Child dies after being left in vehicle; father kills self - oops

CHESTERFIELD, Va. (WWBT) - Chesterfield police are investigating what they say appears to be the “accidental death of a child and subsequent suicide of an adult.”

Officers responded to the 14100 block of Aldengate Road just before noon on Tuesday after receiving a call that a child had been left in a car for several hours and that the father was at the home making suicidal statements.

At the scene, police found a car with its door open in the driveway and a deceased 18-month-child inside the home.

Outside the home, they found the child’s father with an apparent self-inflicted gunshot wound in the woods behind the house. Callers had indicated that the father may kill himself in the woods behind the home.

“As they made entry into the residence, they found a deceased 18-month-old inside,” Lt. Col. Chris Hensley said. “As they continued to check the perimeter of the residence, they found an adult male in the wooded area behind the house deceased from an apparent gunshot wound.”

Police said those calls came from family members who were talking with the father and knew something was off when the child was not at daycare.

Based on their investigation, police believe the father discovered the boy had been left in his car while at work.

They said the 18-month-old was in the car for at least three hours.

Police said the father then drove home, where he took the boy inside before taking his own life.

“This is a horrible tragedy on so many levels, and our hearts go out to the family and friends that are going to deal with this, but we would be remised in not taking the opportunity for people to take this moment and realize how important it is to check your vehicles,” Hensley said.

While the investigation is ongoing, the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration tells parents to always check their entire vehicle before locking the door and walking away.

NHTSA also recommends asking your childcare provider to call if your child doesn’t show up for care as expected.

 
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I would've taken it out on the real culprit.
Why go for the footsoldier when you can go for the big boss.

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I'd be interested to read something like that if you have an example. Imagine if the Schizo predictions on 4chan turned out to become true.
I did a search for the compilation I heard it in but couldn't seem to locate it. I think this was more an example of some rando who's a decent writer making up a plausible story, and then it happens for real just because something similar was going to happen sooner or later.

I seem to recall it was in the same compilation as a person who lost both parents in a car accident, which included a description of his dad slowly dying after having been crammed down into the space below the steering wheel by the force of the crash, something that does occasionally happen in really bad accidents. They were clearly by different authors but that one was on the same idea where it could just as easily be something someone made up after doing a bunch of reading on car accidents and sad news stories but was otherwise realistic.
 
This is the real reason I've never had kids. I'm absentminded as hell, and I never, ever want to find myself staring at a cooked baby because I had to unexpectedly run into the store for something and totally disabled the "swing by and drop kid off at daycare" subroutine in my Driving to Work Protocol.
 
About ten years ago I read a story, I think in NYT or something, about another incident like this. The parent didn’t kill themselves, but went on to try to support other parents in this situation because it happens more than you think.

It usually involves sleep deprivation (almost constant for the first few years) which causes parents to go into autopilot. And if you’re not the parent that usually does the drop-off, your brain just doesn’t register the little one in the back.

They had a few suggestions, like installing a little mirror on the backseat facing the car seat and making it a habit to check the mirror every time you turn off the ignition. But it’s hard.
 
I just have to press X to doubt in some of these cases. I am as autistic as the next sometimes but never once did I ever forget my kid was in the car even for a second. I just don't understand how this happens as a parent. I have never forgot a pet. I think the worst I did was forget physics reals and left several cases of soda in a car overnight when it was about 10F that night when I was much younger and before I had a kid. I read those articles explaining but I have a mental block about it, I just...don't get it and some of these cases actually have been proven to be murder.
 
I just...don't get it and some of these cases actually have been proven to be murder.
Makes me think of the redditor from r/childfree who planned it.
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I always feel so awful for the parents who genuinely didn't murder their kid and try to give them the benefit of the doubt. Leaving your keys, cell phone or baby in the car, it just feels so relatable.
 
There's one of those 4chan greentexts where a guy discusses, in really plain detail, how he thought something bad was going to happen on a certain day, stresses out about it, then when the day comes aside from getting distracted during his morning routine and spending a few hours with his older son nothing seems to come of it. Then the twist happens and he realizes that the part of his daily routine he got distracted from was unloading his youngest son, still a baby, from the car, and he of course rushes out to find he's since cooked to death.

A lot of details in the greentext made me think the story is made up just because its structured so well, and at the end it goes into great detail describing what the dead kid looks like that seems like an attempt to be edgy that actually kind of brings the whole narrative down. But it was one of those stories where I would occasionally think about it and be like, "I wonder if that was actually real."

welp. it is now.

is this the story you're thinking of? it's not a greentext but most of the details are the same and what you're describing sounds more like a creepypasta or an r/nosleep type of story than a greentext.
 
