Pathetic Gender Critical Parents of Troons - And others who object to troonery while also enabling it

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

I recently found a blog (archive) that is submissions from various parents of troons who are upset about their kids trooning out and want Society to "do something" about it. After reading a few of the pieces it became apparent that these people were all of a certain "type"- whiny affluent Karens who have enthusiastically supported every leftist, degenerate cause in the book and mostly still do with the slim exception of "trans has gone too far by trooning my daughter or son." The pieces are mostly rants and accusations, with very little if any self-reflection. These people are absolutely certain of their own moral rectitude in every aspect of everything- the only reason their precious baby trooned out was because of a few bad actors, you see.

Of course we experts on lolcows and troonery here on the Farms know that's seldom the case- often the parents are somewhere between worthless passive lumps and an enthusiastic co-signer on the hysterical behavior. And bad parents know how to tell a slanted sob story that makes them look like a victim, acting completely baffled that the consequences of their own dumb choices might ever come home to roost.

I started collecting some of the more egregious examples. Here's the widely publicized "Story of Sage" (archive).

On August 25th, she ran away from home. I immediately notified the local sheriff. Her case quickly escalated and the FBI and US Marshall became involved. Sage had been sex trafficked from Virginia into Washington DC and then transported to Maryland. The FBI and Marshals found her in a locked room at the home of the abuser at 10pm on September 2nd. They called me to let me know, and to inform me that I could pick her up the next morning to bring her home to Virginia. I was told she needed to stay the night at a detention center, as she was being treated at the hospital, and needed a rape kit completed. I was frantic, as you might imagine, and distraught that I was not allowed to see her right away.

I arrived at the detention center bright and early the next morning. However, once there I received surprising and devastating news—Sage was now being represented by a juvenile attorney and would not be allowed to return to Virginia with us, and I would not be allowed to see her until a court hearing could take place. And, on top of that, my husband and I were going to be investigated for "abuse" because we called her “Sage” and not “Draco”, and used female pronouns in reference to her, rather than he/him.

So this "legal mother" is actually the grandmother. Based on observations of this family dynamic over the years, and the extreme drama of the story, I suspected a lot was being left out. Of course child services departments and schools are horrifically pozzed and it's a very real problem. But it's like one of those viral videos that starts just as Guy 2 starts hitting or cussing at Guy 1 and conveniently leaves out what led up to that charged moment.

Some of the pieces are more forthright about having contributed, but still evade responsibility. "I Sponsored a High School GSA" is one. (archive)

In 2018-2019 I sponsored the Gay Straight Alliance (GSA) club in a midwestern high school. I feel fortunate to have survived my years as a depressed gay teen in the early 90s, and I wanted to help now, as a gay parent.

Okay off to a bad start...

When we got to that local GSA meeting, I was surprised. I expected the content to be related to sexual orientation. However, upon entering, for the first time, I was given a name tag for my pronouns. And there was only an all gender bathroom—a first for me. Students were handed a microphone to announce their name, identity, and pronouns.

This homo is merely disappointed that shit is no longer All About Me, clearly.

At the end of the next school year, my oldest son announced his trans identity in a text to me and my wife. It was the week of his 8th grade graduation (May of 2020). We were stunned. We were also terrified of losing our son. While we told him we loved him, privately we had doubts about this new identity. We of course accepted and supported our child. However, there had never been any sign of gender issues for him as a child. As his psychologist later stated, “the dots don’t connect.”

So strikes the face-eating leopard.

Over the next year my son’s hair and nails grew longer and unkempt. He shaved his body hair. Occasionally he painted his nails black and wore women’s leggings and a sweatshirt to the table.

Amazing that this teenage neet was able to just magically materialize all this gear. Oh, right. His "moms" were "supporting" his identity. She makes it all the way to his eventual detransition without acknowledging any role in his behavior.

Even the title of "$30k per year and my kid doesn't know the difference between boys and girls" is comical. (archive)

For our family, one of the toughest decisions was where to send our kids to school. We could send them across the street to the poorly performing public school for free. They’d meet a wide variety of kids and learn some valuable self-advocacy skills, but they would not be academically challenged. For $30k, I could send them to the nearby private school, where they’d benefit from engaged teachers, kids, and families. We’d have to drop the music lessons and fancy trips, but hey—I don’t like Disneyland anyway.

So, with some scholarships, sacrifices, and family assistance, we made the choice to send our kids to a fancy private school. The benefits have been great: warm, caring, patient teachers; outstanding academics; beautiful buildings; even a pretty good lunch. But there’s been a hidden cost, beyond the incredibly painful tuition bills: my kids can’t tell the difference between a boy and a girl.

lol. lmao.

