Careercow Ophelia Benson - TERF in Denial, Cathy Brennan Fan, Butterflies and Wheels Blogger

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The new Free Thought Blogs thread in Community Watch has already been a way to find out who the specific lolcows related to that site have been and one of the names brought up was Ophelia Benson, who claims that she was harassed off the site and still continues to whine and bitch about what happened to her on Free Thought Blogs. This is a sample of what she usually does and how angry and salty she can get. She loves to play up the harassment angle a lot of times and for the dumbest of reasons. There's a wealth of screencaps taken by Ophelia herself, but I'm just gonna post the ones that stood out the most to me and you can read more for yourself in the linked post.

Twitter: https://twitter.com/OpheliaBenson/with_replies
Blogs: http://www.butterfliesandwheels.org/, http://freethoughtblogs.com/butterfliesandwheels/author/butterfliesandwheels/

She is also a columnist for Free Inquiry and for Free Thinker.

http://freethoughtblogs.com/butterfliesandwheels/2013/06/more-documenting-the-harassment/

This was just one of the many bits of drama that she's gotten herself into. Some of the commentary on this shit also stood out to me.
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"Christian Chandler." :story:

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Wow. She tagged Michael Nugent. She’s actually actively trying to get me disinvited from a speaking engagement at a conference. Now that’s harassment.

It’s a lie, too. I don’t bully secular women. I don’t, for instance, do what Sara Mayhew does. I don’t endlessly tweet about people I dislike. I don’t try to get them disinvited from things. I don’t make up shit about them. I’ve never bullied Sara Mayhew. I’ve done my best to avoid her. But it does me no good – she still forced herself on me at Eschaton, when I was sitting at a table with Eric and couldn’t escape. She still tweets about me every few days, apropos de rien, just to be malicious and persistent and nasty.


This is a bully-trope that I particularly detest – this business of relentlessly harassing people, then when the people say stop harassing me, pretending the harassed people are actually nursing a secret love for the harasser. ElevatorGATE’s impersonation Twitter account with my name on it was doing variations on that on #WISCFI during the conference – using profile logos saying “I heart Justin” and the like. Yeah no. I like lots of people. I love quite a few people. I do not love or like any of my harassers.

The rest of the post is really long but has a lot more of her whining and crying and going over the top.

This is some of the outrage that she had when she left Free Thought Blogs.

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http://freethoughtblogs.com/butterfliesandwheels/2015/08/21140/#comments

She left FTB around early August and that was when she was in that huge shitstorm where people found out about her transphobic beliefs. The whole drama with her happened just the month before and there were several blogs that covered what happened.

https://sinmantyx.wordpress.com/2015/07/25/some-stuff-about-the-ophelia-benson-dust-up/

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This is a link to that last post that's mentioned in the above screencap with even more information about this strange clusterfuck.

http://freethoughtblogs.com/lousyca...witch-hunter-he-is-dressed-as-one/#more-14364

From the blog post:

Ophelia has recently, ostensibly inadvertently, angered the online trans community, with whom FtB is generally friendly, after some rather tone-deaf commentary on the performance of beauty by Caitlyn Jenner. This brought to the minds of a number of trans folk hereabouts a post from a year ago about Hobby Lobby, when she both dismissed a request to acknowledge that Planned Parenthood actually also benefits trans men who still require OB/GYN services, and subsequently misgendered a trans person who claims to have given their preferred pronouns — they were understandably wary of her and evidently viewed Jenner post as trans-antagonistic. This sparked a large fight, during which time Ophelia acted as though — if you’ll pardon my interpreting her feelings here — that she was under siege by a number of dishonest interlocutors.


After this fight simmered for a month plus (while I’ve been preoccupied with my own life nonsense and could not be moved to post even silly videos about turtles or about the latest video game that I’m obsessed with), things came to a renewed head recently, when a trans person asked her point blank whether trans women are actually women, and demanded a yes or no answer.

Sensing this as a trap, she has posted about how awful this tactic is, how holding her hostage to a yes or no answer is abridging freethought and demanding dogmatic adherence to a specific ideology. The trans community was, in my estimation rightly, incensed by this refusal to acknowledge their requested validation of trans women’s womanhood.

