🐱 John Mulaney and the Problem with the So-Called "Good Ones"

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Unless you are one of those lucky people who remains untethered from their phone (how I long to be one of you), you likely heard that Dave Chappelle was the surprise opener for John Mulaney at his Columbus, Ohio show on May 20. Attendees were not allowed to record the performance, but Chappelle reportedly told transphobic jokes—something he’s unfortunately made a staple in his comedy these days. Chappelle’s specials Equanimity, Sticks and Stones, and The Closer have all been criticized for their blatant transphobia.

We’ve come to expect this from Chappelle. It’s shitty, but not at all surprising. However, his presence and predictably transphobic jokes felt like a betrayal to Mulaney’s fans, many of them trans themselves. Pop culture consumers have been repeating that same refrain: I thought he was one of the good ones. Unfortunately, the so-called “good ones” often come with an unspoken expiration date.

While I’m not a massive John Mulaney fan, (I am not that photo of the little boy holding a gun and crying right now or Wesley Snipes doing the same thing, take your pick on weeping/shooting memes), I know how much his comedy means to people. Clips and screengrabs of his stand-up are near ubiquitous on social media. Even if you’ve never watched his stand-up, you likely know at least a few of his bits thanks to the ongoing memeification of Mulaney.

As an Internet favorite, Mulaney has often been held up as “one of the good ones,” a phrase that’s been used an awful lot (especially since the MeToo movement’s rise in 2017) to describe any famous cis man who still manages to not be an asshole in one way or another. Besides the fact that merely not offending or hurting people is a depressingly low bar, ultimately he is a powerful man in a system that upholds his power—just like the other “good ones.” His readiness to slough off the concerns of the vulnerable in order to align himself with the status quo is just about as predictable as Chappelle saying something transphobic. For years, Mulaney stuck out as an apparent exception to the rule; now we know that’s no longer the case.

Mulaney did not care that he was platforming a transphobic comedian. At that show, he was more than just a bystander as Chappelle performed discriminatory jokes (and the audience apparently laughed along). He gave Chappelle the opportunity and ambushed an audience with the unannounced opener. Show business and personal connections trump the safety of trans people. Cool.

This is why any cries of “cancel culture” immediately elicit eye rolls. Chappelle is raking in cash, Louis C.K. won a Grammy, and guys like Bryan Callen and Chris D’Elia are still getting booked all because the comedy establishment acts in its own self-interest. Mulaney is a part of that establishment. This shit is systemic, and the “good ones” are all a part of that system.

As of the writing of this article, Mulaney has not addressed the situation on social media, and his reps have not yet responded to Paste’s request for comment. He may be banking on this going away, but platforming transphobia is unacceptable. Hopefully Mulaney apologizes, but whether he does or not is beside the point. He’s past his “good one” expiration date and proven that he’s just like many other cis men in power.
 
Unless you are one of those lucky people who remains untethered from their phone (how I long to be one of you), you likely heard that Dave Chappelle was the surprise opener for John Mulaney at his Columbus, Ohio show on May 20.
I guarantee you 99% of Americans don't know this happened. This is what happens when YOU live in an internet bubble.

Besides the fact that merely not offending or hurting people is a depressingly low bar,
You are at a comedy show. You've literally missed the point of comedy if you think nobody should be offended.

This is why any cries of “cancel culture” immediately elicit eye rolls. Chappelle is raking in cash, Louis C.K. won a Grammy, and guys like Bryan Callen and Chris D’Elia are still getting booked all because the comedy establishment acts in its own self-interest.
Punishing people isn't enough; they have to be permanently excommunicated or it doesn't count. Louis C.K. probably lost tens of millions of dollars, but it's still not good enough.

Actually, that summarizes this article pretty well: IT'S NEVER GOOD ENOUGH.

Hopefully Mulaney apologizes, but whether he does or not is beside the point. He’s past his “good one” expiration date and proven that he’s just like many other cis men in power.
Case in point. Why should he (or anyone) apologize when Twitter has never once accepted an apology? The apology would just be used as "proof of guilt".
 
Hopefully Mulaney apologizes, but whether he does or not is beside the point. He’s past his “good one” expiration date and proven that he’s just like many other cis men in power.
"In power" bitch he's a fucking comedian, the court jesters of the celebrity world.
 
Besides the fact that merely not offending or hurting people is a depressingly low bar, ultimately he is a powerful man in a system that upholds his power—just like the other “good ones.”
He’s past his “good one” expiration date and proven that he’s just like many other cis men in power.
Bitch, your camp is the one with the cultural and institutional power to ruin someone's life because they offend you and everyone else is too afraid to speak out against you for it. Your side is the one that controls academia, Hollywood, and HR and civil rights offices across the country while every other institution ties itself in knots to mollify you. You are the one who wields enough influence to demand that your political opponents surrender both money and power to you in exchange for more scorn, condescending disdain, and further demands for obeisance from you, and they do so out of fear of your influence.

Tell me again how oppressed and powerless you are.
 
Mulaney has often been held up as “one of the good ones,” a phrase that’s been used an awful lot (especially since the MeToo movement’s rise in 2017) to describe any famous cis man who still manages to not be an asshole in one way or another.
The fact that there is a word to describe people who aren't transsexuals is hilarious, as if that's not the default for the overwhelming majority of human beings to have ever lived. It's like having a word to describe people who aren't furries. Skinnies, maybe?
 
As an Internet favorite, Mulaney has often been held up as “one of the good ones,” a phrase that’s been used an awful lot (especially since the MeToo movement’s rise in 2017) to describe any famous cis man who still manages to not be an asshole in one way or another. Besides the fact that merely not offending or hurting people is a depressingly low bar, ultimately he is a powerful man in a system that upholds his power—just like the other “good ones.” His readiness to slough off the concerns of the vulnerable in order to align himself with the status quo is just about as predictable as Chappelle saying something transphobic. For years, Mulaney stuck out as an apparent exception to the rule; now we know that’s no longer the case.

"We don't come out as trans easily, there's zero benefit and real threat of harm in doing so!"

I find that very hard to believe. You give the oaths(and repeat them publicly to your peers periodically) to join a leaderless organization that systemically tears down the type of people you were. Simultaneously you wipe your slate clean while 'othering' that archetype and encouraging more to follow you down the same path. And you're rewarded for how many converts you can provably accumulate.
 
Should note that Mulaney is a great example of failing upward in Hollywood. He was a former SNL writer who Lorne Michaels wanted to make into the next Jerry Seinfeld but his Seinfeld rip-off sitcom on Fox was one of the network's biggest flops in the 10s and killed Mulaney's career.

He was reduced to writing jokes for Seth Meyers late night show when his sitcom killed his career while Lorne has spent multiple years trying to rebuild his career and public persona via having him host SNL and pushing him as an edgy comedian instead of a faceless, interchangeable glamour guy that Hollywood pushes because he's generic and non-threatening pretty boy.

Him working with Chappelle (who Lorne has recently establised relations with) seems to be up to par with Lorne's desperate bid to make Mulaney happen, as far as hoping associating him with Chappelle will make people think Mulaney is "hip and edgy".
 
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