LGBTQiwis

[Nauseated Courgi]

Look, sexual assault or bullying or whatever is hard and really fucks people up, but the issues whatever it is caused is what needs to be addressed, not the object that you take those feelings out on.

I get the intent behind what you're trying to do and I'm sure they appreciates it, but you clearly don't know what you are talking about.

@Shitted Scaredless, please see an actual professional about this. Kiwifarms is the last place you should be looking for any kind of personal advice.

 

[CivilianOfTheFandomWars]

I get the intent behind what you're trying to do and I'm sure they appreciates it, but you clearly don't know what you are talking about.

@Shitted Scaredless, please see an actual professional about this. Kiwifarms is the last place you should be looking for any kind of personal advice.

Ah yes, the totally absurd advice of “shit’s hard, but you have to address the real issues at hand.”

 

[What the shit]

@Shitted Scaredless, please see an actual professional about this. Kiwifarms is the last place you should be looking for any kind of personal advice.

She usually comes on here to ramble about her personal life. It’s probably best she does too but I doubt that.

 

[Vingle]

She usually comes on here to ramble about her personal life. It’s probably best she does too but I doubt that.

The best we can do, is to protect her from the troons

 

[Shitted Scaredless]

Y'all um. I appreciate it, but I'm 19. I know how to be careful. I'm going through a stage of questioning my identity, as looked down on as it is on the farms. I'd like to try a few things and see what feels right, which is why I asked for non harmful options. Don't treat me like a baby just because I posted about my dead kitten or whatever.

 

[Nauseated Courgi]

Ah yes, the totally absurd advice of “shit’s hard, but you have to address the real issues at hand.”

I'm not saying what you said was absurd or anything. Just that it's well meaning, but isn't helping.

 

[What the shit]

Y'all um. I appreciate it, but I'm 19. I know how to be careful. I'm going through a stage of questioning my identity, as looked down on as it is on the farms. I'd like to try a few things and see what feels right, which is why I asked for non harmful options. Don't treat me like a baby just because I posted about my dead kitten or whatever.

I’m pretty sure it wasn't because you posted about your dead kitten

 

[Blood Debts]

Y'all um. I appreciate it, but I'm 19. I know how to be careful. I'm going through a stage of questioning my identity, as looked down on as it is on the farms. I'd like to try a few things and see what feels right, which is why I asked for non harmful options. Don't treat me like a baby just because I posted about my dead kitten or whatever.

Being slightly above 18 doesn’t mean you’re suddenly a mature and wise adult. Granted I’ve seen people in their 30s act like toddlers, but it seems like people who turn 18 have this idea that some kind of magical barrier has been lifted and they are now officially adults and equipped to make adult decisions.

At your age and with how hyper-sexualized society seems to be now, it’s actually a normal occurrence for most young people to be uncomfortable with their body, sexual assault or no. You view your tits/female body or whatever as attracting unwanted attention so you think the solution is changing it, or otherwise suffer from hating a natural part of yourself. People would have you believe that you’ll be much happier if you get rid of the offending part of yourself, or alter it, but that is NOT the answer and those people are retards who don’t think long-term and believe instant gratification is everything.

As much as you probably don’t want to hear this, you need to learn to accept your body—maybe loving it entirely isn’t possible, given what you’ve said, but learning to at least accept it as yours and yourself inhabiting it is the right step. Your tits or whatever aren’t hurting you, it’s the influence from outside sources on how you’re viewing them that is.

 

[Shitted Scaredless]

Being slightly above 18 doesn’t mean you’re suddenly a mature and wise adult. Granted I’ve seen people in their 30s act like toddlers, but it seems like people who turn 18 have this idea that some kind of magical barrier has been lifted and they are now officially adults and equipped to make adult decisions.

