Plagued Incels.is (Previously known as /r/incels) - Subreddit's banned, entitled Manchildren whine about why they can't get laid.

[Rapier Ape]

Which is exactly why Elliot Rodgers was still an incel, despite his decent looks.

I mean the guys wasn't exactly great looking.
Elliot's biggest flaw was his absolutely repugnant personality.
His Gmail eventually got busted into by some anon.
If you've looked into the personal communications between Elliot and his Father/Stepmother you'll see the 100% true unbridled side of the little twat.
You know what he's really like? Behind closed doors.
I suggest looking into them. There have been quite a few Youtubers that have done reading of them. Nott hard to find.
At the end of the day though I sum him up as just a weak little whiny bitch.
Thought he was a LOT better/smarter than he was.
His method of getting what he wanted was to whine like a fucking child 15 years younger than he was.
When that didn't work he generally sperged out and just resorted to verbal cruelty.
Honestly his dad should have cut him the fuck off and slapped the taste out of his mouth on dozens of occasions.
Most people could spot his shitty personality from a mile away like his head was on fire.
Some day if we're lucky some poor bastard who had to suffer him through school or whatever will hop on here, register and fill us in.
Hopefully.

 

[Bad Take Crucifier]

Honestly his dad should have cut him the fuck off and slapped the taste out of his mouth on dozens of occasions.

I can't entirely blame him for having a shitty personality because his dad in interviews seems like a huge, self-absorbed asshole. He describes his son as being "jealous" of his "good looks" which is an absolutely insane way to interpret your own son thinking he is ugly. No empathy or emotion. You can tell in his interviews he doesn't think he did anything wrong, he does not blame himself for not helping his son. He just blames his son for being a failure and claims he didn't know anything was wrong.

He probably looked to his dad a lot but all his dad did for him was give him money. His mother and stepmother were gold diggers (also both Asians) who were not close to Elliot, and would sometimes only speak to the father if they wanted money to spend. Elliot was a half-Asian Hapa, wouldn't call him ugly but definitely more effeminate looking due to his Asian mom. His dad cared most about his own image and having trophy wives.

Longer video: https://abcnews.go.com/2020/video/father-relives-day-elliot-rodger-rampage-24346090

 

[Mr Snek]

So what do we do about it? Who do we kill?

Everyone, humanity was a mistake.

The obvious problem is that incels have incredibly dislikable Cluster B type personalities. That and they tend to look all interactions with women as inherently sexual, which makes women uncomfortable and withdrawn, naturally.

There used to be a TV show on Channel 4 in the UK called The Undatables, I watched it a few times, and about two episodes in there was a man with a serious facial deformity. Not only did he get a date, but by the end of the show he was the only participant who was considering a serious relationship with said date. I was left really wishing him the best because he was a very kind, humble soul, and the very opposite of an incel.

If a dude who looks like the elephant man can get a date you have no fucking excuse, maybe start looking inward. This is the reason ‘be yourself uwu!’ can’t work for them, because ‘being themselves’ just means continuing to be bitter, narcissistic people.

Shockingly, for most people real life isn't like the propaganda you see on TV.

 

[Colonel Gaddafi]

Shockingly, for most people real life isn't like the propaganda you see on TV.

For those out there who have absolute shit personalities, yeah, them not being able to find partners is not very shocking at all.

 

[AnOminous]

This is the reason ‘be yourself uwu!’ can’t work for them, because ‘being themselves’ just means continuing to be bitter, narcissistic people.

"Be yourself. Unless you're an asshole. Then be someone else."

 

[KittyGremlin]

It is interesting how it's a female relative.

I consider these things as, usually, genetic - slags raise slags even if they try not to.

It implies that incels would be sluts if they were women and explains a lot about how they see the world.

I remember some guys when I was a kid who acted like that - they'd talk about nothing but sex, yet fail at every opportunity.

Reminds me of this guy I knew in high school.

He was thirsting over this random girl in math class who clearly wasn't interested in him but didn't tell him no either (don't think she was manipulative, probably just had no idea how to act in that situation). I called him out on it and he said that I'll understand "when I grow up". We were of the same age. I'm quite curious where he is now in life.

 

[KoldHardTruth]

Very accurate:

 

[redcent]

I believe theres way more Ethan Ralphs and thots in the world, than people think.

So fucking what

Why don't you step back and quit crying about thots and go get to know some virgin chicks (I'm not talking about young girls I'm talking about forever unlaid spinsters)

I bet you dollars to donuts that you're one of those nongs who go on tik tok (or whatever social media is happening these days) looking at profiles of some chicks who fuck around just so you can work yourself into a self righteous rage against this so called mass of thots. Get over it

You know how many femcels there are?

Like fuck I didn't even know nerd guys existed till after high school. I didn't even know virgin men were a thing till this thread. Shocking how your view of the world changes once you step out your comfort zone (or zone where you make yourself uncomfortable on purpose so you can feel self justified) and see the world for what it is.

You could put the perfect super sexy loyal house wife in front of these incels but the moment you do they'll turn around and go back on social media to cry about some thot fucking around. Because incels don't want a wife, they don't want love or to get laid. They don't even want to coom. They just want to be pissy on some internet crap for the rest of their lives being miserable.

 

[Mr Snek]

So fucking what

Why don't you step back and quit crying about thots and go get to know some virgin chicks (I'm not talking about young girls I'm talking about forever unlaid spinsters)

I bet you dollars to donuts that you're one of those nongs who go on tik tok (or whatever social media is happening these days) looking at profiles of some chicks who fuck around just so you can work yourself into a self righteous rage against this so called mass of thots. Get over it

You know how many femcels there are?

Like fuck I didn't even know nerd guys existed till after high school. I didn't even know virgin men were a thing till this thread. Shocking how your view of the world changes once you step out your comfort zone (or zone where you make yourself uncomfortable on purpose so you can feel self justified) and see the world for what it is.

You could put the perfect super sexy loyal house wife in front of these incels but the moment you do they'll turn around and go back on social media to cry about some thot fucking around. Because incels don't want a wife, they don't want love or to get laid. They don't even want to coom. They just want to be pissy on some internet crap for the rest of their lives being miserable.

One thing incels need to understand is that no one enjoys life. Most people hate most other people. A vast majority of marriages and relationships are for convenience, money or because neither person could find a better choice. Almost no one is actually happy with their place in life. Absolutely no one wants you for who you are. The advice I was given was "Life sucks, get used to it."

 

[Bad Take Crucifier]

One thing incels need to understand is that no one enjoys life.

I'm happy and I enjoy living. I think it's true for many people, and there are many reasons why people hate living (not just "no sex" but the general rat race of existence). Disagree that "no one" is happy. Used to not be happy but I did something about it.

Lots of people are happy, but the thing is that comes through hard work, a bit of humility, introspection, sometimes luck, or combination of those things. People can choose to make their circumstances better, and people can make conscious decisions to be grateful for what they have. There are unhappy rich people who are simply nasty and ungrateful. While even people who have been through very fucked up things can be very happy with life because they choose to live for what makes them happy. Incels, however, tend to not want to take self-responsibility for their emotions or success at all.

 

[Knight of the Rope]

Like fuck I didn't even know nerd guys existed till after high school. I didn't even know virgin men were a thing till this thread.

Can you expound on that a little bit? Unless you were homeschooled in a basement I'm finding either of those things a little hard to believe. (Excellent points otherwise, but I had to call this out.)

 

[Osmosis Jones]

So if the consensus is becoming that incels are simply masochists and humiliation fetishists, then to what end? I mean seriously, these people go all the way for this shit. Is it like trooning out, except choosing inceldom as the ideology? There are way better topics to humiliate yourself with that aren't so detrimental and sad, so why incels? And I'm having a bit of a chicken or the egg first dilemma: are incels humiliation fetishists that latched on to inceldom, or are they people indoctrinated into the incel ideology and then learn to only be satisfied by humiliation in some kind of fucked up Pavlovian way?

It's so weird, man. I've done stupid shit throughout my life but I cannot wrap my head around going so hard on being a pathetic virgin and needing to convince everyone else of it. The humiliation fetish idea doesn't quite make sense to me as an explanation for the behavior.

One thing incels need to understand is that no one enjoys life. Most people hate most other people. A vast majority of marriages and relationships are for convenience, money or because neither person could find a better choice. Almost no one is actually happy with their place in life. Absolutely no one wants you for who you are. The advice I was given was "Life sucks, get used to it."

Wow man, there's a lot to unpack here.

Most people view others in a relatively neutral way. Indifference or ignorance is common and normal. If you spend a lot of energy on hating others and viewing others through that lens, you're only making yourself miserable.

Marriages and relationships aren't for convenience. This is a massively autistic way to look at things. Emotions play a large role in relationships and marriages (who woulda thunk it?), and how they form and play out. Do you really think the divorce rate would be so high if marriages and long term relationships were cop-outs and conveniences?

Most people are not unhappy with their place in life. Most people learn to find the good things about their place in life and learn to feel gratitude and appreciation for the things that brought them to where they are, and pride for their own efforts, even if they haven't achieved a dream. Maybe many people are discontented and wish to be somewhere greater, but it would be foolish to equate this to being unhappy with life.

