I guess that whoever made that Q&A about the site becoming all about Fuentes and Ralph must have been right, because apparently OPs in deep thought are now posts in Nick threads. Calling someone gay is one thing, but nobody deserves to be falsely accused of being a regular AF forum poster.
The women you see obsessing over obviously gay men are mentally retarded degenerates like groupees, shippers and fujoshits. Using them as the basis to characterize female sexuality is like saying furries quintessentially represent male sexuality. You could argue either is an exaggeration of their most common gender's sexual aspects, but they are not the fucking standard.
Right, but to an extent I think
@Meiwaku is correct in that on some level women still are going to see these effeminate men as being less threatening. Whether they're retarded or not, it still speaks to an element of women's psyche. I've always said that's why I think stupid teenage girls seem to be into the uwu soft boys, because they're extremely insecure and see masculinity as threatening.
Does that mean they won't like masculine men? No, but that's probably the main issue at this point. You aren't supposed to immediately think someone is amazing. You're supposed to be able to organically get closer to each other either through communal ties, but it seems like things have become so socially loaded and so segregated in terms of identity, and community so fragmented that it's almost encouraging men to act more effeminate and women to act more masculine in an attempt to actually get close enough to each other to form relationships, at which point they've become so compromised in their roles they can't have a satisfying relationship anyways.
I won't even refer back to my original post because I thought it would be clear I was using exaggerated, logically disingenuous arguments to attempt to be somewhat humorous and encourage idle discussion, just trying to be entertaining and make people laugh, but I do genuinely think the structure of modern society is creating irreconcilable conflicts in respect to how people meet and form families.
You're masculine, you're probably going to be broke and struggle to get close to women. You're effeminate and are some soyboy programmer or whatever the hell, and you'll be around women more often and they'll see you as less immediately intimidating, but you can't fulfill a masculine role either socially or romantically.
It seems like there's no good answer anymore, and I question if there's any dude around who hasn't felt it at this point.
