed very differently. And also like in the example you specifically showed, a major red flag is the endless incessant affirmations of her “manhood” (or “womanhood” in TIMs.) Constantly calling herself dude, man, guy, or calling other TIFs kings and handsome men. It just reads like desperate cope, and as I said, affirmation.
I love clocking ftms via text so here are the things I noticed:
- Women apologize in their posts. A lot. They apologize the post is too long, too short, too emotional, badly formatted, chaotic, anything goes. Sometimes they do that "oh I know it's boring to read, feel free to skip, sowwy" spiel.
- As you said, emotions, talking about them, overanalyzing them, worrying overtly about hurting someone's feelings.
- Softening their points with phrases like "I think", "It seems like...", "I guess maybe we should...". I noticed women at work do this constantly while proposing something (and I used to do it too), ftms are no different.
Hell, browse r/ftm for a minute. I'm a true and honest female and I couldn't write that girly if I tried.