In order to be who you are, you traveled to Sweden to give birth. For the right to be the father of the child you would give birth to. The right to, in your case, be named as father at future school meetings, doctor visits, parental meetings, yes simply in ALL contexts. For that right, you left your country, your family, your friends, your security and came to us, in Sweden. In the company of a future big sibling. Who was born at home, in peace and quiet and safe with a midwife in place. But in a country that does not offer the right to legally become the parent you are and want to be. You are safe in the next birth, your friends travel here and join you when it comes to an end. Pool is left and we have both had time for massage and rebozo before it's time. Although this baby wants to come out quickly to see you, we'll make it nice and even inside the doors before you start cruising. The pool is still unpacked and it is not included. You are in your own bubble breathing through the labor, on all four you give birth to your child and lift it yourself on your stomach. Nice and calm. A new little family member has been born and you are now a father of two!! According to a recipe, placenta is cooked by @queertility_doulan and Camilla according to your wish to be edible. Now we know how to do it!!! After all the long wait, it then goes quickly. BB at home in Malmö, supports and visits you the days after birth. And after a few days all the papers and checks are done and you finally get to go home. For everyone who has been longing to meet you and that new little person. You are now the parent to your child that you are, in your case, the father. And a fantastic parent to another wonderful little cuddly kid! And we have been taught how it works in other countries and that it can be complicated, unfair and totally unreasonable. But the very pregnancy and your birth were just as individual as it is for everyone else who gives birth. Congratulations Ole'. And happy birthday big brother L. Thank you for your trust world. And welcome to the world Lill*T
, with the 'EDTWT' crowd, you know she's counting what she weighed before she hit puberty or some shit as her LW, LOL.