At your age and with how hyper-sexualized society seems to be now, it’s actually a normal occurrence for most young people to be uncomfortable with their body, sexual assault or no. You view your tits/female body or whatever as attracting unwanted attention so you think the solution is changing it, or otherwise suffer from hating a natural part of yourself. People would have you believe that you’ll be much happier if you get rid of the offending part of yourself, or alter it, but that is NOT the answer and those people are retards who don’t think long-term and believe instant gratification is everything.

As much as you probably don’t want to hear this, you need to learn to accept your body—maybe loving it entirely isn’t possible, given what you’ve said, but learning to at least accept it as yours and yourself inhabiting it is the right step. Your tits or whatever aren’t hurting you, it’s the influence from outside sources on how you’re viewing them that is.

To be fair: they are in fact painful to have. That's not unusual but it's annoying. And I don't attract any attention because in true kiwi fashion I'm mostly a shut in. Also. They genuinely annoy me. They don't do anything for me. They hurt, get in the way, do gross shit like sweat. They only have use if I have kids, which I won't because I'm not going to subject them to genetically passing down the anxiety or depression disorders.

Spoiler

I tend to compulsively pick at them anyway.

so I genuinely see no practical reason to keep them.

 

[What the shit]

Do you take happy pills?

 

[Shitted Scaredless]

The fuck do you think.

 

[Blood Debts]

If it’s a question of if they’re going to physically affect your health (like if they’re so heavy they’re going to ruin your spine/shoulders later in life) then I’d say getting them reduced isn’t a bad option to consider.

Also if you get the underboob sweats, may I recommend scented arrowroot powder? Protects against things like heat rash and dampness, smells really nice, and it’s safer to use than baby powder.

And slight edit: what I’m garnering from your post then is not gender dysphoria, just “eh my tits are annoying, I don’t like ‘em”, which is something a lot of women feel about their boobs. It has nothing to do with questioning your gender identity. So recognize any retard sliding up to you going “oooh you hate your tits? That means you’re really a man! ” is preying on your insecurities and negative body image, not actually trying to help you.

 

[Ashley]

This feels woefully inconsistent. One minute it's "I just don't like looking at them, maybe I don't like tits", the next it's, "I know exactly why I don't like them, and it's none of your business," then it's "I want to explore my identity," and finally, "well actually they cause me pain." It's obviously not impossible for the former and the latter reasons to all be true, but given the flow of how this has been expressed I would guess that the pain aspect is either untrue or exaggerated as a justification. If you're actually healthy and aren't fat, but also have such large breasts that they're causing abnormal pain, then there are a few avenues to deal with this physically: Cardio, fixing your posture, and finding the right band/bra to mitigate the issue. From what I've observed over the years, women with back pain they think is from their breasts may have other underlying issues worth being checked out for. And remember that, even if you were to hack your breasts off, you would still be a woman, just a grossly disfigured one with hideous scaring.

 

[Jason Wynn]

This feels woefully inconsistent. One minute it's "I just don't like looking at them, maybe I don't like tits", the next it's, "I know exactly why I don't like them, and it's none of your business," then it's "I want to explore my identity," and finally, "well actually they cause me pain." It's obviously not impossible for the former and the latter reasons to all be true, but given the flow of how this has been expressed I would guess that the pain aspect is either untrue or exaggerated as a justification. If you're actually healthy and aren't fat, but also have such large breasts that they're causing abnormal pain, then there are a few avenues to deal with this physically: Cardio, fixing your posture, and finding the right band/bra to mitigate the issue. From what I've observed over the years, women with back pain they think is from their breasts may have other underlying issues worth being check out for. And remember that, even if you were to hack your breasts off, you would still be a woman, just a grossly disfigured one with hideous scaring.

