Another example of a FtM seething about how acceptance of gender nonconformity damages her ability to look like a real man:
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Those dastardly cis, thinking that
women can dress how they want without magically transforming into men. Can't they see how their tolerance is ruining her special gender feelings? She's wearing boots gosh darn it,
and she has short hair; why are these heathens not recognizing her magical gender aura?
Elsewhere, nonbinaries seething about not being able to control others' thoughts:
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The best reply to that kind of crap is just reply with something like "I guess I’m vile then, because men can't turn into women. Have a good day." They need to learn that their feigned outrage and crybullying won’t work.
Don't let them set the terms of the argument. Once the argument is framed as you trying to defend yourself against being a transphobic bigot, it's already lost. Whatever you think about actual TERFs, Kelly-Jay Keen is a good example of someone who succeeds in arguments with TRAs by trampling through the bullshit and arguing on her own terms: