As others have pointed out, one of the creepiest things about Tony's videos is that his facial expression never changes... he doesn't raise or lower his eyebrows, he doesn't smile or frown... his lips are moving, but every other muscle in his face is almost completely frozen. I couldn't figure out why until my friend and I tried to mimic a man's voice the other day. I realized that I was furrowing my brow and jutting out my lower jaw and concentrating really hard on holding my face that way as I was talking... if I relaxed even a little bit, I would naturally slip back into my lady voice. That's when it clicked... Tony doesn't emote because if he relaxes his facial muscles, he'll naturally slip back into his man voice. His pitch doesn't change either, which is just as off-putting. The deliberate vocal fry is hilarious though.
If Tony stopped trying so hard to pass, there's a fair possibility that he might actually pass. There are plenty of ugly women in the world with facial features that are similar to his, but they still pass effortlessly as women because they're not hyper focused on their angles. They're relaxed... they're not thinking about which side of their face is the best side. If Tony carried himself like an ugly woman, he would be better off.
Real women do the best with what nature gave them... up thread, someone posted caps of him complaining about his "unmanageable" hair, asking for advice about how to tame his "curls."
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Nigga, your hair is flat. Women with flat hair who want to add volume go with layered cuts; they don't slather their hair in afro sheen and go unwashed for weeks on end.
Not all women look good dresses... as a matter of fact, some women look more feminine in jeans than they do in a dress. Lean into your body type... dresses and skirts accentuate your male frame far more than pants do.
In closing: you're trying too hard, which is why you're failing.