Found this on the Gamerghazi subreddit too that explains a lot of what the fuck happened.

https://www.reddit.com/r/GamerGhazi/comments/3f82tb/what_did_ophelia_benson_do/

Found this comment to be one of the most informative there:
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They're not fans of Ophelia either and that above link does an amazing job of covering a lot of the craziness and backpedaling that she did. @Chemical snorfare went into even more about what Benson's tactics usually are:

Some points:
She gets incredibly salty if anyone disagrees with her and is quick to block/ban hammer but usually with a lulz worthy passing shot.
She thinks that everything revolves around her, even to the point of calling out completely unrelated sites claiming posts they made were about her.
She claims to be an intellectual but isn't the sharpest tool in the box.
She is in her sixties but has only ever had one short term job in her twenties, and decided work "wasn't for her"
She believes as a woman that she is the most victimized person on the planet (as a sex and personally), and don't go suggesting there's anyone worse off cos that causes salty sperging.
She comes from a very wealthy American family and went to a private school in the UK, she now lives in Seattle with a view over the harbour which I'm guessing is pricey. She is supported by her hard working successful husband, however if you suggest she has any privilege...SALT!
Her "blogging job" consists of spending all day in front of the internet finding things to become worked up over, copypasta them into her blog and writing the bare minimum of commentary to avoid looking like the online scrapbook collector she is. Her articles can be 70 or 80 lines long but only contain 3 lines of original comments, but that still "blogging" and journalism and dont youi suggest otherwise= salt.
She's released private back channel info from FtB after she left like Thunderturd did, but Pz Myers has completely failed to notice , even when it was pointed out to him with links and screen caps "didnt happen".


Further reading:

http://www.slate.com/blogs/outward/..._transphobic_or_a_trans_ally_who_decides.html

http://skepticsplay.blogspot.com/2015/07/wait-whats-going-on-at-ftb.html

https://www.reddit.com/r/atheismplus/comments/3eubr4/could_someone_concisely_summarize_why_ophelia/
 
Hooo boy Ugly Ophelia!

The first thought I had when I read that name in the title was a video by Mykeru. Well worth it to understand how these people work.


"Say 'Ummm' and 'You know' and qualifiers like 'I think' a lot. Rock around in my chair like I'm Ray Charles pivoting on a large hemorrhoid. Don't actually say anything and speak in ever-decreasing concentric circles until I disappear up my own asshole."

I followed that whole Atheism+ horse shit a few years back and all the semi-big to big players in that community are a real sight to behold.
 
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She's apparently so "famous" that she even has a wikipedia page dedicated to her.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ophelia_Benson
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After reading up on her thoughts on trans individuals and how trans women have "male privilege" and trans men have "male privilege" my only thought was, "Fuck, these people can't fucking win, can they?"

She posted an interesting response to Amnesty International's view on sex work as well, so I guess we can add SWERF to her list of titles along with TERF.
http://freethoughtblogs.com/butterfliesandwheels/2015/08/a-fundamental-human-need/

Seriously, has this person never heard of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs?
 
being a skeptic, I'm going to justify these statements cos' no one should just listen and believe

She gets incredibly salty if anyone disagrees with her and is quick to block/ban hammer but usually with a lulz worthy passing shot.

Obs its kind of difficult to see where she's banned commentators but she has form in trying to get people sanctioned on blogs that she doesnt control

"she was sending us emails demanding to have other posters’ comments deleted"
http://blogs.discovermagazine.com/i...cord-straight-on-ophelia-benson/#.VpJlTbfhDb0

edit: found one on second glance
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She thinks that everything revolves around her, even to the point of calling out completely unrelated sites claiming posts they made were about her.
"Edit 8/2: Ophelia Benson has a post up in which she responds to this post. She says that it is about her. This post is a general discussion of a logical fallacy and is not about any particular situation. It is not about Ophelia Benson."
http://skepchick.org/2015/07/release-the-scotsman-responsible-use-of-fallacies/

She claims to be an intellectual but isn't the sharpest tool in the box.
Original "do anti feminists ever get tired of using womyns anatomy..."sperging edited when the obvious fake was pointed out to her.
http://www.butterfliesandwheels.org/2015/massive-i-tells-ya/
And that wasn't the first time she god pwn'd by a satirical site.

She is in her sixties but has only ever had one short term job in her twenties, and decided work "wasn't for her"
this is the one I've found hardest to track down. I remember her claiming that she'd tried formal employment but "it wasnt for her" but cant find the comment on FtB. I'm pretty certain the Slympit would have archived it but they are impossible to search. This is the closest I could get

The normblog profile 7: Ophelia Benson

Ophelia Benson grew up on a farm (of sorts) in New Jersey. She was educated at a tiny girls' school in Princeton, a crammer in Oxford, and a large state university in the Middle West. She has spent her adult life in 'a seemingly random series of occupations' (The Big Chill), including several years as a zookeeper, and in which she picked up a chronic habit of broad but shallow reading.

and from the same site
http://www.normangeras.blogspot.co.uk/2003_11_02_normangeras_archive.html

Why do you blog? > Partly to make Butterflies and Wheels more frequently updated and more interactive (as well as that bit more interesting, I hope), but also because I think the world desperately needs to hear my opinions, and I like to oblige.