Occam’s Razor

It’s a troon doing what they do best, attention whoring. Don’t try to understand it, just ignore it’s desperate mewlings for validation and move on

 

[CivilianOfTheFandomWars]

This feels woefully inconsistent. One minute it's "I just don't like looking at them, maybe I don't like tits", the next it's, "I know exactly why I don't like them, and it's none of your business," then it's "I want to explore my identity," and finally, "well actually they cause me pain." It's obviously not impossible for the former and the latter reasons to all be true, but given the flow of how this has been expressed I would guess that the pain aspect is either untrue or exaggerated as a justification. If you're actually healthy and aren't fat, but also have such large breasts that they're causing abnormal pain, then there are a few avenues to deal with this physically: Cardio, fixing your posture, and finding the right band/bra to mitigate the issue. From what I've observed over the years, women with back pain they think is from their breasts may have other underlying issues worth being check out for. And remember that, even if you were to hack your breasts off, you would still be a woman, just a grossly disfigured one with hideous scaring.

It’s a woman, they want problems, not anything resembling a solution.

 

[Blood Debts]

My last two cents: being a shut-in is also not going to do you any favors in the long run. I realize autists are more comfortable having less human interaction and are comfier with their vidya and Discord but it’s just going to keep perpetuating socially retarded beliefs and behaviors, especially in online spaces where other retarded autists gather and shut themselves off from anything that would compromise the comfortable prison they’ve fashioned for themselves. Get out more and do things—go to the library, visit a park, swim at the pool, join a gym, check out the local game store if there is one. Going to a job doesn’t count, that’s the bare minimum; it has to be for recreational purposes. Maybe you’ll meet and make friends with people, or at the very least do some self-reflecting and maybe start feeling better about yourself. If you have at least some grasp of personal hygiene, don’t dress like a clown and don’t act like a complete schizo I guarantee you people will be accepting of your presence.

 

[rotten fruit]

No. Its only my chest I struggle with. It's the only part of it that bothers me, nothing else. It's not as simple as being unhealthy, I could stand to work out but that's beside the point. I only have top related dysphoria, so I'm not sure what exactly it is. Looking at it feels wrong. Maybe I just hate tits.

There's workouts that can help reduce the size of your chest. I must ask though, have you had men stare at your tits your entire life? That could certainly contribute to a hatred of them.

 

[Vingle]

I have a story (from grindr) where I didn't even try to troll the guy, but he went full "reeee!" at me anyway.

I have this unsaid policy of that I need to see everything before a meeting. This retard did show me his dick, but did refuse to show his stomach. Which is the most important part, as I'm not meeting a fat slob.
Just left a message that it was weird he couldn't send a pic of his stomach, when it is a matter of course. As I have no problems with showing mine.
Didn't get a message from him for some days, completely forgot him.
Full tard-rage about me demanding pics from him. Like, if you don't want to meet me. You don't need to?
Something about him not being handicapped, because I wrote tard-rage. Sure, he could just block me. Instead he chose to make a tard of himself and give me a chuckle.

TDLR: Retard went full tard-rage on me, because I used the app what it's meant for. Not my fault he was insecure about his body.

 

[Cringe newfag]

I have a story (from grindr) where I didn't even try to troll the guy, but he went full "reeee!" at me anyway.

I have this unsaid policy of that I need to see everything before a meeting. This retard did show me his dick, but did refuse to show his stomach. Which is the most important part, as I'm not meeting a fat slob.
Just left a message that it was weird he couldn't send a pic of his stomach, when it is a matter of course. As I have no problems with showing mine.
Didn't get a message from him for some days, completely forgot him.
Full tard-rage about me demanding pics from him. Like, if you don't want to meet me. You don't need to?
Something about him not being handicapped, because I wrote tard-rage. Sure, he could just block me. Instead he chose to make a tard of himself and give me a chuckle.

TDLR: Retard went full tard-rage on me, because I used the app what it's meant for. Not my fault he was insecure about his body.

ITT: Kiwifarms user fat shames and perpetuates the Abs Mafia on Grindr. This is the worst thing I've seen on this site yet.

Maybe if you were fine with huge hairy man gunts, 80% of profiles wouldn't be blank

 

[Vingle]

Maybe if you were fine with huge hairy man gunts, 80% of profiles wouldn't be blank

I'm beginning to think the retards there just don't like attractive guys