Are strict parents responsible for troons? - Sheltered, lonely kids want a sense of belonging

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My thought is that there's different segments of troon parents, there's the segment that wants attention on social media, but the larger segment that despises it but leaves their kids vulnerable to be groomed by harmful ideologies such as ones who tell them the reason they don't fit in is because they were born in the wrong body. Are troons more prevalent because of helicopter parents who wanted to protect their kids from the world, and in term created lonely, socially stunted kids?

We've seen sheltered kids go off to university and not being able to handle drugs, sex, and alcohol.
 
>We've seen sheltered kids go off to university and not being able to handle drugs, sex, and alcohol.
For good reason. Universities shouldn't contain any of these things
Places intended for higher learning have over time been converted into something that resembles little more then a daycare for the offspring of the wealthy.
 
Sheltered kids not being able to handle drugs/alcohol/etc. Is true. They almost always become codependent addicts in college and it haunts them forever. As to whether or not helicopter parents are the cause of trannies, I would say it's pretty likely. A lot of the people I knew growing up who have "transitioned" had weird parents who never trusted them and always hovered.

Sheltered kids are very naïve and easy to manipulate, so I wouldn't be surprised if half of those kids were groomed by a tranny online who told them their only choice was to transition. It happens quite often sadly.
 
If anything, parents letting the public school teachers and social media like TikTok educate them is the reason why people take advantage of this gay agenda/hysteria.

Most of the time, the people being groomed are way too easily manipulated into wanting to be “accepted” by people that will throw them to the side, the minute when a new sexual thing becomes trendy and mainstream.
 
Then you're not letting it raise your kids, even so I wouldn't trust mine with the hellscape that is the modern internet
I grew up on the internet in the late 90's and early 2000's unsupervised. That was a wild time that could let you turn into any kind of degenerate. The modern internet only lets you turn into one type of degenerate that offends my sensibilities. I'll make my kids Judas Priest's (Jehovah's Witnesses.) before I let them become commie turd burglars.
If anything, parents letting the public school teachers and social media like TikTok educate them is the reason why people take advantage of this gay agenda/hysteria.

Most of the time, the people being groomed are way too easily manipulated into wanting to be “accepted” by people that will throw them to the side, the minute when a new sexual thing becomes trendy and mainstream.
I homeschool. It's the only way really. Otherwise you are throwing your children into a hive a hive of villainy. Hell I live in a pretty damn conservative part of the world, but when my kids (all boys) were going to school they were lorded over by a all female staff. From teacher to principal it was all female. There was one male coach, but he weirded me out and was probably hired by the female principal. I'm pretty sure he likes prepubescent penis. Kids didn't stay there long.
 
Not raising one's kids definitely helps, if you don't someone else will.

That said blaming parenting styles is tough because in a lot of cases there's nothing a parent could've done. They simply don't have the resources or community necessary to raise children without malicious outside influences getting to them, and the world has changed so much so quickly I don't know if it's even reasonable to have expected any of them to have seen it coming.

If you're a helicopter parent your kids will wind up being helpless and falling into it more around college age, and if you aren't they'll get groomed into it earlier. Without finding a proper environment, there is nothing a person can do that will stop it.

I grew up on the internet in the late 90's and early 2000's unsupervised. That was a wild time that could let you turn into any kind of degenerate. The modern internet only lets you turn into one type of degenerate that offends my sensibilities. I'll make my kids Judas Priest's (Jehovah's Witnesses.) before I let them become commie turd burglars.

I homeschool. It's the only way really. Otherwise you are throwing your children into a hive a hive of villainy. Hell I live in a pretty damn conservative part of the world, but when my kids (all boys) were going to school they were lorded over by a all female staff. From teacher to principal it was all female. There was one male coach, but he weirded me out and was probably hired by the female principal. I'm pretty sure he likes prepubescent penis. Kids didn't stay there long.
Well ok, that's fine and dandy when they're young, but as they get older they're going to develop increasingly independent personalities and start saying "fuck dad" way more often, and there will perennially be an entire army of creeps willing to whisper sweet nothings in their ears, telling them they're right and you suck in order to lure them away. What will you do, kick em' out? First of all parents rarely actually follow through on that, second of all those creeps will be overjoyed to give them a place to live.

They're home schooled, who are their friends? How are you finding social activities for them to be involved in where they're making healthy connections and learning how to function interpersonally? One of the benefits of schools is stuff like sports and clubs.
Degeneracy is one small part of this, a need for fulfillment and a need for community are some of the bigger ones, meaning you keeping your kids away from school and depriving them of learning how to operate in a harsh social environment is going to just make them feel even more alienated even more willing to fall into whichever cult they first encounter.

Every single parent makes all kinds of declarations about their kids and how nothing is going to go wrong with them right up until those teenage years where they realize they have no idea what they're doing and the ego gets slapped right out of their heads.
 
Nah. Troons come out of single mother families, disaffected GenX/hippie families who vote blue, and depressed 20-something coomers without a social life or connections.

Sometimes they crop up in married men but they were probably molested in the past.

Troons are like an industrial disaster. You have to have several things happen or in play before your mind definitively snaps.
 
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I've noticed that its the opposite. A strict parent wouldn't let their child have enough unsupervised Internet access that they could develop a porn addition, get groomed on Discord, or even find out what a troon is let alone that they are one. If you don't want your little rugrat to mutilate themselves with hormone or surgery, you need to get off your dead ass take away the tablet or smart phone that you've been using to keep them preoccupied and be a parent.
 
After watching blogs written by parents of troons who are upset about their kids trooning out for a while, I have some theories.

1. Inconsistent parenting is a big risk factor. Specifically parenting that veers between high expectations of achievement and conformity, and lax moral standards and low supervision. Ie, "we are respectable upper middle class people and expect you to get into a top rated college and work a white collar professional job. We also let you browse unfiltered internet at age 9 and won't say no to your demands no matter how rude you are and absurd your requirements may be." Kids experience this as confusing chaos and will act out to try to figure out where the walls/boundaries even are as they float though this amorphous space and periodically get yelled at.

2. The parents are timid conformists who are afraid to assert their opinions or enforce any kind of standard even in their own home. This is huge. They are very eager to let us know that they have all the right opinions on Biden, covid, BLM, gays, whatever. They are scared of the disapproval of strangers, or of "standing out" and not fitting in with their own peer group. People who are scared of being "uncool" make terrible parents. They let mob rule raise their kids. And thus, troons.

3. They farm their kids out to nannies, childcare, and schools from day one and are generally checked out and preoccupied with their own shit. They are oblivious as to how major life decisions they make such as getting a divorce or moving in a new lover and his troubled teen son, could have a devastating impact on their kids.

4. They are crippled by their fear of doing something weird or uncool or "wrong" to the extent they wouldn't take radical action to save their child's life no matter how obvious it was that it needed to be done. "Pulling your kid out of a rotten school where he's being groomed? That just isn't DONE! My peers would say I was being a Trump loving fundie moron!"
 
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