There are several similar pieces about how they "had to" send their kids to an expensive private college or Ivy League school and constantly worried that the kid would come home for Christmas completely surgically trooned out. "I'm paying all this money and the college is doing this to me! Waaah I am a victim!" Never occurs to them they could stop paying for commie summer camp.

Today we get the oddly passive "What's in a Dead Name?" (archive) It is so awkwardly avoidant of certain facts (like...where does the kid live?)

For my 14 year old daughter, on her birthday:

My sweet kid. It’s your 14th birthday but we can’t sing the song and watch you blow out the candles as we always have. We can’t even say your name—to utter the name I gave you—your given name—is forbidden. It’s what you like to call your “dead name”. It’s one of the many lies you have been told....


You have somehow decided not only that it would be easier to be a boy but that you are a boy. Your own sister feeds into your delusion and encourages you. I’m powerless to stop her.

I am writing this trapped in a tear stained covid fever dream. I have never felt so alone in my isolation. It’s misery. When I think about the ways in which I have failed you I don’t want to live anymore. It is a low point and an embarrassment. I know that I need to fight not to let this destroy you and our family entirely. Sometimes I just get so tired and it feels like a losing battle. Now even the president I voted for wants me to take you to a gender clinic, inject you with testosterone, and agree to allow you to cut off your healthy breasts. He thinks it would be ok to do all of that before your first kiss and before have had your first date.

Emphasis mine.

I guess there's serious points that could be made about these people and what they represent. But it blackpills me so much, all I can do is point and laugh.

 

[DumbDude42]

same vibes you get from women who were all "yay refugees welcome fuck nazis" in 2015, then increasingly start bitching and moaning about rape and sexual harrassment from 2016 onward

 

[Beautiful Border]

I have to admit, I find it hard not to feel some sympathy. When these people were having kids twenty years ago there was no way they could have known that this nonsense was something they would have to worry about.

 

[Doppio Vinegar]

From the "What's in a Name?" link:

You love to watch anime with your non-binary identified sister (who doesn’t want to be referred to as a sister anymore) and talk about how “gay” everything is all the time. I know there is a connection between wanting to distance yourself from the objective reality of your female body and the fascination with all things being “gay”.

>loves to watch anime
>is a "gay" ftm
Every time.

 

[Miss Misery]

This one is comedy gold: https://pitt.substack.com/p/transgenders-connection-with-pornography

I now knew why my daughter had become unrecognizable. The history on every device was filled with pornography, and the porn was mostly guy-on-guy. It was violent porn. It was anime porn with rape scenes, pregnant cartoon men being sodomized, gang bangs with cartoon children. There were internet sites that contained written porn, with beatings, followed by forgiveness and sex.

My daughter had been sucked into the dark web.

She was only 13.

 

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

This one is comedy gold: https://pitt.substack.com/p/transgenders-connection-with-pornography

I know parenting is hard but how the hell and what the fuck.

 

[Miss Misery]

I know parenting is hard but how the hell and what the fuck.

I think it's hilarious that she considers her fujoshi daughter's shotacon yaoi DeviantArt exploits as being SUCKED INTO THE DARK WEB.

 

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

I have to admit, I find it hard not to feel some sympathy. When these people were having kids twenty years ago there was no way they could have known that this nonsense was something they would have to worry about.

In the abstract, I also find them to be sympathetic characters. Having met a few up close living where I do, I find them much less so. The trooning out kid is typically just the most visibly deviant evidence of their incompetence. There's a lot more where that came from. They have invested in conformity and "safety" to the point of destroying their own children, the future, and- well, a lot of things.

I think it's hilarious that she considers her fujoshi daughter's shotacon yaoi DeviantArt exploits as being SUCKED INTO THE DARK WEB.

The sheltered, parochial attitudes these supposed cosmopolitan urbanites cultivated were a luxury they apparently could not afford, as parents. It is funny, but not cute- once you have a kid who you are turning loose on Al Gore's goddamned internet, you owe it to them to know about what's out there, where it is, and how to avoid it (which means knowing how it's found as well.) And yeah if she thinks DeviantArt is the dark web, there's a lot else her kids could blindly stumble into that she's too precious to figure out how to protect them from.

 

[LurkNoMore]

I Sponsored a High School GSA...Then Gender Ideology Crash Landed on My House.​

Hilarious read. Not suprising the sons of lesbians troon out. She, the mother, got really lucky.

Assuming if this is actually real.

 

[Glossy Paper]

I do feel sympathetic for naive parents who doesn't know what reddit or tumblr is, and think that school GSAs are still boring clubs for gay kids. The ones who only knows to whine ("wah I have to call my daughter Ayyden I hope she doesn't cut her breasts off") and never put their foot down though, they deserve it.

