I don't think what you're saying is reaching at all since it's the exact same card he tried to play in this exchange:
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Given that we see it all laid bare right there I'd say you most likely hit the mark, especially since Boogie has a habit of repeating the same narratives over and over in hopes one time it will stick.
Also man, re-reading this makes my skin crawl.
"Charlie and those guys don't give a sit about you and don't care what you think and ignore you like the trash they think you are."
"I happen to not see you that way."
"I care about you"
"It hurts me that I've upset you..."
He even equates responding to this guy (while being incredibly hostile) as "treating" him "with respect".
(That "Trash they think you are" line still makes my mind reel. None of them said anything to that effect but Boogie feels fully justified in putting those words in someone else's mouth to prove he's (boogie's) a better, more caring person. )
It's the exact language an abuser uses to try and lure back his victim.
So gross.