I don't even think you have to be overjoyed with what you have, or pretend to be "proud". Most normal people are just indifferent to them and appreciate the fact they function unless something goes wrong with them, like any other body part. MTFs would have you believe otherwise but women don't walk around thinking "wow, I have a pussy. Hawt and awesome". And even the most dick-measuring dudebro isn't going to be thinking about how his dick is the biggest and best 24/7. No wonder this cult sucks in autistic and directionless people at a high rate, being trans seems to turn gender into a life-ruining, torturous obsession.
Question for the guys in this thread, because I've long wondered - if you ever became or hypothetically were born as a candidate for penile reconstruction, would you get this done? Most phalloplasty methods seem crude to me, but I do feel a bit differently if it's genuine reconstruction, and not just for gendie feelings. Even if it's not perfect it at least makes some sense. It's a similar weird scenario where vaginoplasty is done for women with vaginal agenesis (obviously a different technique from troon ditches since there's no male anatomy to rearrange).