It's horrible. And it can happen to anyone.
Not anyone who actually gives a fuck about their kids. Every time one of these stories comes up I see people talking about a “change to their daily routine” and I fucking see red.
If you see the defenseless life you’re responsible for as “part of your routine” then you don’t deserve to continue breathing.
If you equate a child’s life with “Oops, I forgot my iPhone, lol!” you can fuck off and die in a fire.
 
Not anyone who actually gives a fuck about their kids. Every time one of these stories comes up I see people talking about a “change to their daily routine” and I fucking see red.
If you see the defenseless life you’re responsible for as “part of your routine” then you don’t deserve to continue breathing.
If you equate a child’s life with “Oops, I forgot my iPhone, lol!” you can fuck off and die in a fire.
I think most of these people are childless and if you replaced child with dog they would totally get why this was unimaginable.
 
Not anyone who actually gives a fuck about their kids. Every time one of these stories comes up I see people talking about a “change to their daily routine” and I fucking see red.
If you see the defenseless life you’re responsible for as “part of your routine” then you don’t deserve to continue breathing.
If you equate a child’s life with “Oops, I forgot my iPhone, lol!” you can fuck off and die in a fire.
Preach!

It’s a little scary to see so many people here making excuses for this shit. Good thing is most of them are too autistic to ever be with a woman and procreate.

There is no excuse. If you have a child and you’re too retarded to do something as simple as make sure they’re not still in the fucking car before leaving (God forbid you faggots stop looking at your phone for five seconds!) you don’t deserve to be a parent and necking yourself like this “father” did is the only acceptable choice left.
 
About ten years ago I read a story, I think in NYT or something, about another incident like this. The parent didn’t kill themselves, but went on to try to support other parents in this situation because it happens more than you think.

It usually involves sleep deprivation (almost constant for the first few years) which causes parents to go into autopilot. And if you’re not the parent that usually does the drop-off, your brain just doesn’t register the little one in the back.

They had a few suggestions, like installing a little mirror on the backseat facing the car seat and making it a habit to check the mirror every time you turn off the ignition. But it’s hard.

Modern vehicles have started to have a rear seat reminder as a feature. I just bought a new vehicle two years ago and if at any point the back doors are opened when I stop my trip it dings and a notification pops up on the dash telling you to check the rear seat.
 

is this the story you're thinking of? it's not a greentext but most of the details are the same and what you're describing sounds more like a creepypasta or an r/nosleep type of story than a greentext.
Its similar but the one I was thinking of was longer and had an opening where the narrator became convinced a certain day would have some terrible event in store for him. Also the child that dies was definitely male, and there was an older son involved. Just goes to show more than one person had the same idea.

Not anyone who actually gives a fuck about their kids. Every time one of these stories comes up I see people talking about a “change to their daily routine” and I fucking see red.
If you see the defenseless life you’re responsible for as “part of your routine” then you don’t deserve to continue breathing.
If you equate a child’s life with “Oops, I forgot my iPhone, lol!” you can fuck off and die in a fire.
Its less about excuses and more of a grim reminder that a lot of the human race just isn't equipped to actually deal with the stress of their daily lives and child rearing at the same time. A large portion of the population just hasn't evolved beyond operating on a basic instinctive level.

Of course, when you bring up the logical topic of exterminating these people, or introducing laws that would prevent them from being able to reproduce in the first place, suddenly everyone gets cold feet about implementing effective solutions to it.
 
I think most of these people are childless and if you replaced child with dog they would totally get why this was unimaginable.
That's been my assessment. These people don't fully grasp either how much physical and sensory space a child takes up, as a living being, or how much mental space they take up if you're a halfway decent parent. You don't forget the dog because the dog is a presence. Same to the nth with a child. You notice it's almost always dual income office drones who end up cooking their kids? That isn't a coincidence. They can't be bothered to parent. That's someone else's job- they pay good money for someone else to do that job for them, so they can keep up with the joneses! You don't hear of a stay at home mom of twins with no sleep doing this. You don't hear of poor laborers who work in the sun all day doing this. It's always office drones. And they're the same demographic who also end up writing think pieces about "why did my kid troon out, why did her teachers expect ME to do something about her self injurious behavior, why does the universe hate ME?"
 
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