It's not about "killing muh babies", though. It's judeosocialised notions tapping into the prosocial tendencies inherent in huwhite people, then recontextualised as lapses against personal autonomy and individualism within the context US' hyperindividualised social values. Huwhite women of course will stand out because they have agency. And they frustrate you the most, because you are not allowed to patrol them as the natural guarantors of their security and ease of mind as brothers, fathers and significant others.
People arguing the biological cases for or against are getting lost in the rhetorical squid ink and are getting played on a very primal level - in a very simplified form, in good faith, in gene interest terms, it's "people who feel very strongly about not having antisocial people who'd harm their kind around" vs "people who feel very strongly about people averse to extending gene wellness furthering help to ones own kind" in an environment where you don't get to recognise yourself and exist as a genetic kind with gene driven collective interest. People pressing on how foul abortion is are straining as much as the silly hoes that are struggling to ignore it for what it is - but it is what it is. So the real question is what are the conditions that are not letting you have nice things™ that you'd all agree on and would come to naturally in harmony; why are you so low on social trust that you can't agree it's necessary because "reasons" or unacceptable because "reasons"?
The answer, as hinted before, is "diversity", and the fact you're not in charge of your culture generating and culture affirming institutions. Another kind is. It's your frustration with the unnecessary, unproductive and wasteful complexity needed to manage people groups that are not suited to be governed under same entity. It's jewish relativism vs judeoreligious neuroticism from top down fighting it out in the minds of white gentiles in an evolutionary mismatch as compromised tools used in the misguided attempted furtherance of huwhites peoples inherent want for objective, conforming and socially approved fairness.