 

[Freya]

they're not really lolcows. you basically just wrote an opinion piece

 

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

they're not really lolcows. you basically just wrote an opinion piece

"I sponsored a GSA 3 years ago and am raising my son in a fatherless lesbian home and he trooned out WHY MEEEEE"- that is a lolcow, also is probably you since you are a terf dyke.

 

[Freya]

"I sponsored a GSA 3 years ago and am raising my son in a fatherless lesbian home and he trooned out WHY MEEEEE"- that is a lolcow, also is probably you since you are a terf dyke.

that is not a lolcow

 

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

that is not a lolcow

I'd be open to debating it, honestly. But you're a humorless dyke so I don't honestly give a fuck what you think specifically.

 

[Fastest Hand In The East]

This one is comedy gold: https://pitt.substack.com/p/transgenders-connection-with-pornography

Dark web far right grooming gore site Kiwifarms strike again.

 

[Aero the Alcoholic Bat]

Boomer, Gen X, and millenial leftists spend their lives undermining human society, and when they have children, shocked that their kids take it to its logical conclusion.

 

[Ultrapenguin]

Ah, the classic women's gambit:
"You're just an asshole with no compassion! A closed minded selfish bigot! I'm going to fight for the well being of the downtrodden against you selfish oppressors, since I'm so much better more enlightened than you!"
"Oh no, I'm being affected! Someone come fix it for me! I'm being inconvenience and it's all your fault!"

> "You can't punish your animals, that's abuse! And pitbulls are just sweeties who are misunderstood!"
> "Omg my dog won't stop barking and getting aggressive with everyone! I can barely let them outside! And Sweetie the block faced dumbass is too stupid to take anywhere! Oh well, I'm bored of trying to fix it, so it can be everyone else's problem now. Fingers crossed that Sweetie doesn't get set off by something and maul someone or kill their dog, because if they decide to they're way, way too strong for me to do anything about it! Lol!"

> "We have to help the destitute! We have to spend our money giving housing and money to the homeless, drug addicts, and to supporting their children! You'd have to be a horrible person to say otherwise!"
> "I can't even go into the street anymore without fearing I'll be raped or robbed, and people have to work 60 hours a week just to avoid losing their houses! This is all the fault of the patriarchy! Society doesn't care about women!"

> "You don't think trans issues are important? Omg, you don't even think transexuality is a real condition? You're a fucking asshole and I refuse to even talk to you further, you fucking bigot. I hope you get punched and die"
> "Why are men all so disgusting? Now a bunch of incels and sex offenders are trying to force themselves onto us and into our spaces. If only women weren't so oppressed none of this would be happening, and I'll bet my daughter wouldn't be calling herself a boy! She's probably only doing it because of MISOGYNY!"

I do realize this isn't anyone's fault, women having a say in things was more a natural result of the post WWII economic boom encouraged by the liberal elite to undermine the middle class, and that it was absurd and cruel to ever expect women to look out for their own self interest to begin with, but it's still frustrating to watch.

@Bani, do you possibly have insight as to why liberal women refuse to accept responsibility for the consequences of their actions even in the face of constant overwhelming evidence?

Boomer, Gen X, and millenial leftists spend their lives undermining human society, and when they have children, shocked that their kids take it to its logical conclusion.

That's the problem. Hell, that's mainly why terfs actually don't like trannies.

They wanted to be society's helpless uwu victims who get to be pandered to by corporations and control discourse and ruin the lives of anyone who questions them, and now that they're getting beaten at their own game they want to take the ball and go home.

 

[The Magnificence]

And bad parents know how to tell a slanted sob story that makes them look like a victim, acting completely baffled that the consequences of their own dumb choices might ever come home to roost.

That's a lot of typing just for OP to tell us they have mommy and/or daddy issues and to blame everything on "The Left." Only thing missing is a desperate attempt to somehow link it all to Hillary Clinton. Thanks, subby but next maybe just don't bother.

 

[TheBigZee]

If I'd known it was ever going to affect me, I'd have thought about it more!

 

[Dysnomia]

my husband and I were going to be investigated for "abuse" because we called her “Sage” and not “Draco”,

Draco?

You already fucked up by naming her sage. It was all down hill from here.

But the juvenile justice system is more fucked than I thought if you can be barred from seeing your sex trafficked kid because you misgendered her. These kids don't realise how much they are damaging their lives. And the adults in charge are letting it happen because tranny feels.

same vibes you get from women who were all "yay refugees welcome fuck nazis" in 2015, then increasingly start bitching and moaning about rape and sexual harrassment from 2016 onward

Or the lady that got cucked by her 22 year old blonde Ukrainian charity case.

Just be careful what you wish for.