She believes as a woman that she is the most victimized person on the planet (as a sex and personally), and don't go suggesting there's anyone worse off cos that causes salty sperging.

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She comes from a very wealthy American family and went to a private school in the UK, she now lives in Seattle with a view over the harbour which I'm guessing is pricey. She is supported by her hard working successful husband, however if you suggest she has any privilege...SALT!

I think the "grew up on a farm (of sorts)" in the interview snippet above suggests it wasn't a working farm but an estate.

She posted this on her Facebook
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And a reverse image search brought up the real estate agents ad...$925,000 for a 3 bedroom property. I have no idea what property prices are like but that's expensive even for some of the better areas of London.

http://seattlesharon.com/listing/WA/Seattle/1217-Olympic-Wy-W-98119/38376599


Edit: I followed up on this a bit. I thought I'd cap the estate agents site in case it gets removed and Ophelia denies having any privilege, claiming she's living in poverty (I remember her saying once that one of her only outside enjoyments was buying clothes at thrift stores)

the estate agents ad the picture was taken from..

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Our Ophelia "A couple of blocks down in the neighbourhood"?

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I tries to get a cap of the front but its shielded by trees

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So I went round the back and discovered

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That 30 mtr/yard high wall is the back of their house.

Here's a couple of interior shots from the estate agents ad of the kind of house we should expect...

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Now I'm not from America so I dont know the housing market but a house like that i, in that neighbourhood...

...why is she e-begging on patraeon? I am beginning to suspect that patraeon for these loons is exactly as people have been saying. Its not about the donations its an ego massage.


For years I had always imagined Ophelia living in an old Seaattle house internetting in a drafty old room waiting for her cuck husband to return with a bit of fish wrapped in a newspaper for dinner. She rarely talked about her private life but when she did it was about second hand furniture and clothes shopping. There was one moment when she mentioned that she had needed to go clothes shopping to buy a dress for a work thing her husband needed her at that made me go mmm, but other wise she gave the impression of a struggling underprivileged writer.

Which is the impression she gives about her patraeon

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Buy food and pay rent!

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The funny thing is , the people who follow and comment on her and probably give to her patraeon are the most mentally fucked "victims" on FtB. She probably out earns most of her doners in investment income.


Her "blogging job" consists of spending all day in front of the internet finding things to become worked up over, copypasta them into her blog and writing the bare minimum of commentary to avoid looking like the online scrapbook collector she is. Her articles can be 70 or 80 lines long but only contain 3 lines of original comments, but that still "blogging" and journalism and dont youi suggest otherwise= salt.
easy to find examples. 3 of the last 4 posts on her blog. The 4th was a guest post :)
http://www.butterfliesandwheels.org/2016/shes-part-of-whats-destroying-america/
http://www.butterfliesandwheels.org/2016/just-as-offensive/
http://www.butterfliesandwheels.org/2016/the-radar-has-not-yet-been-invented-that-can-detect/

She's released private back channel info from FtB after she left like Thunderturd did, but Pz Myers has completely failed to notice , even when it was pointed out to him with links and screen caps "didnt happen".
http://freethoughtblogs.com/godless...l-when-ophelia-benson-left-freethought-blogs/
PZ myers comments in the thread.

And just for the shits'n'giggles, Opie lives on the intertubes and has way too much time on her hands, she's a congenital self googler so she already knows about this thread. As I said above its impossible to search the slymepit. However, she had the will and the way...
http://freethoughtblogs.com/butterfliesandwheels/2015/04/meet-the-slyme-pit/
http://freethoughtblogs.com/butterfliesandwheels/2015/04/meet-the-slyme-pit-2/
 
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Ok this could get salty.

Dana Hunter of FTB has banned a couple of Ophelia's regular commentators from her own site for being TERFs.
Ophelia has replied but only obliquely so far, she has attacked the feminist Dana uses to illustrate her point.

get ready for the "that escalated quickly" meme.

Interestingly, when I went to archive these pages , they had already been capped so someone else is also watching.

probably TL;DR for most casual watchers...

https://archive.is/sBZ58

https://archive.is/ilr80
 
retweets Sarah Dittum but not a TERF, err ok.

I think Richard Dawkins tweeted that he was a feminist but unfortunately some feminists were batshit.

I saw that PZ Myers had picked it up, and claimed that RD cant be a feminist because he hates all women and wants them to be raped and murdered in ISIS prison, starting with his wife or something.
 
and once again we know shes not a TERF because she says shes not a TERF, but here she is defending the TERFy comments of the other not-TERF Julie Bindel.

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