There is also a good chance that the wife, in case that she decides to leave, she has to leave to another state and that would cost a fairly good amount of money. Sum to that the stress of changing your living situation with children to the fact that she probably has to explain to her family and friends what is happening and the risk of them siding with the deranged troon. This means she would be low on money on a place with no aquaintances and probably with no one to support her if things get tough.
It's a very harsh reality but the alternative is probably worse than that. Because at least you don't have to live with a deranged pervert weirdo that forces you to play pretend.
Lol, watch the Aiden seethe. The height thing definetly reminds them that they are still a woman no matter what, the other things are probably insult to injury.
Also, very ironig the Gayden answers with "Stop fetishizing us". I couldn't have laughed harder at that one.
Yes, it's not unusual in many cultures for a woman's own family to blame her when she leaves due to abuse, infidelity, alcoholism, drug abuse... or even when their husbands "come out" or "transition". Many cultures will place the blame of a married man's "misbehavior" squarely on the woman's shoulders -- "you didn't put out enough" "you weren't sexy enough" "you weren't feminine enough" "you weren't warm and loving enough" "I'll bet YOU were the real cheater!" It's surprisingly common, even in "modern progressive" families.
I never believed that this was true until I saw the phenomenon happen throughout my adulthood-- over and over again. Could have been a regional thing, it could just be my age, or because I live near more "Irish Americans" and Catholics in general, but from what I've read, its not uncommon in other cultures.
Pushing women into accepting their spouses "coming out" or chopping off their dicks is just the latest Western additions to "expectations of absurdities that women must accept". The push to "accept polyamory" is yet another form of mind-fuckery that women are expected to endure.
Say what you want about courts favoring women w/ children, it's not uncommon for a woman to lose most of her family and social contacts once she leaves a shitty relationship that includes children-- particularly if the man involved is charming and believable enough. This isn't necessarily the man's fault, it's just the way most cultures are, the other women reinforce this attitude towards other women via gossip. Abusive men in particular will seek out women who's families are "traditional" like this, or seek out women who have no family support at all. Deviant men who are married into families like this feel safe to troon out and NOT lose in terms of Family Public Relations.
This might not matter if you're a woman with a large amount of fuck you money to begin with, but most women don't have that. Man involved could be a literal felon, a druggie, a drunk, suspected kiddie diddler, a convicted rapist-- you'd be shocked at how people rally behind any train wreck man during a divorce that involves children. It's as if once-supportive sisters, brothers, parents, cousins, friends, become spies for the ex overnight, it's unreal. The caravan circles around the man to protect him. The "evil greedy slutty crazy single mother" trope is an easily utilized weapon to use to malign a woman's character, even if she is straight edge like a nun. Having a maligned character has a crippling financial and social effect if you're a woman, whereas men can get away with being fuck ups more easily. People will simply believe the worst about the woman because they disapprove of women who divorce so much. "You should stay and FIX him! You should LOVE him and that will cure everything!" Social media adds a new layer of fuckery-- like I said, women will often reinforce the policing of other women. Bucket of crabs. A troon can use "TERF BIGOT" as an effective addition to that character assassination, now.
It's one thing to enter a relationship where bizarre sexual practices are agreed upon, but it's another to suddenly "come out" or transition years into a marriage.
Most women's advocacy groups have been overtaken by troons and troon advocacy, so if women try to google advice for these topics, they will almost always get "stand by yer man/transwoman" advice. The blogs or forums that once gave decent advice are now taken over by troons and "gender theory", or they've been long deleted off the internet.
I have noticed a really odd number of posts on various threads here were men's wives suddenly troon out. I'm curious to see how these men will fare if they file for divorce, how their families will take it.
It's like these FtMs try to cosplay abusive husbands-- towards their own husbands. The mortifying thought is if men who experience this live in areas where women normally get primary custody regardless of circumstances. I personally imagine it's more damaging to a small child's psyche for the mother, who's usually the primary caretaker, trooning out. The trooning out of a parent is likely tantamount to a parental death- it seems that transitioning creates a total change in personality for these people, so it's not just the external appearances that change.
