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Slightly odd thing to focus on, but what is with washing the body?

just seems a weird thing to do me, it’s intrusive and unnecessary.

Is it a full on body wash, or just hands/face in an attempt to make them presentable in those cultures where they do have the body available for viewing?
It psychologically also gives closure to people. It helps them have something to focus on by washing and dressing the deceased. Research has shown that it helps in the grief process.

I do like how they made sure to state only she and immediate family. They must have known what she would try to bring in with her "army".
 
Seems like the hospital was very compassionate and explained everything very clearly and still offers support even though she has been absolutely disgusting about everything they have done.
Not only that, they pump these patients so full of ativan and opioids, it would be the way I would like to go out with my fave music playing and my family around me.
 
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100% I’ve met a fair few consultants that have learnt how to detach themselves, myself I do find it difficult to do that but I can see why they do. They are some of the best consultants I’ve come across cause of this way of working.
I have met a cardiologist who has done a number of heart transplants, and he doesn't come across as a very pleasant man at all. His secretary describes him as a brilliant surgeon, but he's not a people person. He prefers his patients anaesthetised.
 
I got the sense that it's a letter is given as a bit of a standard rather than being crafted specifically for Hollie, apart from a few points that could be specific to Archie

She's dealing with it as anyone could have predicted she would, though there was always the chance that she would keep it somewhat private and only post about it once it was done. The army hasn't really shown any dedication to come out there and start bothering the hospital

I think it's a nice letter but being given it in writing while being a grieving parent is still horrible and I realistically don't know what anyone could really do to make it any better even if the conversation was had in person first - which I would think it at least partly was. Hollie is also not an easy customer to please
 
I got the sense that it's a letter is given as a bit of a standard rather than being crafted specifically for Hollie, apart from a few points that could be specific to Archie

She's dealing with it as anyone could have predicted she would, though there was always the chance that she would keep it somewhat private and only post about it once it was done. The army hasn't really shown any dedication to come out there and start bothering the hospital

I think it's a nice letter but being given it in writing while being a grieving parent is still horrible and I realistically don't know what anyone could really do to make it any better even if the conversation was had in person first - which I would think it at least partly was. Hollie is also not an easy customer to please
If Hollie weren't a horrorcow, I would interpret this letter as a dry, but respectful memorandum of a conversation of which a grieving person might easily forget the minutiae. It's the context of her calling it an "exercution" that makes the letter potentially read as harsh to some, IMO.

The PICU nurses may have a collective breakdown when she's out the door forever. (:_(
 
So what exactly does this bleach-drinker thing is going to happen? In the final moment his eyes are going to snap open and he's going to point and shout "Ha-ha! I was just pretending to be braindead for the last two months! I sure trolled you good!"?

It's illegal to screen record the court videos. They stay up forever though.

Hollie's sure to know about this thread now:
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And to comment on this I beleive its important to lay it all out so people can make their own decisions.
Also, they seem to love us, which gets me hard.
 
Not only that, they pump these patients so full of atvian and opioids, it would be the way I would like to go out with my fave music playing and my family around me.

He's not on any of that. There's fuck all going on upstairs and he can't feel it.

I have nightmare visions of her attempting cpr on this poor boy 😞

I think he is under a DNACPR
 
I think he is under a DNACPR

So the medical staff will not start CPR, but that won't necessarily stop Hollie from pouncing on his chest and defacing his corpse with desperate "compressions".

I wonder what is the hospital's plan for security? They really should consider having security guards stationed near the room. Even just to protect the nurses and doctors.
 
So the medical staff will not start CPR, but that won't necessarily stop Hollie from pouncing on his chest and defacing his corpse with desperate "compressions".

I wonder what is the hospital's plan for security? They really should consider having security guards stationed near the room. Even just to protect the nurses and doctors.
The Trust clearly expects her kick off. I doubt she'll get to the room without passing officers who 'happen' to have business of some sort on the floor. Once the door is closed, she won't know who's outside nearby.
 
The letter posted above was captioned with this message form Hollie:
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It lead to this response of course from MANY members (640 comments already):
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She must have already tried the route of "BUT THE DATE IS WRONG!":
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It's interesting to me they will allow her to wash and dress Archie. I have zero experience with Paediatric deaths, but many, many adult deaths that were referred to the Coroner, and you have to send the body "as-is".
However, because you can call the Coroner's Court well before a person dies that you expect to die soon (to check if they need to be referred, and also to preemptively notify), they the Coroner's Court may have okayed this given there has been such a long time between the antecedent event and the (official) death.
 
It's interesting to me they will allow her to wash and dress Archie. I have zero experience with Paediatric deaths, but many, many adult deaths that were referred to the Coroner, and you have to send the body "as-is".
However, because you can call the Coroner's Court well before a person dies that you expect to die soon (to check if they need to be referred, and also to preemptively notify), they the Coroner's Court may have okayed this given there has been such a long time between the antecedent event and the (official) death.
He's had goodness knows how many bed baths over the last few months. Even if a post mortem is required, washing his body after death isn't going to remove physical evidence of what happened a couple of months ago.
 
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