No one wants you for who you are means you're at maximum 14 years old or haven't moved past that mindset. People only want you for who you are. People in general can sniff out when you're acting like something you aren't.

I'm sorry that's the only advice you were given in life. Yeah, life has many painful parts, but you will only feel pain if you only choose to recognize pain. What incels "need to understand" is being a cynic in any form is a surefire way to be the least favorite person in the room.

This sounds like a miserable viewpoint to carry through life.

 

[b0x]

Incels don't want advice or therapy, if they are in the incel zone they are long gone, they want some sort of MKUltra'd slave girl. It's probably why pedos and incels have some cross over. Some realize that's not realistic, and are waiting for the robot girls, like from that movie I saw one time.

 

[KoldHardTruth]

It's probably why pedos and incels have some cross over

Incels lacked the proper social skills to meet certain milestones during their formative years, especially ones regarding interactions with women. Normal men were able to meet those milestones which is why they developed normally and moved on to live healthy adult maturity. They’re mentally stuck in their adolescence, which is why they become pedophiles later on in life. Ever notice how a lot of incles/pedophiles have a stage of psuedo adolescence that lasts well into their 30’s? Sperging over kids cartoons, having awkward work crushes like it’s still high school, dependance on their parents, and having no license. Most pedophiles ARE incels. These are typically the guys who get reported to HR because they Harvey Weinsteined somebody or were too touchy feely with some of the female employees. That one weirdo who talks about the weather to that one chick who’s smoking hot and gets dry responses in return. Believe men I understand why attractive women give dry responses to creepy men. They have arrested development from not being social during their prime.

 

[b0x]

Most pedophiles ARE incels. These are typically the guys who get reported to HR because they Harvey Weinsteined somebody or were too touchy feely with some of the female employees. That one weirdo who talks about the weather to that one chick who’s smoking hot and gets dry responses in return. Believe men I understand why attractive women give dry responses to creepy men. They have arrested development from not being social during their prime.

I'm not sure about the statement most pedos are incels. I just assume that most pedos that are caught have qualities of incels, so it affects that perception. Because they are the creepy ones that are suspicious. If you are hot, and/or part of the elite, you tend to get away with more.

 

[Gravemind]

One thing incels need to understand is that no one enjoys life. Most people hate most other people. A vast majority of marriages and relationships are for convenience, money or because neither person could find a better choice. Almost no one is actually happy with their place in life. Absolutely no one wants you for who you are. The advice I was given was "Life sucks, get used to it."

That sounds like a very incel thing to say.

 

[Wormy]

That sounds like a very incel thing to say.

Eh, only partly...

 

[Chuck McGill]

He has a few points here. Yeah, the so called chads don't care at all about incels because they're so far removed from that group due to being select. Average people talk about them because they're able to see how it feels to be rejected and how to appropriately deal with it unlike incels do.

I've always considered the 'anti-incel' types to be way worse than actual incels. Incels may be hyperbolic, but they do stumble on a few cogent points. With the advent of the internet, people don't go outside to socialize as much as they used to, meaning opportunities to meet people are scarce. This forces people onto dating apps where they can and are almost encouraged by the system to be rejected for the slightest perceived defect, while having a flesh and blood human before you might compel you to say "eh why not?" And this is to say nothing of feminist propaganda that conditions women to believe any untoward behavior belies a Harvey Weinstein in the making. Men are being emotionally blackmailed into behaving in a docile and submissive way that may as well be pussy repellant.

But anti-incels are entirely deaf to this idea. Number of sexless men on the rise? There's a third of men that are locked out of the most basic of things? You're not entitled to a woman! You need to Work on Yourself ™ and Take a Shower ™ incel! Totally oblivious to the fact that their grandfathers likely didn't spend a single day in a gym or a therapist's office yet still got along fine. Are Funko Pops, Grubhub, and Netflix not enough for you incel? How entitled of you!

They really do remind me of those guys on YouTube that try to entrap pedos Hansen-style. If you need to share a room with the dregs of society to look good, maybe you're the one with a problem.

 

[Begemot]

One thing incels need to understand is that no one enjoys life. Most people hate most other people. A vast majority of marriages and relationships are for convenience, money or because neither person could find a better choice. Almost no one is actually happy with their place in life. Absolutely no one wants you for who you are. The advice I was given was "Life sucks, get used to it."

Nah, once you whimpering incels become sex slaves to us black bucks you will finally gain a purpose in your miserable lives. Shut the fuck up and start submitting to my black dick, trick,

 

[Knight of the Rope]

There's a third of men that are locked out of the most basic of things?

So you're telling me that one in three adult men has never slept with a chick? Get the fuck outta here.